The surface is the only thing that matters in life

[Alurmo]

If u can shape the aesthetic reality with style, depth, and power, then I would say that's a great life
as much as i criticize this site and org for its beliefs the idea to have a beautiful body/face is apart of nature, but much of the community here uses this obsession with appearances of themselves or lust as a distraction, i feel like this sites obsession of appearences comes out of a place of insecurity/validation/fears, it should come from a more noble approach, a one not concerned with other people, only then is it true beauty, when its done to show off physical excellence(like gymcelling without seeking outward validation/vanity) or self expression only then is it aesthetic imo

 

[fashist]

the desire to be beautiful roots from the desire to reproduce, no?
so how could you focus on aesthetics solely for yourself
it’s always going to be in turn for someone else, whether it’s slays, friends or a partner

 

[Alurmo]

the desire to be beautiful roots from the desire to reproduce, no?
so how could you focus on aesthetics solely for yourself
it’s always going to be in turn for someone else, whether it’s slays, friends or a partner

yeah but then u would have to look at what forces ur desire for reproduction itself, a desire for creation and a higher cause(i.e something beyond ur life- a child)
As for why self-centered aesthetic appearance is so important, my theory is that, it shows vitality and strength. When u see a healthy person, u dont think he's unhealthy and when he truly is, aesthetic from a point of overflowing excellence, then he is truly beautiful

 

[fashist]

yeah but then u would have to look at what forces ur desire for reproduction itself, a desire for creation and a higher cause(i.e something beyond ur life- a child)
As for why self-centered aesthetic appearance is so important, my theory is that, it shows vitality and strength. When u see a healthy person, u dont think he's unhealthy and when he truly is, aesthetic from a point of overflowing excellence, then he is truly beautiful

so would aesthetic improvement solely for rhe purpose of a partner and to reproduce be something you consider noble? or healthy?

 

[Alurmo]

so would aesthetic improvement solely for rhe purpose of a partner and to reproduce be something you consider noble? or healthy?

i would say if done in a sense of validation, no
not ENTIRELY sure on if its done for a partner yet tbh, but its not inherintly bad to want to improve ur aesthetics, just depends on what drives it
as long as its not a distraction from what u truly want to do and life then its not that bad of a hinderness