Looksmaxxing Forum Logo

Join 68,000+ Looksmaxxing Members!

Register a FREE account today to become a member. Once signed in, you'll be able to participate on this site by adding your own topics and posts, as well as connect with other members through your own private inbox.

Register Log in
  • DISCLAIMER: DO NOT ATTEMPT TREATMENT WITHOUT LICENCED MEDICAL CONSULTATION AND SUPERVISION

    This is a public discussion forum. The owners, staff, and users of this website ARE NOT engaged in rendering professional services to the individual reader. DO NOT use the content of this website as an alternative to personal examination and advice from licenced healthcare providers. DO NOT begin, delay, or discontinue treatments and/or exercises without licenced medical supervision. Learn more

Rage Took y’all’s advice and failed

candycaro said:
Went on a date with someone below me in looks and achievements today. What it got me is that he invited me for dinner in a restaurant he chose and made me pay, even though he knew I assumed he would (invited me, I let him choose). No way he actually likes me or views me as a prize in any type of way. Please keep in mind that he could’ve done a free activity for the first date if he didn’t want to spend money. He didn’t have to set me up. It’s not even about the money I spent, but about the fact that he didn’t value me enough not to waste his opportunity by setting me up and embarrassing me like that. Even the waiter thought he’d pay. The sad part is I actually started liking him, despite his shortcomings, but he ruined it by acting like there’s no value to this date (also the set up, again could’ve done something free). His loss tbh, but it proves my point again. No way to find anyone who actually likes and desires me. Not even if I date below. (Something everyone told me would solve my problems yesterday). Doomed for life.
Click to expand...
dangg i just checked ur profile, u look good af to me thats crazy

sounds like ur fishing for compliments. but if this is true thats crazy, his loss fr
 
DRAZCO said:
dangg i just checked ur profile, u look good af to me thats crazy

sounds like ur fishing for compliments. but if this is true thats crazy, his loss fr
Click to expand...
I wish I was fishing. Tf hahaha. If stuff like that didn’t happen to me I wouldn’t feel the need to vent on here like that
 
candycaro said:
I wish I was fishing. Tf hahaha. If stuff like that didn’t happen to me I wouldn’t feel the need to vent on here like that
Click to expand...
idk how its possible that ur having such a hard time finding a bf

i live in north europe and theres way less immigrants here than in germany, but still i think most guys would say u look good. i 100% think u look good
 
DRAZCO said:
idk how its possible that ur having such a hard time finding a bf
Click to expand...
Obvs in not most guys type. Some would maybe like to have physical relations like trying out an exotic fruit, but that’s it.
DRAZCO said:
i live in north europe and theres way less immigrants here than in germany, but still i think most guys would say u look good. i 100% think u look good
Click to expand...
Ty : ) but sadly some guys thinking i look somewhat good isnt enough for a relationship.
 
candycaro said:
Ty : ) but sadly some guys thinking i look somewhat good isnt enough for a relationship.
Click to expand...
We live also in an era where men aren't gonna LTR the women they date
 
candycaro said:
Obvs in not most guys type. Some would maybe like to have physical relations like trying out an exotic fruit, but that’s it.

Ty : ) but sadly some guys thinking i look somewhat good isnt enough for a relationship.
Click to expand...
Maybe if ur really tall it can be a problem. How tall are u?
 
DRAZCO said:
Wow thats hard to believe tbh. Im 100% honest and think you just have extremely bad luck. You dont look bad and you shouldnt have problems getting a bf.

Do you go for other lightskins or black guys also?
Click to expand...
I go for any
 
candycaro said:
Great…
Click to expand...
I don't speak for you ofc but nowadays most women aren't worth of a LTR hence why men rather just have fun with them than being a boyfriend, cause those kind of women treat the men who use them far better than their potential boyfriends/husbands.

