Serious Views

[BradyT]

I have such a traditionalist view of love, not talking about gays or such but more so I admire relationships and love in the olden days, society has obviously changed and with that how you love one another as well

 

[Mulatto]

Trad women r cool. I don't agree with some trad views but others r cool and their relationships were ideal. now when ppl look at a picture/drawing of a trad family from the 60s they get mad they dont have died hair and piercings

 

[Luffy]

I think when people refer to “traditional women/relationships” they just mean not a slut/whore

But yeah I do believe social media has ruined relationships in a way. Causing more lust and generally producing envy by seeing other couples do “better” online

 

[Slut]

I think when people refer to “traditional women/relationships” they just mean not a slut/whore

But yeah I do believe social media has ruined relationships in a way. Causing more lust and generally producing envy by seeing other couples do “better” online

I want to have a long traditional relationship with the girl I’m talking to right now yet we have a lustful relationship and I’m a very narcissistic envious person, probably worsened from the time I’ve spent in this community. I believe that they can both be true at the same time. What I mean by this is that lustfulness comes from a place of love and I want to be better than others because I believe it’s what she deserves. Maybe our relationship would be better without social media’s influence and I’m just coping but I don’t think it’s necessarily killed all romance/traditional ideas of relationships

 

[Luffy]

I want to have a long traditional relationship with the girl I’m talking to right now yet we have a lustful relationship and I’m a very narcissistic envious person, probably worsened from the time I’ve spent in this community. I believe that they can both be true at the same time. What I mean by this is that lustfulness comes from a place of love and I want to be better than others because I believe it’s what she deserves. Maybe our relationship would be better without social media’s influence and I’m just coping but I don’t think it’s necessarily killed all romance/traditional ideas of relationships

Yeah I understand what you mean in your personal relationship

But in general many relationships are built on the aspect of lust itself. And that’s all that relationship means. This can be correlated to the rising interest in porn in younger ages

 

[Slut]

Yeah I understand what you mean in your personal relationship

But in general many relationships are built on the aspect of lust itself. And that’s all that relationship means. This can be correlated to the rising interest in porn in younger ages

Unfortunately mine is built on lust too, I like to believe that we have more than that and genuinely love each other and will last together though

 

[BradyT]

I want to have a long traditional relationship with the girl I’m talking to right now yet we have a lustful relationship and I’m a very narcissistic envious person, probably worsened from the time I’ve spent in this community. I believe that they can both be true at the same time. What I mean by this is that lustfulness comes from a place of love and I want to be better than others because I believe it’s what she deserves. Maybe our relationship would be better without social media’s influence and I’m just coping but I don’t think it’s necessarily killed all romance/traditional ideas of relationships

Yeah I understand what you mean in your personal relationship

But in general many relationships are built on the aspect of lust itself. And that’s all that relationship means. This can be correlated to the rising interest in porn in younger ages

Trad women r cool. I don't agree with some trad views but others r cool and their relationships were ideal. now when ppl look at a picture/drawing of a trad family from the 60s they get mad they dont have died hair and piercings

Yes I wouldn’t say it’s killed all the ideas, but most it has especially in the generation i’m in with love island, the key to find a traditional is honestly to just find an intelligent woman, most of the woman who are easily influenced by social media, tv shows like love island etc… are lower intelligence, they follow lustful trends like dressing up slutty and partying for halloween, and they also claim if you disagree with them it’s “purity culture” when in reality it’s just common self respect.

 

[BradyT]

Unfortunately mine is built on lust too, I like to believe that we have more than that and genuinely love each other and will last together though

Honestly, the fix to your problem may just be replicating what you see in traditional relationships, chivalry was considered very important back then compared to now, maybe if you just act as the traditional man she may follow and act more traditional herself? Just an idea.