Was I being dramatic (longish thread)

[angelpie]

I’m kinda livid to be honest

So me and my shorty were chatting and everything was good. she asks a couple questions like trying to find something “wrong” because we felt we were so aligned in that moment when ur constantly agreeing n relating n stuff.

She starts naming different questions, one of them was are you secretly still in love with your ex. I told her I don’t talk to or even think about any of my exes.

(sure I did text my ex on hinge yesterday but she reached out to me first and I ended up ignoring her on hinge ultimately because i thought I only wanted one person.)

After I answered her question she told me she is “amicable” with all of her exes. They all use that fucking gay ass word. I was immediately thrown for a loop and I told her idek what to say now .

She said she will cut them all off for me but look, I literally cannot romanticise her after discovering this info. As soon as hearing this I now see her in a totally different light even if she’s willing to change for me. It’s basically like when a star stops shining and you cannot see the light anymore for me. We only known each other for a week but still I got very devoted to her fast and it was mutual till tonight. I dunno man she’s willing to cut em out but there’s a premise to this,

 

[angelpie]

And of course no one useful is online but I had to write it here before I forget
@TonyDr @Blackpillirony @faithful @emeraldpilled @rickydickydoodahgrimes

 

[sparkle]

Understandable to feel that way
It is weird tho

 

[angelpie]

Also thanks for listening to me vent

 

[angelpie]

Understandable to feel that way
It is weird tho

I feel REAL WEIRD

 

[sparkle]

I feel REAL WEIRD

Did she say her ex was “crazy”

 

[SASALELE]

she told me she is “amicable” with all of her exes

why are you acting like this is normal that sounds straight out of a meme

 

[nomi]

I’m kinda livid to be honest

So me and my shorty were chatting and everything was good. she asks a couple questions like trying to find something “wrong” because we felt we were so aligned in that moment when ur constantly agreeing n relating n stuff.

She starts naming different questions, one of them was are you secretly still in love with your ex. I told her I don’t talk to or even think about any of my exes.

(sure I did text my ex on hinge yesterday but she reached out to me first and I ended up ignoring her on hinge ultimately because i thought I only wanted one person.)

After I answered her question she told me she is “amicable” with all of her exes. They all use that fucking gay ass word. I was immediately thrown for a loop and I told her idek what to say now .

She said she will cut them all off for me but look, I literally cannot romanticise her after discovering this info. As soon as hearing this I now see her in a totally different light even if she’s willing to change for me. It’s basically like when a star stops shining and you cannot see the light anymore for me. We only known each other for a week but still I got very devoted to her fast and it was mutual till tonight. I dunno man she’s willing to cut em out but there’s a premise to this,

there's nothing wrong with being somewhat civil with your exes but if you're FRIENDS/FRIENDLY with them that's really weird.

I understand where you're coming from, hearing that would set me off ngl. you should talk to her about it tho, I mean you've only known each other for a week so maybe this is only a small bump in the road

 

[angelpie]

Did she say her ex was “crazy”

She didn’t talk about any of them as individuals thankfully if she did that on top of this that would be my last straw forever

why are you acting like this is normal that sounds straight out of a meme

ikr

there's nothing wrong with being somewhat civil with your exes but if you're FRIENDS/FRIENDLY with them that's really weird.

I understand where you're coming from, hearing that would set me off ngl. you should talk to her about it tho, I mean you've only known each other for a week so maybe this is only a small bump in the road

the thing is she genuinely said she is “amicable” with all her exes and past flings

 

[angelpie]

She already warned me that she’s a people pleaser trying to change but theres genuinely levels to ts

 

[nomi]

She didn’t talk about any of them as individuals thankfully if she did that on top of this that would be my last straw forever

ikr

the thing is she genuinely said she is “amicable” with all her exes and past flings

the word "amicable" gets me mad, it sounds so fucking stupid

that is a really big red flag tho

 

[Blackpillirony]

And of course no one useful is online but I had to write it here before I forget
@TonyDr @Blackpillirony @faithful @emeraldpilled @rickydickydoodahgrimes

Yeah that shit is kinda weird, like I bet she would have most probably crashed out if you admitted you were still talking with your exes.

 

[angelpie]

Yeah that shit is kinda weird, like I bet she would have most probably crashed out if you admitted you were still talking with your exes.

