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The Ultimate guide to nofap

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I can't remember why I felt the urge to masturbate but I decided to watch more without masturbating. Within the moment, I spontaneously decided to be as honest as possible to myself in why I masturbate to porn in the first place.

I have been exposed to porn ever since I was 12, by accident. Since then I have developed some fucked up fetishes because the old vanilla categories aren't as stimulating as they used to be. Porn has probably affected my maturity thus turning me into a subhuman.

After watching it without fapping I felt utterly disgusted as if I have been subsided with a scam or something inferior to what I deserve. The reason my mind came attached to porn and therefore the fucked up shit was due to my incapability to take control of my instincts and think clearly. Porn suppresses your superiority and authenticity as a man. If you wanna quit porn yourself you're gonna have to experience what I am talking about first hand. I see porn as futile and sex as overhyped.

Getting to this point requires accepting neuroses and addiction. The feeling after feels rejecting the attachment to a dopamine high feels like an empty place, not from a place of lack but instead of a place of calm like a steady ocean.

Porn was used in my life to run away from all of my problems after rejecting porn my problems are still there however I am in a position where I can properly face them.

Nofap is flawed because the act of participating in it replaces the dopamine sourced from porn to nofap. The problem with all addiction is your relation to dopamine. This paradigm should be rejected you don't need to actively define yourself in a box to solve your porn addiction. Do something in your spare time worthwhile rather than spend your time fapping, it's as simple as that.
 
Ok. Now here is how I quit watching pornography.

I asked Jesus into my life. Yes, it is as simple as that. I'm not trying to give a sermon here or convert anyone, but I tell you that looking at a women with lust is a sin itself.

After I converted, I realized I had to repent from my sins, i.e., turn away from them. Basically I had to quit from my sinful lifestyle and sin as less as possible, understanding that I have to say sorry to God for my past sinful lifestyle.

In all seriousness, my two biggest sins are cussing and sexual temptation (lust).
I have conquered my sin of lust I believe, I have told myself to look at a woman's face and not her breasts or butt anymore in a sexual way.

I have successfully quit watching pornography. To be very honest, the last time I watched it was probably last month, some vanilla milf sex video. I didn't tell myself that this was the last video ever though. But I am glad it was.

Masturbation is not a sin, but it is referenced as uncleanliness. Just like women's menstruation, seminal ejaculation is unclean according to The Holy Bible. I do not have a fixed routine on masturbation. Yet I still do masturbate, to please my sexual desires when it becomes very, very annoying.
I would say I masturbate once a week looking at my record. I masturbate without pornography, and without bearing an image of a naked female in mind.

Masturbating without lusting is not a sin. masturbation becomes a sin when accompanied with pornography, which is a form of lust.

True @Neo, I did acquire desire to some fetishes too. But I'm glad they were quite basic though, i guess so... I'll be honest here with no shame, to tell you that I fetishized about pregnant women getting smashed roughly and deepthroating/gagging choking. That used to be my number one category on my account.

Now I have been masturbating after that, but it is limited. I will admit that. I tend to avoid nocturnal emissions, because they get annoying and I get wet, lucid dreams too. I recently fapped with my eyes closed in my bed, with my blanket over me during night.
And to my surprise, masturbating without lusting and having any picture of a woman in mind is 100% possible. I did it myself.

It took me 45 minutes to ejaculate tbqh. But I lasted longer, the fun lasted longer too. I had my mind clear the whole time, just my focus towards my phallus. And it was quite pleasurable.

This is how I cured my porn addiction. Experts are right about the psychological effects of pornography.

But don't let masturbation become an addiction, even if it is without porn. I'm trying to control myself and limit my masturbation currently.

Do not become a slave to the temptations of the flesh. A word of advice to everyone.
 
porn is vile tbh. there's nothing good about It. society would be much better off without It. people are trying to make porn less taboo and be more open about It, but in my opinion It should be just boycotted because It gives much more harm than good
 
ive learned semen retention can make me feel on top of the world but also make me feel low too
 
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ive learned semen retention can make me feel on top of the world but also make me feel low too
no fap is only effective after a week as on the seventh-day t peaks before falling back down to a normal level the day after.
 
Porn was used in my life to run away from all of my problems after rejecting porn my problems are still there however I am in a position where I can properly face them.
That hits brother...
 

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