Therapy is definitely the biggest bluepill cope read if you wonder if therapy will help

[Deleted Member 69729]

forced into therapy for almost a year now by parents because i was so depressed i was losing my NT mask, crying a bunch, porn addicted, losing my shit. Opened up to my parents and it backfired and ended up in therapy with a FOID therapist. Completely fucked. Normies love to be like “women just want emotional intelligence” “go to therapy”
therapy Blah blah blah. Ts is worst than the just be confident and personality copes normies give.

Could never Connect with my therapist because how am i supposed to explain to therapist what black pill and hypergamy is to a fucking married foid with kids.

Could ask my dad to change my therapist but not only would i have to come up with a explanation for why but also another therapist is just gonna feed me the same bluepill cope.

What i actually learned:
It’s just a sympathy hell hole. “Oh I’m sorry that happened to you” “oh it’s her lost” “keep trying” ts fixes nothing especially with actually real trauma. The “coping strategies” muh positive afirmations.

NT frauding: i tried to be NT and finally after so long i realize that trying to be NT led me to be even more non-NT as I was going crazy but rather embracing your nature and just appearing NT. Stop trying to Connect with people and pretend. Spout as much bluepill bullshit as possible. Engage with friends to be NT rather than enjoyment, pick up hobbies to seem more normal, say whatever fits the norm regardless of beliefs, mímic and hide who you are.

What i gained from it: talking to this therapist i did open up about my addiction telling her i wanted to quit i eventually quit completely being able to tell her how i was feeling was probably the only thing she helped me with as subconciously my ego hated the idea of coming back and telling her i relasped again.

On the flip note she actually encouraged me to fap? She told me that sex and urges are normal for my age(it is) but that i should be easier on myself? I actually relasped a few times from this because in my mind this was being easy on myself i debate in my head Weather this held me back or not.

 

[Sovvton]

you should jork it just dont over do it lil bud

i dnr'd everything else

 

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Therapy is cope

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

Sorry to hear that man, hope things get better. I think you should listen to what you want to do. It’s always best to fulfill life to the extent you can, even if sacrifices have to be made. Good luck

 

[isimostar]

it's pointless

 

[swanneo]

completely agree w NT frauding, i've been on and off therapy and it's just really expensive and idk how long u have to be on it for it to help u change. i was also scared of sharing some of my deeper thoughts bc when i shared some experiences she started to tear up and i was like ?

 

[Nenestar]

Ofc It doesn't work if you don't go there by your own will.

I did go to a few talks, as I was extremely lonely/isolated, it was from my own will to want change.

Definitely helped me.

 

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Therapy is effective and proven - you admit yourself that you didn't engage with it.

This is like saying the gym is a scam and sitting on the side not using any of the equipment

 

[2R0I2P0]

forced into therapy for almost a year now by parents because i was so depressed i was losing my NT mask, crying a bunch, porn addicted, losing my shit. Opened up to my parents and it backfired and ended up in therapy with a FOID therapist. Completely fucked. Normies love to be like “women just want emotional intelligence” “go to therapy”
therapy Blah blah blah. Ts is worst than the just be confident and personality copes normies give.

Could never Connect with my therapist because how am i supposed to explain to therapist what black pill and hypergamy is to a fucking married foid with kids.

Could ask my dad to change my therapist but not only would i have to come up with a explanation for why but also another therapist is just gonna feed me the same bluepill cope.

What i actually learned:
It’s just a sympathy hell hole. “Oh I’m sorry that happened to you” “oh it’s her lost” “keep trying” ts fixes nothing especially with actually real trauma. The “coping strategies” muh positive afirmations.

NT frauding: i tried to be NT and finally after so long i realize that trying to be NT led me to be even more non-NT as I was going crazy but rather embracing your nature and just appearing NT. Stop trying to Connect with people and pretend. Spout as much bluepill bullshit as possible. Engage with friends to be NT rather than enjoyment, pick up hobbies to seem more normal, say whatever fits the norm regardless of beliefs, mímic and hide who you are.

What i gained from it: talking to this therapist i did open up about my addiction telling her i wanted to quit i eventually quit completely being able to tell her how i was feeling was probably the only thing she helped me with as subconciously my ego hated the idea of coming back and telling her i relasped again.

On the flip note she actually encouraged me to fap? She told me that sex and urges are normal for my age(it is) but that i should be easier on myself? I actually relasped a few times from this because in my mind this was being easy on myself i debate in my head Weather this held me back or not.

nah therapy actually saved me ill, talk more about it in onother post but yes, it's basically cope tbh, therapy does not work if you don't put the work in it bruh.