very scary please helps

[Deleted member 42538]

I was approached for the first time by a neurotypical person. Unfortunately it was a woman. She called me pretty and asked my name but i got scared and messed up. I managed to answer her in a very squeaky voice but failed to compliment her back or ask for her name.
Talking to women feels harder than talking to men but ive never spoken to a man so idk for sure. Still please give me tips on how to be less nervous and what to say incase someone talks to me again. I missed huge opportunity for friendship.

I can say with confidence that i have not spoken to anyone at all aside from 1-5 word conversations (excluding arguments and explanations), for atleast 4 years

 

[Deleted Member 59374]

she likes u follow her home

 

[Deleted member 42538]

I also contacted my childhood friend from 7th grade and everything went well at first until i ask him if i can come to agartha. He didnt know what it was so i said “only aryans go there”, but to my surprise he didnt know what an aryan was which is absurd to me. Salludon said people dont know stuff like that but i feel like its pretty “mainstream”. Our convo died after this blunder.

 

[neymar]

I also contacted my childhood friend from 7th grade and everything went well at first until i ask him if i can come to agartha. He didnt know what it was so i said “only aryans go there”, but to my surprise he didnt know what an aryan was which is absurd to me. Salludon said people dont know stuff like that but i feel like its pretty “mainstream”. Our convo died after this blunder.

What the hell

 

[neymar]

U weirdo

 

[Deleted member 42538]

U weirdo

dont be mean to me

 

[neymar]

dont be mean to me

I will

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

I was approached for the first time by a neurotypical person. Unfortunately it was a woman. She called me pretty and asked my name but i got scared and messed up. I managed to answer her in a very squeaky voice but failed to compliment her back or ask for her name.
Talking to women feels harder than talking to men but ive never spoken to a man so idk for sure. Still please give me tips on how to be less nervous and what to say incase someone talks to me again. I missed huge opportunity for friendship.

I can say with confidence that i have not spoken to anyone at all aside from 1-5 word conversations (excluding arguments and explanations), for atleast 4 years

NT women is a tricky subject. I relate to ur situation ive been there before. When a girl approaches you do not put her on a pedestal. You need to see her as a peer, or an equal. Once you already feel intimidated from the jump it's over. And usually when girls approach you like this they probably have good intentions. Gotta learn to put ur guard down. This is of course easier said than done.

 

[Deleted Member 27488]

99% of women are NT

only 60% of men are NT

 

[Deleted Member 49073]

bro are you not engaged

 

[Deleted member 42538]

NT women is a tricky subject. I relate to ur situation ive been there before. When a girl approaches you do not put her on a pedestal. You need to see her as a peer, or an equal. Once you already feel intimidated from the jump it's over. And usually when girls approach you like this they probably have good intentions. Gotta learn to put ur guard down. This is of course easier said than done.

I always think very highly of everyone before i get to know them so thats hard for me

 

[Deleted member 42538]

99% of women are NT

only 60% of men are NT

when speaking to women online i feel like i have to act really polite and nicely or i will be considered rude. It makes the conversation bland and boring imo because its just compliments and nice things. But when speaking to a man i dont feel that pressure and i feel more free to speak without being considered rude. But its always better being friends with the same sex so im ill just have to learn how to talk to women

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

I always think very highly of everyone before i get to know them so thats hard for me

U will only disappoint yrself that way sis. I'm not saying assume the worst in others but it's best to keep neutral. I literally ruined connections I had with really nice girls because I thought they were too good for me. If a person is truly worth your time, they will want to hang with u, for you. That is a real high value person. I've worked customer service for 3 years of my life and I can assure you most of the people you come across are no better than you. They may act like it, but they're not

 

[Deleted member 42538]

U will only disappoint yrself that way sis. I'm not saying assume the worst in others but it's best to keep neutral. I literally ruined connections I had with really nice girls because I thought they were too good for me. If a person is truly worth your time, they will want to hang with u, for you. That is a real high value person. I've worked customer service for 3 years of my life and I can assure you most of the people you come across are no better than you. They may act like it, but they're not

ill try my best to be neutral about people. I feel that often end up obsessing over the wrong people because i just see the good parts and then i learn the bad parts eventually

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

ill try my best to be neutral about people. I feel that often end up obsessing over the wrong people because i just see the good parts and then i learn the bad parts eventually

Its difficult to start. I still struggle with it. If anything I think it's a good trait to be able to see the good in people, to an extent. But don't let that forget the good you have in yourself either. ... it's a journey

 

[Deleted member 42538]

Its difficult to start. I still struggle with it. If anything I think it's a good trait to be able to see the good in people, to an extent. But don't let that forget the good you have in yourself either. ... it's a journey