Thoughts on these ppl

[Dandelions]

was a long situation but in summary a naive me was used as a distraction without realising it - ended up opening up about many problems just to have them used against me when she got tired of me. she had bpd aswell so it was hard to know what she meant and what she didnt, aswell as her constantly sending mixed signals.

but the past is the past and ive learnt that she will have life worse then me due to her own mental state

Mannnn, that’s a canon event for every guy. Im glad you’ve got the experience now so that it’ll never happen again

 

[Blackpillirony]

she had bpd aswell so it was hard to know what she meant and what she didnt, aswell as her constantly sending mixed signals.

Bro there's no way because I had the exact same fucking scenario going on.

but the past is the past and ive learnt that she will have life worse then me due to her own mental state

Yeah perhaps, what I learned is to not edate and to have a bit of self-respect.

 

[eceap]

Mannnn, that’s a canon event for every guy. Im glad you’ve got the experience now so that it’ll never happen again

and now i can use foids in peace without guilt

 

[eceap]

Bro there's no way because I had the exact same fucking scenario going on.

Yeah perhaps, what I learned is to not edate and to have a bit of self-respect.

the self respect part is very true

 

[eceap]

Bro there's no way because I had the exact same fucking scenario going on.

bipolar aswell jfl?

 

[paulyune]

bipolar aswell jfl?

borderline personality

 

[Dandelions]

and now i can use foids in peace without guilt

Once you get past a certain point, you fr stop caring about them and how they feel. It’s so freeing

the self respect part is very true

It’s everything when it comes to dating. Having no self-respect signals to the girl that you have no options and she’ll always have the power dynamic

 

[eceap]

Once you get past a certain point, you fr stop caring about them and how they feel. It’s so freeing

It’s everything when it comes to dating. Having no self-respect signals to the girl that you have no options and she’ll always have the power dynamic

everything becomes easier when you make these realisations

 

[eceap]

borderline personality

sexy

 

[Blackpillirony]

bipolar aswell jfl?

No, she said she had bpd. Also had for lesson to not be in a relationship with people with mental problems like such. But you know my dad has bpd and my mom is bipolar, and there's a fascinating psychological hypothesis that you'll seek the psychological traits (mostly negative) of your parents in other people since that's what's familiar, which makes me feel so helpless.

 

[Luxe]

Cucked f****t

Who ?

Dumb mentally ill bitch who spreads lies about people

Chill dude

Who ?

n***a we have pmed before

 

[eceap]

No, she said she had bpd. Also had for lesson to not be in a relationship with people with mental problems like such. But you know my dad has bpd and my mom is bipolar, and there's a fascinating psychological hypothesis that you'll seek the psychological traits (mostly negative) of your parents in other people since that's what's familiar, which makes me feel so helpless.

yeah the more “normal” the person the better.

am i familiar with the idea (am studying psychology). but the fact your aware of it means you can stop yourself before you pursue someone with said mental illnesses - as long as you have the self control

 

[Blackpillirony]

Once you get past a certain point, you fr stop caring about them and how they feel. It’s so freeing

It’s everything when it comes to dating. Having no self-respect signals to the girl that you have no options and she’ll always have the power dynamic

The worst thing is that I've been warned before because I kept putting myself down infront of her since I felt like I didn't deserve her. Maybe it made it easier for her to treat me like this but I'll make sure to not be so vulnerable and self-depreciating to my future partner.

 

[eceap]

The worst thing is that I've been warned before because I kept putting myself down infront of her since I felt like I didn't deserve her. Maybe it made it easier for her to treat me like this but I'll make sure to not be so vulnerable and self-depreciating to my future partner.

sometimes self-loathing can stem from the situation your in, so honestly avoid it as much as possible and you will for certain see improvements in your own mental health

 

[Dandelions]

The worst thing is that I've been warned before because I kept putting myself down infront of her since I felt like I didn't deserve her. Maybe it made it easier for her to treat me like this but I'll make sure to not be so vulnerable and self-depreciating to my future partner.

I’m gonna be honest with you bro, the redpill advice those redpillers give are usually correct. Search up marcushullaster on tiktok, watch his content and youll know what I mean.

Sure, being HTN+ makes you immune for a while, but if you don’t have the right approach, she WILL leave you and/or take the power dynamic.

Of course, the right girl wouldn’t do this, so I still advise just being yourself and keep talking to girls until you find one with morals who won’t discriminate you.

But, for the time being, please watch marcushullaster

 

[Blackpillirony]

sometimes self-loathing can stem from the situation your in, so honestly avoid it as much as possible and you will for certain see improvements in your own mental health

I mean it's always hard to know whenever the other person you were with was genuine about their feelings even when you're in the honeymoon phase, especially if right after the breakup they're saying they never really cared about you and that it was never that deep. Idk I just was so infatuated with her and I couldn't think of anything wrong about her at the time.

I’m gonna be honest with you bro, the redpill advice those redpillers give are usually correct. Search up marcushullaster on tiktok, watch his content and youll know what I mean.

Sure, being HTN+ makes you immune for a while, but if you don’t have the right approach, she WILL leave you and/or take the power dynamic.

Of course, the right girl wouldn’t do this, so I still advise just being yourself and keep talking to girls until you find one with morals who won’t discriminate you.

But, for the time being, please watch marcushullaster

I will Bhai thanks for the recommendation

 

[eceap]

I mean it's always hard to know whenever the other person you were with was genuine about their feelings even when you're in the honeymoon phase, especially if right after the breakup they're saying they never really cared about you and that it was never that deep. Idk I just was so infatuated with her and I couldn't think of anything wrong about her at the time.

yes they do say love is blinding

awareness of your own mistakes is the first step to improving, so id honestly not worry about it too much - you seem smart enough not to make the same mistake again so its inevitable that you’ll heal from what your going through bhai