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Hypothesis The reason im scared to be in any ltr

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Honestly, irl i have never ever seen any happy marriages

its always that they dont talk/fight alot

its so common, plus divorce statistics.
Also so many people say they arent attracted to their partner when they got older hence fell out of love

Like i dont know, its so hard for me to believe in happy marriages because ive never seen any irl
 
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Honestly, irl i have never ever seen any happy marriages

its always that they dont talk/fight alot

its so common, plus divorce statistics.
Also so many people say they arent attracted to their partner when they got older hence fell out of love

Like i dont know, its so hard for me to believe in happy marriages because ive never seen any irl
i have seen an incredible marriage before and its like, otherwordly seeing a marriage that genuinely doesnt suck. there both like 70s and own a small hobby farm and their life is genuinely the most enviable thing ever
 
I can’t go on LTR because I live in a mountain, raised like a monk, I’ve never seen a woman, never spoken to one, the only thing I know is that theyr so fucking evil
wasnt there a guy who genuinely never saw a woman because he lived with his grandma
 
just meet a good person im to tired to explain my position completely
People shift personalities. They can be good people at first then start to be unbearable pos
For men, you have to not think with yout dick and don't let disrespect slide over a bunch of sex
 
People shift personalities. They can be good people at first then start to be unbearable pos
For men, you have to not think with yout dick and don't let disrespect slide over a bunch of sex
completely agree
 
People shift personalities. They can be good people at first then start to be unbearable pos
For men, you have to not think with yout dick and don't let disrespect slide over a bunch of sex
Its so scary imagine youre with someone for decades then they change like people even divorce at 40-50
 
i saw alot of couples breaking out and shi only because they dont understand what power just talking with eachother abt problems and things u dont like in each other have
simply talk brutal
 
Honestly, irl i have never ever seen any happy marriages

its always that they dont talk/fight alot

its so common, plus divorce statistics.
Also so many people say they arent attracted to their partner when they got older hence fell out of love

Like i dont know, its so hard for me to believe in happy marriages because ive never seen any irl
Aw. That's actually so sad.
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Honestly, irl i have never ever seen any happy marriages

its always that they dont talk/fight alot

its so common, plus divorce statistics.
Also so many people say they arent attracted to their partner when they got older hence fell out of love

Like i dont know, its so hard for me to believe in happy marriages because ive never seen any irl
im not scared of being in a ltr im just incapable of getting into one
 
Its so scary imagine youre with someone for decades then they change like people even divorce at 40-50
Unfortunately that's life, that's why i try to build my own peace and then allow a decent woman in it. But i'm also aware it can ends at any moment so i'm not losing everything over a woman
simply talk brutal
Most women don't even communicate properly about their feelings. Also good luck to even communicate with a girl who don't see any wrong or have already a step outside the relationship
 
Unfortunately that's life, that's why i try to build my own peace and then allow a decent woman in it. But i'm also aware it can ends at any moment so i'm not losing everything over a woman
like the idea of having someone for life and knowing they wont cheat or anything is beautiful but its js not reality so u need to be prepared for things sadly
Most women don't even communicate properly about their feelings. Also good luck to even communicate with a girl who don't see any wrong or have already a step outside the relationship
because tbh its seen as the guy is supposed to let the girl do whatever to him and alot of people encourage that type of relationship and its like an ideal for some women
 
Unfortunately that's life, that's why i try to build my own peace and then allow a decent woman in it. But i'm also aware it can ends at any moment so i'm not losing everything over a woman

Most women don't even communicate properly about their feelings. Also good luck to even communicate with a girl who don't see any wrong or have already a step outside the relationship
then its ggs, if a person simply dont want to understand both sides or already leaving without trying to make things better then i think its all because u choose wrong person
 
find love in 2026 mission impossible, literally impossible to find good long term relationships nowadays
 
Honestly, irl i have never ever seen any happy marriages

its always that they dont talk/fight alot

its so common, plus divorce statistics.
Also so many people say they arent attracted to their partner when they got older hence fell out of love

