I told my mom about what happened and she said that shes severely insecure, i asked why i act differently to her if we’re both insecure and she said because i always work on myself meanwhile she avoids accountability and distracts herself based off everything i told her which pretty much sums it up. Someone intentional and direct like me doesnt go with someone who deflects, avoids growth or confront their issues. She also yelled at me in the middle of a supermarket for getting a hinge notifiaction then brought up previous shit, uncivilised ass ppl