Thoughts on unfriending and unfollowing an ex?

[Deleted Member 136549]

I know people would say yes, but i do it it will make me look emotional and reactive and like im giving them power over me. But at the same time if I dont do it its like im giving her access to me. Even tho she also follows me. Keep in mind I dumped her, but she was giving signs that she wanted to be dumped. Last time we talked I told her "text me if you want, if you dont want dont text me". She hasn't. And told me that we could try again when I'll go back (LDR for a few months)

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

I know people would say yes, but i do it it will make me look emotional and reactive and like im giving them power over me. But at the same time if I dont do it its like im giving her access to me. Even tho she also follows me. Keep in mind I dumped her, but she was giving signs that she wanted to be dumped. Last time we talked I told her "text me if you want, if you dont want dont text me". She hasn't. And told me that we could try again when I'll go back (LDR for a few months)

Your not giving them power just get them out your life. Out of sight out of mind

 

[KittyBreath]

I know people would say yes, but i do it it will make me look emotional and reactive and like im giving them power over me. But at the same time if I dont do it its like im giving her access to me. Even tho she also follows me. Keep in mind I dumped her, but she was giving signs that she wanted to be dumped. Last time we talked I told her "text me if you want, if you dont want dont text me". She hasn't. And told me that we could try again when I'll go back (LDR for a few months)

im not going to read so im going to reply only using the information you've givven in the title

if its really that unbearable to be in contact with ur ex then yea go for it block them if not why does it matter

 

[meh.guy]

I know people would say yes, but i do it it will make me look emotional and reactive and like im giving them power over me. But at the same time if I dont do it its like im giving her access to me. Even tho she also follows me. Keep in mind I dumped her, but she was giving signs that she wanted to be dumped. Last time we talked I told her "text me if you want, if you dont want dont text me". She hasn't. And told me that we could try again when I'll go back (LDR for a few months)

normal

 

[Mystericus]

I know people would say yes, but i do it it will make me look emotional and reactive and like im giving them power over me. But at the same time if I dont do it its like im giving her access to me. Even tho she also follows me. Keep in mind I dumped her, but she was giving signs that she wanted to be dumped. Last time we talked I told her "text me if you want, if you dont want dont text me". She hasn't. And told me that we could try again when I'll go back (LDR for a few months)

So pathetic to care this much

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

im not going to read so im going to reply only using the information you've givven in the title

if its really that unbearable to be in contact with ur ex then yea go for it block them if not why does it matter

Just say dnr

 

[alacrity]

I know people would say yes, but i do it it will make me look emotional and reactive and like im giving them power over me. But at the same time if I dont do it its like im giving her access to me. Even tho she also follows me. Keep in mind I dumped her, but she was giving signs that she wanted to be dumped. Last time we talked I told her "text me if you want, if you dont want dont text me". She hasn't. And told me that we could try again when I'll go back (LDR for a few months)

Depends on how you two broke up, if it was chill, just unadd her "tos et boundaries", if it was a bad break upz block that nígga

 

[Angel]

shows you've moved on, unless you guys are friends of course

 

[KittyBreath]

Just say dnr

i refuse to use abbreviasions

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

i refuse to use abbreviasions

Why

 

[KittyBreath]

Why

because i find it annoying when people use long and over exagerated abhreviations so i dont use them so others dont feel the same

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

So pathetic to care this much

After 2 years unless youre an android you will care buddy. Its even more pathetic to play the alpha male role like youre doing now and have a girl that gave you affection and love and then saying "fuck these hoes idgaf" while crawling back like a Lil puppy the moment she will give you any sign that she wants you back. Youre not him bro, youre not him. Caring about your ex or gf is normal human nature buddy. If not, just bang hoes and stdmaxx and empty lifemaxx

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

Just say dnr

Dnr

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

Dnr

dnr

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

dnr

Dnr

 

[Mystericus]