Like i dont know, its so hard for me to believe in happy marriages because ive never seen any irl
i genuinely couldnt think of anything less appealing than an LTR
 
i genuinely couldnt think of anything less appealing than an LTR
So you will be alone all ur life kind of? an LTR is very appealing to me if it is like how its supposed to be

just someone whos there for you in your worst moments definitely
 
as long as social media and shit like young hoes exist (same to guys that count girls as just hole) its gonna be impossible to find the one and only for ltr
 
So you will be alone all ur life kind of? an LTR is very appealing to me if it is like how its supposed to be

just someone whos there for you in your worst moments definitely
well ideally i wont be alone forever
i just dont see a point in getting into an LTR when its only gonna end in a cucking of some sorts
 
Honestly, irl i have never ever seen any happy marriages

its always that they dont talk/fight alot

its so common, plus divorce statistics.
Also so many people say they arent attracted to their partner when they got older hence fell out of love

Like i dont know, its so hard for me to believe in happy marriages because ive never seen any irl
yeah, my parents arenr in a happy marriage so i dont believe in marriages either
 
because tbh its seen as the guy is supposed to let the girl do whatever to him and alot of people encourage that type of relationship and its like an ideal for some women
Don't date a self-claimed misandrist/feminist and it should be fine, normally

well ideally i wont be alone forever
i just dont see a point in getting into an LTR when its only gonna end in a cucking of some sorts
So you're just gonna hop on short term things ?
 
short term things even sounds disgusting ngl
 
Honestly, irl i have never ever seen any happy marriages

its always that they dont talk/fight alot

its so common, plus divorce statistics.
Also so many people say they arent attracted to their partner when they got older hence fell out of love

Like i dont know, its so hard for me to believe in happy marriages because ive never seen any irl
i understand. i especially don’t want to end up like my parents. they had to work so hard to be where they are and I don’t think im strong enough to do it. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to find a person who fits my life dynamic.
 
i understand. i especially don’t want to end up like my parents. they had to work so hard to be where they are and I don’t think im strong enough to do it. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to find a person who fits my life dynamic.
if u dont wanna put effort in relationships to made them perfect thats respectfully all on u
 
Honestly, irl i have never ever seen any happy marriages

its always that they dont talk/fight alot

its so common, plus divorce statistics.
Also so many people say they arent attracted to their partner when they got older hence fell out of love

Like i dont know, its so hard for me to believe in happy marriages because ive never seen any irl
mine just broke up w me after like some months, didn't even try to talk it out

retarded ass n*****s don't know how to keep a relationship thriving
 
mine just broke up w me after like some months, didn't even try to talk it out

retarded ass n*****s don't know how to keep a relationship thriving
breakup over what
 
mine just broke up w me after like some months, didn't even try to talk it out

retarded ass n*****s don't know how to keep a relationship thriving
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mfs in 2026 cant even talk things out normally anymore
 
if u dont wanna put effort in relationships to made them perfect thats respectfully all on u
im not going to move to a different country and stay with my partner on one income that puts me in a poverty level because he can’t find a job for 10+ years. that would sure put a strain on the relationship that I don’t want for my future family .
 
over simple arguments that could be solved easily with good communication
Yeah thats the thing, in any ltr you need to resolve alot of arguments and so many people backout or cant handle it yk
 
Yeah thats the thing, in any ltr you need to resolve alot of arguments and so many people backout or cant handle it yk
Yes, thats people who aren't mature enough or ready to be in a ltr, of course there will be arguments.

but even if the relationship lasts lets say 15+ years, something is bound to happen...
 
im not going to move to a different country and stay with my partner on one income that puts me in a poverty level because he can’t find a job for 10+ years. that would sure put a strain on the relationship that I don’t want for my future family .
most important question is why the fuck ur partner cant find a job tho
 
istg people just gonna say bullshit to make excuses why they dont wanna do shit in rls
 
i deadass got kinda ragebaited im about to release all my russian powa
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most important question is why the fuck ur partner cant find a job tho
that’s the hardship my parents faced. u keep saying some bs about people not wanting to work through problems in relationships but you tell me if you could put up with that
 

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