I hope for you during dates that you show to the men you genuinely like that you'll be a great girlfriend and that you expect being treated as a healthy LTR only
 
TonyDr said:
I don't speak for you ofc but nowadays most women aren't worth of a LTR hence why men rather just have fun with them than being a boyfriend, cause those kind of women treat the men who use them far better than their potential boyfriends/husbands.
Click to expand...
„Most women“ = women that men pay attention to
TonyDr said:
I hope for you during dates that you show to the men you genuinely like that you'll be a great girlfriend and that you expect being treated as a healthy LTR only
Click to expand...
I already had stuff making it clear that I want something serious written in my dating profile. Think that might already be a turn off for them.
 
TonyDr said:
I don't speak for you ofc but nowadays most women aren't worth of a LTR
Click to expand...
If this was true consider this: People have preferences. A good amount of man with the preference of LTR should exist. If “most women” weren’t worth that, the ones who were worth that would be in high demand for the men who want this. Yet that’s not the case. Also please elaborate on what makes a woman “not worth” of a LTR. And just for fun also add what makes a man (not) worth.
 
candycaro said:
If this was true consider this: People have preferences. A good amount of man with the preference of LTR should exist. If “most women” weren’t worth that, the ones who were worth that would be in high demand for the men who want this.
Click to expand...
Hmm not necessarily tbf, because a lot of men discover that the women they date aren't worth it during the dating stage, meaning by knowing her in depth. My point can apply both genders yk.
Also the ones who are worth dating are most likely taken and loyal so they're out of the market, and so, can't be found
candycaro said:
Also please elaborate on what makes a woman “not worth” of a LTR. And just for fun also add what makes a man (not) worth.
Click to expand...
It will be both gender neutral on this one : When they don't act like a decent partner, meaning loyalty, support, love, care, communicative, emotional AND physical connection, doing their job inside the relationship etc alongside acting like a proper mature & responsible adult
 
candycaro said:
Went on a date with someone below me in looks and achievements today. What it got me is that he invited me for dinner in a restaurant he chose and made me pay, even though he knew I assumed he would (invited me, I let him choose). No way he actually likes me or views me as a prize in any type of way. Please keep in mind that he could’ve done a free activity for the first date if he didn’t want to spend money. He didn’t have to set me up. It’s not even about the money I spent, but about the fact that he didn’t value me enough not to waste his opportunity by setting me up and embarrassing me like that. Even the waiter thought he’d pay. The sad part is I actually started liking him, despite his shortcomings, but he ruined it by acting like there’s no value to this date (also the set up, again could’ve done something free). His loss tbh, but it proves my point again. No way to find anyone who actually likes and desires me. Not even if I date below. (Something everyone told me would solve my problems yesterday). Doomed for life.
Click to expand...
No way this guy isn't AT LEAST HTN!
 
candycaro said:
Went on a date with someone below me in looks and achievements today. What it got me is that he invited me for dinner in a restaurant he chose and made me pay, even though he knew I assumed he would (invited me, I let him choose). No way he actually likes me or views me as a prize in any type of way. Please keep in mind that he could’ve done a free activity for the first date if he didn’t want to spend money. He didn’t have to set me up. It’s not even about the money I spent, but about the fact that he didn’t value me enough not to waste his opportunity by setting me up and embarrassing me like that. Even the waiter thought he’d pay. The sad part is I actually started liking him, despite his shortcomings, but he ruined it by acting like there’s no value to this date (also the set up, again could’ve done something free). His loss tbh, but it proves my point again. No way to find anyone who actually likes and desires me. Not even if I date below. (Something everyone told me would solve my problems yesterday). Doomed for life.
Click to expand...
Darling. You broke the first rule, you dated below. Why? At least you learnt.
 