After 2 years unless youre an android you will care buddy. Its even more pathetic to play the alpha male role like youre doing now and have a girl that gave you affection and love and then saying "fuck these hoes idgaf" while crawling back like a Lil puppy the moment she will give you any sign that she wants you back. Youre not him bro, youre not him. Caring about your ex or gf is normal human nature buddy. If not, just bang hoes and stdmaxx and empty lifemaxx

This is projection. You're contemplating unfollowing your ex-GF because "it'll give her power", some prideful wanna-be alpha is you, not me

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

shows you've moved on, unless you guys are friends of course

We are not friends. She didnt accepted friendship from me. She told me bf or nothng

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

This is projection. You're contemplating unfollowing your ex-GF because "it'll give her power", some prideful wanna-be alpha is you, not me

I hate giving people power over me. It activates my ego a bit too much. I feel if I still follow her (even tho she still follows me) that im telling her "im available bitch. You can comeback whenever you want"

 

[Mystericus]

I hate giving people power over. It activates my ego a bit too much

Stop caring

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

Stop caring

Yeah i see your point. Indifference shows more strength than being reactive

 

[Mystericus]

Yeah i see your point. Indifference shows more strength than being reactive

It's not about showing strength it's about having some dignity

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

It's not about showing strength it's about having some dignity

What does dignity has to do with this? I dumped her lol....

 

[yielded]

I know people would say yes, but i do it it will make me look emotional and reactive and like im giving them power over me. But at the same time if I dont do it its like im giving her access to me. Even tho she also follows me. Keep in mind I dumped her, but she was giving signs that she wanted to be dumped. Last time we talked I told her "text me if you want, if you dont want dont text me". She hasn't. And told me that we could try again when I'll go back (LDR for a few months)

Take time and rethink but you should unfollow or ask your hb to follow but make sure they're lowk chill but not too close @ the same time it's complicated

 

[dior]

I know people would say yes, but i do it it will make me look emotional and reactive and like im giving them power over me. But at the same time if I dont do it its like im giving her access to me. Even tho she also follows me. Keep in mind I dumped her, but she was giving signs that she wanted to be dumped. Last time we talked I told her "text me if you want, if you dont want dont text me". She hasn't. And told me that we could try again when I'll go back (LDR for a few months)

Yeah im ngl u sound like an indecisive pussy bitch, every "ex" ive had i just immediately go no contact JFL

 

[Mystericus]

What does dignity has to do with this? I dumped her lol....

Because caring about your perception over something so minuscule screams insecurity & an inferiority complex, it's disgusting

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

Yeah im ngl u sound like an indecisive pussy bitch, every "ex" ive had i just immediately go no contact JFL

Then I guess she is in the same boat as me. Bc she didnt wanted to remove me. And a few weeks later she told that well NOW it wasnt over that we could try again in the future. Talking about Indecisiveness huh

 

[dior]

Because caring about your perception over something so minuscule screams insecurity & an inferiority complex, it's disgusting

Your over examining him so much lmfao hes simply asking wether or not his internet presence should remain linked to this random bitch. Also I hate ur hannibal pfp that n***a a pussy

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

Because caring about your perception over something so minuscule screams insecurity & an inferiority complex, it's disgusting

Alright dude calm your hormones I understand your point

 

[dior]

Then I guess she is in the same boat as me. Bc she didnt wanted to remove me. And a few weeks later she told that well NOW it wasnt over that we could try again in the future. Talking about Indecisiveness huh

Yeah, im telling u our situations were incredibly similar except when I dumped her she asked to be friends after and I just shut that shit down. If you had a good reason to end it I see no reason to continue entertaining the possibility of interacting with her but thats just my own insight.

 

[Mystericus]

Your over examining him so much lmfao hes simply asking wether or not his internet presence should remain someone linked to this random bitch. Also I hate ur hannibal pfp that n***a a pussy

You're clearly blind. He's going back-and-forth over this insignificant scenario, it's clearly showing

and it's will not hannibal

 

[TonyDr]

it will make me look emotional and reactive and like im giving them power over me

Utter bullshit buddy boyo, how blocking someone is giving them power ?!

