the one type of chads i can't stand

[Deleted Member 68760]

the genuine non-degenerates

i couldn't be less "jealous" of some r****d who happens to be gl enough to fuck different hot girls whenever, but acts like a complete slave to his primal urges. specially if it's some narcy tryhard

on the other hand, textbook chads who lead the life of the most regular guy-next-door imaginable trigger the shit out of me. make me rethink me entire existence, more accurately. met such a guy from my neighborhood today after a long time and realized that's exactly the life i m chasing.

0 need for constant validation form randoms, awareness that you've won the genetic lottery + ... the most basic lifestyle imaginable - one stable ltr, a couple of close childhood friends, no degenerate addictions, doing sports, no need to party and spam pics of it on ig to demonstrate how amazing your existence is, a stable, unremarkable, low-exposure job, a couple of generic hobbies. that's literally it. peak existence

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

Its like quiet luxury. You don't need all these name brands to people know you're quality. Looks and money are very similar in a way

 

[Deleted Member 68760]

Its like quiet luxury. You don't need all these name brands to people know you're quality. Looks and money are very similar in a way

a good parallel, if i'm getting what you're saying. you'll never see a rich guy who is all about buying every latest product/status symbol that gets released. they even dislike money as the topic of the conversation.

 

[Deleted Member 38261]

Imo Chad is nicer than Stacy. Women are way more mean to average to ugly dudes because it's primal instinct to signal they don't wanna fuck them ever

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

a good parallel, if i'm getting what you're saying. you'll never see a rich guy who is all about buying every latest product/status symbol that gets released. they even dislike money as the topic of the conversation.

Yes yes that's what I'm saying. I feel like a good example of that is David gandy. He's very good looking but mild mannered. He doesn't feel the need to overcompensate for his looks by trying to be the loudest in the room and he doesn't boast either. True rich/good looking people don't try to make others insecure for their own benefit or make their lux lifestyles constantly known to everyone around them

 

[Deleted Member 68760]

Imo Chad is nicer than Stacy. Women are way more mean to average to ugly dudes because it's primal instinct to signal they don't wanna fuck them ever

the "stacies are nicer than average girls" trope is definitely a delusion/illusion. it only appears so because and when the difference in looks is so large even the "stacy" knows the guy won't be delusional enough to try something.

but, related to your post, one of the more aspects of the "blackpill" is that most women and men are completely different people depending on whether they perceive you as gl/high value enough or not. it's got nothing to do with anyone being "inherently" evil or shallow - you just don't get to see the same side of them if they deem you as a social pariah or a roach

 

[Newday]

Imo Chad is nicer than Stacy. Women are way more mean to average to ugly dudes because it's primal instinct to signal they don't wanna fuck them ever

Sureee, women are the kindest and sweetest souls on earth

 

[Deleted Member 68760]

Yes yes that's what I'm saying. I feel like a good example of that is David gandy. He's very good looking but mild mannered. He doesn't feel the need to overcompensate for his looks by trying to be the loudest in the room and he doesn't boast either. True rich/good looking people don't try to make others insecure for their own benefit or make their lux lifestyles constantly known to everyone around them

based on a solid sample of people considering i ve spent a couple of years on a large uni campus + am socially connected generally, i have yet to see one "i got 60 bodies, bro, i'm the shit" chad. almost without exception, these guys have a gl girlfriend and that's it. sure, they always have a couple of high quality "backup" options available, but it's never them who pestered me with their boasting. that's reserved for decently above average, but still just that - decently above average guys with a perpetual chip on their shoulder. insufferable to be around because even if you wanted to, you can't genuinely "give it to them" and admit they are the force of nature they think they are.

had one of these guys in my primary social circle and he just regressed to full blown desperation with years. i wouldn't say he has it much better than the avg truecel agonizing on .org emotionally at this point, lmao. and i know for a fact that he's fucked 50+ girls thanks to his solid looks and the aforementioned chip.

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

based on a solid sample of people considering i ve spent a couple of years on a large uni campus + am socially connected generally, i have yet to see one "i got 60 bodies, bro, i'm the shit" chad. almost without exception, these guys have a gl girlfriend and that's it. sure, they always have a couple of high quality "backup" options available, but it's never them who pestered me with their boasting. that's reserved for decently above average, but still just that - decently above average guys with a perpetual chip on their shoulder. insufferable to be around because even if you wanted to, you can't genuinely "give it to them" and admit they are the force of nature they think they are.

had one of these guys in my primary social circle and he just regressed to full blown desperation with years. i wouldn't say he has it much better than the avg truecel agonizing on .org, lmao. and i know for a fact that he's fucked 50+ girls thanks to his solid looks and the aforementioned chip.

Yeah and even if they've fucked 50 girls and what not, they're still not happy. They're trying to live the life style they THINK a true chad lives always trying to wear shoes they can't fill. It must be exhausting not having your own inner peace and needing the validation of others all the time. If you know you're above average, good for you. But you don't need others to remind you of it. The way you move through the world and are treated is reminder enough.