Thoughts on paying a therapist to listen to me whine instead of seeing prostitutes?

[isimostar]

Good or a bad idea?

I would say complaining about my life is probably the activity that feels the best out of anything I’ve done aside from sleeping. Genuinely mean that.
Obviously a therapist will only offer me copes, but at the very least, they’ll probably listen and try to avoid being too antagonistic towards me, right?
Like I’ll trauma dump to randoms on discord, but too often they’ll be like “ugh i dont careeee” or say some rude hateful dismissive shit.

Seeing hookers also makes me feel good, but it’s expensive and shameful, and I don’t really like talking to them since they are usually old/ugly(attractive women are too expensive to visit regularly). I could probably just find some decent looking female therapist to dump my issues onto every now and then.

 

[Eye of the Beholder]

why not do both?

 

[isimostar]

why not do both?

Because then I will not have any fucking money

 

[slopslinger]

'we've had a hundred years of psychotherapy and the worlds getting worse' by James H was a good read that affirmed all my suspicsions on therapy.

just listen to the cure moozik

 

[Eye of the Beholder]

Because then I will not have any fucking money

just see hookers half as often, and spend that money on therapy

how expensive is therapy anyway?

 

[isimostar]

just see hookers half as often, and spend that money on therapy

how expensive is therapy anyway?

It’s expensive.

'we've had a hundred years of psychotherapy and the worlds getting worse' by James H was a good read that affirmed all my suspicsions on therapy.

just listen to the cure moozik

Honestly I just want a pretty woman to listen to me talk about how I hate my life. I’m just not sure how to get that without paying or scaring some girl into pepper spraying me

 

[Altruist]

you are better off with hookers, tbh.

hookers are selling their bodies, shrinks their sets of platitudes and memorized technical lingo. both prostituting themselves for money

 

[isimostar]

you are better off with hookers, tbh.

hookers are selling their bodies, shrinks their sets of platitudes and memorized technical lingo. both prostituting themselves for money

Sometimes they’ll come drunk enough that they hardly have the ability to stand up, much less tell me about “being myself”.

 

[bruhtoobrutal]

Both at the same time, rub on it that cuck therapist

 

[TonyDr]

Good or a bad idea?

I would say complaining about my life is probably the activity that feels the best out of anything I’ve done aside from sleeping. Genuinely mean that.
Obviously a therapist will only offer me copes, but at the very least, they’ll probably listen and try to avoid being too antagonistic towards me, right?
Like I’ll trauma dump to randoms on discord, but too often they’ll be like “ugh i dont careeee” or say some rude hateful dismissive shit.

Seeing hookers also makes me feel good, but it’s expensive and shameful, and I don’t really like talking to them since they are usually old/ugly(attractive women are too expensive to visit regularly). I could probably just find some decent looking female therapist to dump my issues onto every now and then.

Find a girl who can become your sexfriend and go to see a male (non-woke) therapist so he can understands your struggles

 

[isimostar]

Find a girl who can become your sexfriend

 

[TonyDr]

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Plus she unironically likes you and pay for your Mcdo

 

[isimostar]

Plus she unironically likes you and pay for your Mcdo

Find a girl

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I’m not a psychologist or whatever but I’m better than 90% of female psychologists

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I've had two girlfriends who are now emotional sweeteners (therapists): two huge idiots

 

[isimostar]

I’m not a psychologist or whatever but I’m better than 90% of female psychologists

Alright. What are your rates? Do you accept reps for payment?

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Alright. What are your rates? Do you accept reps for payment?

hookers are more useful than me

 

[isimostar]

hookers are more useful than me

Now, if only those whores would exchange a “JFL” for a blowjob

 

[Superbia]

It's better to use therapy as a way to have a third party interpret your mental challenges and problematic interpersonal relationships. Don't count on them validating your feelings and opinions about everything, because these opinions are often wrong.

When I go, 99% of the time its just me realizing what i'm worrying about is a very confused idea, and i needed a different perspective to see it. At the same time, i don't just let them deny all my problems, but i argue until a middle ground is reached.

Usually people talk about their problems to friends or relatives, but these people may have a tendency to side with you and bring their own emotional reactions into it. Therapists are like neutral third parties who have theoretical and practical knowledge about talking to people who have problems in their life.

 

[isimostar]

It's better to use therapy as a way to have a third party interpret your mental challenges and problematic interpersonal relationships. Don't count on them validating your feelings and opinions about everything, because these opinions are often wrong.

When I go, 99% of the time its just me realizing what i'm worrying about is a very confused idea, and i needed a different perspective to see it. At the same time, i don't just let them deny all my problems, but i argue until a middle ground is reached.

Usually people talk about their problems to friends or relatives, but these people may have a tendency to side with you and bring their own emotional reactions into it. Therapists are like neutral third parties who have theoretical and practical knowledge about talking to people who have problems in their life.

Well I refuse to confront any “mental challenges” because all of said “ challenges” are due to things out of my control. I’m not going to reconsider any of my views and I am completely and utterly closed off to any kind of criticism.

Anyways, I don’t need my stuff validated even. I just wanna say it face to face to a woman I find at least semi-attractive. See her reactions. Maybe watch as a hint of disgust creeps onto her face, only for her professionalism to subdue it and continue with whatever nonsense she has. It’s kinda hot.

 

[Superbia]

Well I refuse to confront any “mental challenges” because all of said “ challenges” are due to things out of my control. I’m not going to reconsider any of my views and I am completely and utterly closed off to any kind of criticism.

This is something you can deal with if you go. With a therapist you can argue, get angry, dismiss their advice, do whatever and it doesn't matter because youre paying them. In real relationships, it doesnt work, most people would get tired of you.

Anyways, I don’t need my stuff validated even. I just wanna say it face to face to a woman I find at least semi-attractive. See her reactions. Maybe watch as a hint of disgust creeps onto her face, only for her professionalism to subdue it and continue with whatever nonsense she has. It’s kinda hot.

I think you just wanna talk to a woman or anyone really without them getting annoyed with you and distancing themselves. Either way its a good idea to go IMO because you'll still get something new out of it.

 

[isimostar]

I think you just wanna talk to a woman without them getting annoyed with you and distancing themselves. l

bingo
Not just anyone, but a woman. Frankly, I’ve zero interest in speaking to men. But girls are just so cutie patootie!! They make me so happy! They just hate me when I don’t pay, because I’m ugly as hell and have the wrong genes

 

[□□□□□□]

Therapy is useless blud

 

[isimostar]

Therapy is useless blud

thanks Zuzu