Inanimate Pragmatist said:
Darling. You broke the first rule, you dated below. Why? At least you learnt.
Click to expand...
You ask me why. I’m laughing af. There’s no way to even date above. And it’s hard to date on the same level. Doesn’t work anyways like impossible till now. And I got the advice to date below or people kept throwing it in my face that I’m hypergamous and only date above (not true). I made this post to show that even if you date below it’s fucked. Doesn’t mean that was the mistake though. I’m just genereally cooked or it’s really hard for me no matter who I date.
 
candycaro said:
You ask me why. I’m laughing af. There’s no way to even date above. And it’s hard to date on the same level. Doesn’t work anyways like impossible till now. And I got the advice to date below or people kept throwing it in my face that I’m hypergamous and only date above (not true). I made this post to show that even if you date below it’s fucked. Doesn’t mean that was the mistake though. I’m just genereally cooked or it’s really hard for me no matter who I date.
Click to expand...
Are you really hypergamous for wishing a man of better and decent quality? You are too forgiving. You have to remember once you give the lowest man any morsel of power or validation, they will believe they are the top of the world. Considering you are a woman, you should try and meet people who match your stance.
 
Inanimate Pragmatist said:
Are you really hypergamous for wishing a man of better and decent quality? You are too forgiving. You have to remember once you give the lowest man any morsel of power or validation, they will believe they are the top of the world. Considering you are a woman, you should try and meet people who match your stance.
Click to expand...
or above, yeah
 
Inanimate Pragmatist said:
Are you really hypergamous for wishing a man of better and decent quality? You are too forgiving. You have to remember once you give the lowest man any morsel of power or validation, they will believe they are the top of the world. Considering you are a woman, you should try and meet people who match your stance.
Click to expand...
You read the rest of what I said though didn’t you. I’m mtb, mtn arent interested in anything but ridiculing me, above is obvs the same.
 
kimothy said:
retarded
Click to expand...
Okcupid.webp

The data speaks for itself.
 
candycaro said:
You read the rest of what I said though didn’t you. I’m mtb, mtn arent interested in anything but ridiculing me, above is obvs the same.
Click to expand...
Then what are those MTNs dating?
 
Inanimate Pragmatist said:
Then what are those MTNs dating?
Click to expand...
They date their looksmatch or above in my experience. Please keep in mind im mixed race. Oftentimes doesn’t matter im their objective looksmatch cause of racial preferences. In general I feel it’s easier for guys though cause there are so many gl women around for them to choose from. And not really a lot of men perceived as gl so a lot of women I see tend to date down. Not hard for mtn to get htb gf.
 
candycaro said:
Went on a date with someone below me in looks and achievements today. What it got me is that he invited me for dinner in a restaurant he chose and made me pay, even though he knew I assumed he would (invited me, I let him choose). No way he actually likes me or views me as a prize in any type of way. Please keep in mind that he could’ve done a free activity for the first date if he didn’t want to spend money. He didn’t have to set me up. It’s not even about the money I spent, but about the fact that he didn’t value me enough not to waste his opportunity by setting me up and embarrassing me like that. Even the waiter thought he’d pay. The sad part is I actually started liking him, despite his shortcomings, but he ruined it by acting like there’s no value to this date (also the set up, again could’ve done something free). His loss tbh, but it proves my point again. No way to find anyone who actually likes and desires me. Not even if I date below. (Something everyone told me would solve my problems yesterday). Doomed for life.
Click to expand...
Bro, either the guy is a dick orrr youre extremely ugly 😭 I reckon its the first one deadass its like a rule to pay for the girl on the first date even if they say "no no ! I got it !" goshhh this post is man 😭
 
ShukatsuDev said:
Bro, either the guy is a dick orrr youre extremely ugly 😭 I reckon its the first one deadass its like a rule to pay for the girl on the first date even if they say "no no ! I got it !" goshhh this post is man 😭
Click to expand...
I’m mtb
 
candycaro said:
You read the rest of what I said though didn’t you. I’m mtb, mtn arent interested in anything but ridiculing me, above is obvs the same.
Click to expand...
lol mtb can literally get a chad, i've seen couples where wives were mid and their husbands were hot as fuck
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Users who are viewing this thread

Total: 1 (Looksmaxxers: 0, Guests: 1)
Back
Top