Orobas
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Agency requires cognitive abilities to act in a way that is corherrent. If you feel bad now you want to feel better in the future. Thus you take steps that bring you to that future.
Parents are co-agentic. They have to take steps for their children the “have to” imperative is responsibility.
That‘s simple. It‘s a measure of steps taken towards the future inside a commitment to a state of existence that reflects a desired outcome.
Now when it comes to commitment to another person in a relationship there is a certain thing called women. Women do not think like this. They think like i am a victim and others have the burden to make me feel good. That obviously doesn’t work. You can‘t be an adult and say others are responsible for my state of being and my commitments are depending not on my word but on my state of being which others are responsible for.
So the only way to be in a relationship with a woman is to understand that they can‘t commit to a word but to a feeling. In other words don‘t think of them like agentic actors in a logical world but burdens in a hellscape.
Otherwise you will feel ashamed and lonely. Which is a mistake. It reduces your agency and makes you depressed.
Being alone doesn’t make you feel lonely it‘s the lack of agency. Objects in motion don‘t get hit. Frozen objects get hit.
Parents are co-agentic. They have to take steps for their children the “have to” imperative is responsibility.
That‘s simple. It‘s a measure of steps taken towards the future inside a commitment to a state of existence that reflects a desired outcome.
Now when it comes to commitment to another person in a relationship there is a certain thing called women. Women do not think like this. They think like i am a victim and others have the burden to make me feel good. That obviously doesn’t work. You can‘t be an adult and say others are responsible for my state of being and my commitments are depending not on my word but on my state of being which others are responsible for.
So the only way to be in a relationship with a woman is to understand that they can‘t commit to a word but to a feeling. In other words don‘t think of them like agentic actors in a logical world but burdens in a hellscape.
Otherwise you will feel ashamed and lonely. Which is a mistake. It reduces your agency and makes you depressed.
Being alone doesn’t make you feel lonely it‘s the lack of agency. Objects in motion don‘t get hit. Frozen objects get hit.
