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could be true could maybe not.
Gatekeeping but not gatekeeping at the same time. Discouraging post by that guy tbh
DNR (jk read every molecule )You'll never be happy 100%, you're a human and just because your brain makes everything related to 1 problem, it doesn't mean solving that one problem will make you happy. There's also a lot of downsides to making all of your problems fix into one box.
But let's be real, there's a reason why beautiful people describe this point in this manner. The same way only wealthy people will tell you money won't solve all of your problems. It's not what they're saying is wrong, but it's their conclusion of why they think that is probably wrong.
Unsurprisingly, if you hate yourself, you're not going to suddenly like yourself. But let's be real, there's a differences between looking for flaws in your appearance while you've improved vs looking for flaws in your appearance when you feel like you never began. There's a differences between comparing yourself to six months ago and seeing a change and then comparing yourself to six years ago and seeing no differences. There's a differences in how people treat you and that objectively changes how you view yourself.
In the same way that just because you get money, it doesn't mean you'd suddenly be good with budgeting. But let's be real, having a shit ton of money makes your life easier even if you're a shit spender. He's not wrong in what he's saying, but in the same way I don't really want to hear a billionaire tell me money won't solve my problems, I don't really want to hear that improving my appearance won't make me happier from someone who's already in the top % of people.
That’s true. I’m sure his message was looks isn’t going to get you everything you want like bp edits make it seemYou'll never be happy 100%, you're a human and just because your brain makes everything related to 1 problem, it doesn't mean solving that one problem will make you happy. There's also a lot of downsides to making all of your problems fix into one box.
But let's be real, there's a reason why beautiful people describe this point in this manner. The same way only wealthy people will tell you money won't solve all of your problems. It's not what they're saying is wrong, but it's their conclusion of why they think that is probably wrong.
Unsurprisingly, if you hate yourself, you're not going to suddenly like yourself. But let's be real, there's a differences between looking for flaws in your appearance while you've improved vs looking for flaws in your appearance when you feel like you never began. There's a differences between comparing yourself to six months ago and seeing a change and then comparing yourself to six years ago and seeing no differences. There's a differences in how people treat you and that objectively changes how you view yourself.
In the same way that just because you get money, it doesn't mean you'd suddenly be good with budgeting. But let's be real, having a shit ton of money makes your life easier even if you're a shit spender. He's not wrong in what he's saying, but in the same way I don't really want to hear a billionaire tell me money won't solve my problems, I don't really want to hear that improving my appearance won't make me happier from someone who's already in the top % of people.
I deadass thought that was you in that avi lmaolooksmaxxing used to just be about finding ways to efficiently improve your face by looking at it scientifically. yes, that can affect your mental health, but if you approach it correctly and try to stay detached, it shouldnt be too harmful. looksmaxxing can also mean improving other things like your hair, health, lifestyle, etc. its meant to make you feel better about yourself knowing you are actively becoming the best version of yourself. thats why its clearly welcome to all kinds of people, which is why its weird for people to make posts questioning why, for example, a woman would want to looksmaxx. who wouldnt?
the problem and what makes people more insecure is bp. bp is attached to all those edits you see online, those bitter incel rants, all of it. its just pessimism with extra steps
The world is crooked man. No one will stay happy, and the people who spend their lives chasing it will be disappointed.You'll never be happy 100%, you're a human and just because your brain makes everything related to 1 problem, it doesn't mean solving that one problem will make you happy. There's also a lot of downsides to making all of your problems fix into one box.
But let's be real, there's a reason why beautiful people describe this point in this manner. The same way only wealthy people will tell you money won't solve all of your problems. It's not what they're saying is wrong, but it's their conclusion of why they think that is probably wrong.
Unsurprisingly, if you hate yourself, you're not going to suddenly like yourself. But let's be real, there's a differences between looking for flaws in your appearance while you've improved vs looking for flaws in your appearance when you feel like you never began. There's a differences between comparing yourself to six months ago and seeing a change and then comparing yourself to six years ago and seeing no differences. There's a differences in how people treat you and that objectively changes how you view yourself.