 

[dior]

Literally^^^^

Utter bullshit buddy boyo, how blocking someone is giving them power ?!

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

Yeah, im telling u our situations were incredibly similar except when I dumped her she asked to be friends after and I just shut that shit down. If you had a good reason to end it I see no reason to continue entertaining the possibility of interacting with her but thats just my own insight.

People here jump to conclusions and call someone a pussy or a b so fast lol. Like they have never even though a breakup and they dont understand that even the most emotionally detached might struggle emotionally lol

And I dumped her bc we fought a lot and just want working anymore. And also bc we had a rule of not adding people from the opposite sex on social media (stupid rule ik). She did it so I dumped her in case. She told it was a dude from a video game (she added other guys later). And that she needed a person who could actually trust her

So now we dont talk but we basically dont discard eachother

 

[dior]

You're clearly blind. He's going back-and-forth over this insignificant scenario, it's clearly showing

and it's will not hannibal

I know its will tard the show is called hannibal fucknuts, I can obviously see you think his personal character and yours are one in the same

 

[Mystericus]

I know its will tard the show is called hannibal fucknuts, I can obviously see you think his personal character and yours are one in the same

Will's nothing like me

 

[dior]

People here jump to conclusions and call someone a pussy or a b so fast lol. Like they have never even though a breakup and they dont understand that even the most emotionally detached might struggle emotionally lol

And I dumped her bc we fought a lot and just want working anymore. And also bc we had a rule of not adding people from the opposite sex on social media (stupid rule ik). She did it so I dumped her in case. She told it was a dude from a video game (she added other guys later). And that she needed a person who could actually trust her

So now we dont talk but we basically dont discard eachother

being emotionally detached means you wont struggle emotionally JFL

You dumping her because she followed a n***a on the net is so stupid and insecure holy shittt reminds me of this guy who i accidentally cucked and he got angry she followed me after we fucked

regardless bro just ignore her like it doesnt matter

 

[dior]

Will's nothing like me

I take back everything i said the OP is a r****d

 

[Mystericus]

I take back everything i said the OP is a r****d

I know

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

being emotionally detached means you wont struggle emotionally JFL

You dumping her because she followed a n***a on the net is so stupid and insecure holy shittt reminds me of this guy who i accidentally cucked and he got angry she followed me after we fucked

regardless bro just ignore her like it doesnt matter

I dont trust people in general. Neither women or men. Im mentally fucked up in terms of trusting people tbh. And yeah I was stupid enough to get jealous of a dude who likes in litterally another continent lol. After further investigations on my side. So yeah stupid move from me.

Also, how can you accidentally cuck someone lol

 

[dior]

I dont trust people in general. Neither women or men. Im mentally fucked up in terms of trusting people tbh. And yeah I was stupid enough to get jealous of a dude who likes in litterally another continent lol. After further investigations on my side. So yeah stupid move from me.

Also, how can you accidentally cuck someone lol

I didnt know this girl was dating this guy and after i fucked i found out cus she was posting him on her tiktok, i then followed her tiktok and her boyfriend made her block me which absolutely changed nothing JFL

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

I didnt know this girl was dating this guy and after i fucked i found out cus she was posting him on her tiktok, i then followed her tiktok and her boyfriend made her block me which absolutely changed nothing JFL

I mean personally I wouldnt get mad like him and ask to get blocked. I would just leave and dump her (like I did). To me if there is the slightest doubt, I dont think much about it. I just dump

Also, she was a whor* for doing that. Never ever take a woman like that serious. She will do the same to you

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

I take back everything i said the OP is a

I know

When 2 people argue with a "r****d" it just shows they are as retarded lol

 

[Mystericus]

You put that in the quote by the way

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

You put that in the quote by the way

Nothing retarded about what I said

 

[Mystericus]

Nothing retarded about what I said

Try putting the post after the quote next time