trying to apply to low income housing/apartment through my disiabilty

[Deleted Member 44008]

but this reatrd provider ain't even willing to take me to the local housing authority to aply

info: I get 960 dollars a month throuhg my SSI and have 600 in EBT cash with 270 more coming each month and get 270 for EBT food a month also looking for a part time job which he is not really helping with.

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

I might crash out to be honest let me know if is should tbh

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

edit no reply pill is brutal

 

[swanneo]

but this reatrd provider ain't even willing to take me to the local housing authority to aply

info: I get 1000 dollars a month throuhg my SSI and have 600 in EBT cash with 270 more coming each month and get 270 for EBT food a month also looking for a part time job which he is not really helping with.

goodluck ( must be hard struggling with a disability & still having to work.

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

goodluck ( must be hard struggling with a disability & still having to work.

fr its not that its just they don't let me have independent without someone montritong me and like I'm not really for it I'm a grown man smart enough to know his own actions yk there treatng me like I just started middle school

 

[johnvee84]

im on the waiting list too, i could be waiting 10 years, if its not an emergency situation a single man is at the bottom of the list.

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

im on the waiting list too, i could be waiting 10 years, if its not an emergency situation a single man is at the bottom of the list.

true true

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

im on the waiting list too, i could be waiting 10 years, if its not an emergency situation a single man is at the bottom of the list.

but what I'm saying ghe is not wilin gto let me go on the waiting list

 

[johnvee84]

but what I'm saying ghe is not wilin gto let me go on the waiting list

do they think you cant take care of yourself or something?

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

do they think you cant take care of yourself or something?

not even he even says I know you don't have a disability I'm only in because my parents put me in and I could use the benefits to apply but he somehw says this and thinks I'm not cabaple of being a grown man

 

[swanneo]

fr its not that its just they don't let me have independent without someone montritong me and like I'm not really for it I'm a grown man smart enough to know his own actions yk there treatng me like I just started middle school

been there, my mom used to hardcore monitor me, it's terrible and u feel so infantalized

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

been there, my mom used to hardcore monitor me, it's terrible and u feel so infantalized

ong my experience tbh

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

ong my experience tbh

imma about to crash out an fight back not fight back but convince him tbh

 

[swanneo]

ong my experience tbh

yea she used to do it after i had a suicide attempt which understandable but after months it felt so terrible like i couldn't be a person properly. now that i'm free from that i feel much better and indepedent, even with the mistakes i make in my day to day life. hope she can lay off of you as well <3

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

yea she used to do it after i had a suicide attempt which understandable but after months it felt so terrible like i couldn't be a person properly. now that i'm free from that i feel much better and indepedent, even with the mistakes i make in my day to day life. hope she can lay off of you as well <3

I'm sorry to hear that I don't wish that for nobody

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

imma about to crash out an fight back not fight back but convince him tbh

idk how he can say I don't have a disability I know you don't an don't help me get tout of the infantzliaton

 

[swanneo]

idk how he can say I don't have a disability I know you don't an don't help me get tout of the infantzliaton

try talking to him calmly and with your arguments thought out before hand. probably will be hard to get through to him, but keep on going for several days, and pick a time when he is in a good mood to do so.

 

[dearestmin]

What's your disability?

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

What's your disability?

austism

 

[2R0I2P0]

austism

in which way does it disables you?

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

in which way does it disables you?

No idea thh but there saying im nlonly allowed to walk 30 mins around theneighborhood as a grown man I dont underetand like i cajt hange with ny friends and there asking me to return the phone for no reason

 

[2R0I2P0]

How old are you bruv?

No idea thh but there saying im nlonly allowed to walk 30 mins around theneighborhood as a grown man I dont underetand like i cajt hange with ny friends and there asking me to return the phone for no reason

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

How old are you bruv?

I'm 18

 

[johnvee84]

I would try to get out of there ASAP unless you feel you cant take careof yourself, they will coddle you and treat you like you're incompetent as long as you're there probably.

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

I would try to get out of there ASAP unless you feel you cant take careof yourself, they will coddle you and treat you like you're incompetent as long as you're there probably.

I need a part time job or to though a court process most likely but there teeling me there not really gonna help me get a job until I graduate and even then it'll be by there rules

 

[2R0I2P0]

I need a part time job or to though a court process most likely but there teeling me there not really gonna help me get a job until I graduate and even then it'll be by there rules

Well in my experience, getting out of your abusive home, does help with the psychological burden of being in an abusive or oppressive environment (evidently) . But it creates the problem of being stressed out regarding economic problems, as well time management issues as now you are responsible of everything, and that's not very nice .

I do not recommend it, as you don't have savings i assume that could leave you being comfortable on losing a source of income or starting a new venture. .

On the meantime, start planning an escape plan, ask a family member if you can live with them, if you have a significant other or good friends ask for asylum. As you already are on SSDI i know it's not enough, but start the conversation with the foresight that you can at least cover your meals.

Its normally a good fresh start as well as mooching of some close friends, asking if you can crash and trying to get of the routine which i know its extremely difficult, at least for me that i also have diagnosed autism, but its trying to get new stimuli that excite your brain. This will also help with the other issue that i responded on the other thread.

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

Well in my experience, getting out of your abusive home, does help with the psychological burden of being in an abusive or oppressive environment (evidently) . But it creates the problem of being stressed out regarding economic problems, as well time management issues as now you are responsible of everything, and that's not very nice .

I do not recommend it, as you don't have savings i assume that could leave you being comfortable on losing a source of income or starting a new venture. .

On the meantime, start planning an escape plan, ask a family member if you can live with them, if you have a significant other or good friends ask for asylum. As you already are on SSDI i know it's not enough, but start the conversation with the foresight that you can at least cover your meals.

Its normally a good fresh start as well as mooching of some close friends, asking if you can crash and trying to get of the routine which i know its extremely difficult, at least for me that i also have diagnosed autism, but its trying to get new stimuli that excite your brain. This will also help with the other issue that i responded on the other thread.

I have one really good friend who's in section ,,,8 who could prob help me he already knows of muly situation do I'll continue talking to him