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I’ve spent a long time reflecting on who I am and where I stand, not just in terms of looksmaxxing, but on a deeper, personal level. For awhile now, I’ve contributed to this forum, talked about looksmaxxing — but there’s been a part of myself I’ve kept hidden, even as I pursued “truth” in all other aspects of life.
This is difficult to write, but I believe honesty is important — especially here, where we pride ourselves on brutal honesty, self-improvement, and facing reality no matter how hard it is.
I like guys. (and girls, I'm not gay)
This isn’t a phase. It’s not bait. It’s not some cope or a troll post. It’s who I am. And I’m not ashamed of it anymore.
I know this forum has a wide range of views. I’ve seen the threads. I’m not naïve. But I’m saying this because I refuse to live in fear or lie to the people I’ve talked with for years. My sexuality is just one part of me — it doesn’t erase the discipline I’ve built, the self-awareness, the transformation I’ve worked toward. I’m still me. I still believe in self-mastery, in confronting your flaws, in striving to be better.
If you want to unfollow, block, or stop engaging, that’s your choice. I understand. But for those who stay, I appreciate it. And if there’s anyone else here going through something similar — hiding part of yourself, afraid of judgment — maybe this post shows you that you don’t have to lie forever.
This won’t turn into a gay diary. I’m still focused on goals. Still looksmaxxing. Still pushing forward. Just with one less mask.
Thanks for reading,
- got.daim / frax
This is difficult to write, but I believe honesty is important — especially here, where we pride ourselves on brutal honesty, self-improvement, and facing reality no matter how hard it is.
I like guys. (and girls, I'm not gay)
This isn’t a phase. It’s not bait. It’s not some cope or a troll post. It’s who I am. And I’m not ashamed of it anymore.
I know this forum has a wide range of views. I’ve seen the threads. I’m not naïve. But I’m saying this because I refuse to live in fear or lie to the people I’ve talked with for years. My sexuality is just one part of me — it doesn’t erase the discipline I’ve built, the self-awareness, the transformation I’ve worked toward. I’m still me. I still believe in self-mastery, in confronting your flaws, in striving to be better.
If you want to unfollow, block, or stop engaging, that’s your choice. I understand. But for those who stay, I appreciate it. And if there’s anyone else here going through something similar — hiding part of yourself, afraid of judgment — maybe this post shows you that you don’t have to lie forever.
This won’t turn into a gay diary. I’m still focused on goals. Still looksmaxxing. Still pushing forward. Just with one less mask.
Thanks for reading,
- got.daim / frax