In the same way that just because you get money, it doesn't mean you'd suddenly be good with budgeting. But let's be real, having a shit ton of money makes your life easier even if you're a shit spender. He's not wrong in what he's saying, but in the same way I don't really want to hear a billionaire tell me money won't solve my problems, I don't really want to hear that improving my appearance won't make me happier from someone who's already in the top % of people.
That's why I don't chase happiness, I chase for a better day tomorrow than what I had yesterday.The world is crooked man. No one will stay happy, and the people who spend their lives chasing it will be disappointed.
MirinThat's why I don't chase happiness, I chase for a better day tomorrow than what I had yesterday.
BP is pessimistic and will guarantee you never see the light of happiness. Whitepill mogs. Hope over the fall.I deadass thought that was you in that avi lmao
Bp is exaggerated as shit and honestly why are we surprised? It’s made by miserable people to make more miserable people. Gives people something to blame (looks) when it’s probably only 30% of the problem
That's why I don't chase happiness, I chase for a better day tomorrow than what I had yesterday.
When it comes to your appearance you're kind of fucked on a genetic level to be honest. Even if his look was achievable it's not to a majority of people. I do get what you mean though.the best way to remain in the top % of people of anything is to make your desired spot seem impossible to achieve. why attempt if it feels unrealistic? it doesn't make it any less desirable though.
ideally, making your appearance NOT your entire personality or your entire worth as an individual is good. but it's always those who have achieved it that will tell you this. "the people who hate fat people the most are skinny people who used to be fat" energy.
after your life improves in one way, it does in others. it's easy to brush off the initial step when you feel like youve walked an entire flight of stairs. at the end of the day, to ignore all of those previous steps or parts of the process publicly is to publicly deny hope. that even if you did improve in one way, it means you're still miserable. i find this misleading. once you get a boost, a lot of people will be willing to overcome. if you feel there's no chance in hell, and if the people who have what you want confirm this, it's disencouraging. which i imagine is intentional
>it's not x, it's ylooksmaxxing used to just be about finding ways to efficiently improve your face by looking at it scientifically. yes, that can affect your mental health, but if you approach it correctly and try to stay detached, it shouldnt be too harmful. looksmaxxing can also mean improving other things like your hair, health, lifestyle, etc. its meant to make you feel better about yourself knowing you are actively becoming the best version of yourself. thats why its clearly welcome to all kinds of people, which is why its weird for people to make posts questioning why, for example, a woman would want to looksmaxx. who wouldnt?
>in essence, y is just x at its corethe problem and what makes people more insecure is bp. bp is attached to all those edits you see online, those bitter incel rants, all of it. its just pessimism with extra steps
tbh i dont think most ppl look at him and want to steal his entire appearance. it's almost always certain elements. sometimes achievable, sometimes not. but any progress is good progress. it's possible to look good w/o looking like a snapchat filter, and it's important to remain hopeful and committed. but after a certain point you can be disordered or feed into body dysmorphia too much. that's another discussion to be had thoWhen it comes to your appearance you're kind of fucked on a genetic level to be honest. Even if his look was achievable it's not to a majority of people. I do get what you mean though.
i dont see an issue with what i said, or how i said it.
are you doing the bs on org atmcould be true could maybe not.
trying to clear 500 post by tofayare you doing the bs on org atm
inb4 arzenic gets youYeah
trying to clear 500 post by tofay
I agree as well like the bp feeds into ppls shit mental health, shit mental health chances are ur not looking after urself and therefore u look awful.i dont see an issue with what i said, or how i said it.
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ye n***a its not real smart of you to make the same name there, also didn't you say your sick of .org and will not pursue it anymoreShush
Well no one knows who I actually am here… also edit all the messages above man. I’m going back to check some thingsye n***a its not real smart of you to make the same name there, also didn't you say your sick of .org and will not pursue it anymore
yeyeWell no one knows who I actually am here… also edit all the messages above man. I’m going back to check some things