Im genuinely so annoyed

 

[TonyDr]

I’m kinda livid to be honest

So me and my shorty were chatting and everything was good. she asks a couple questions like trying to find something “wrong” because we felt we were so aligned in that moment when ur constantly agreeing n relating n stuff.

She starts naming different questions, one of them was are you secretly still in love with your ex. I told her I don’t talk to or even think about any of my exes.

(sure I did text my ex on hinge yesterday but she reached out to me first and I ended up ignoring her on hinge ultimately because i thought I only wanted one person.)

After I answered her question she told me she is “amicable” with all of her exes. They all use that fucking gay ass word. I was immediately thrown for a loop and I told her idek what to say now .

She said she will cut them all off for me but look, I literally cannot romanticise her after discovering this info. As soon as hearing this I now see her in a totally different light even if she’s willing to change for me. It’s basically like when a star stops shining and you cannot see the light anymore for me. We only known each other for a week but still I got very devoted to her fast and it was mutual till tonight. I dunno man she’s willing to cut em out but there’s a premise to this,

You should have asked more precise qurstions. Being amicably with exes means she dumped them so most likely moved-on, so she doesn't look like the bad person.

Could have been a harsher redflag if she was talking about them 24/7 & hating on them, meaning she wouldn't have moved on because she got dumped/cheated on, and still feel a thing for them

 

[angelpie]

You should have asked more precise qurstions. Being amicably with exes means she dumped them so most likely moved-on, so she doesn't look like the bad person.

Could have been a harsher redflag if she was talking about them 24/7 & hating on them, meaning she wouldn't have moved on because she got dumped/cheated on, and still feel a thing for them

Thank you gng

 

[SouthAfricancel]

We only known each other for a week but still I got very devoted to her fast and it was mutual till tonight.

Falling in love with someone you just met you gotta be -21

But seriously I wouldn't take the relationship too serious but that's me

 

[kismet]

I’m kinda livid to be honest

So me and my shorty were chatting and everything was good. she asks a couple questions like trying to find something “wrong” because we felt we were so aligned in that moment when ur constantly agreeing n relating n stuff.

She starts naming different questions, one of them was are you secretly still in love with your ex. I told her I don’t talk to or even think about any of my exes.

(sure I did text my ex on hinge yesterday but she reached out to me first and I ended up ignoring her on hinge ultimately because i thought I only wanted one person.)

After I answered her question she told me she is “amicable” with all of her exes. They all use that fucking gay ass word. I was immediately thrown for a loop and I told her idek what to say now .

She said she will cut them all off for me but look, I literally cannot romanticise her after discovering this info. As soon as hearing this I now see her in a totally different light even if she’s willing to change for me. It’s basically like when a star stops shining and you cannot see the light anymore for me. We only known each other for a week but still I got very devoted to her fast and it was mutual till tonight. I dunno man she’s willing to cut em out but there’s a premise to this,

ur complaining about all of this yet u still have hinge downloaded
if shes asking abt ur ex she likely knows u were talking to her

 

[angelpie]

Falling in love with someone you just met you gotta be -21
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But seriously I wouldn't take the relationship too serious but that's me

Im 22 it’s not my fault we have chemistry

 

[Kingdom of Lotharingia]

I’m kinda livid to be honest

So me and my shorty were chatting and everything was good. she asks a couple questions like trying to find something “wrong” because we felt we were so aligned in that moment when ur constantly agreeing n relating n stuff.

She starts naming different questions, one of them was are you secretly still in love with your ex. I told her I don’t talk to or even think about any of my exes.

(sure I did text my ex on hinge yesterday but she reached out to me first and I ended up ignoring her on hinge ultimately because i thought I only wanted one person.)

After I answered her question she told me she is “amicable” with all of her exes. They all use that fucking gay ass word. I was immediately thrown for a loop and I told her idek what to say now .

She said she will cut them all off for me but look, I literally cannot romanticise her after discovering this info. As soon as hearing this I now see her in a totally different light even if she’s willing to change for me. It’s basically like when a star stops shining and you cannot see the light anymore for me. We only known each other for a week but still I got very devoted to her fast and it was mutual till tonight. I dunno man she’s willing to cut em out but there’s a premise to this,

sexhavers.com

 

[angelpie]

ur complaining about all of this yet u still have hinge downloaded
if shes asking abt ur ex she likely knows u were talking to her

Exes as friends are way worse than a short hinge convo w one

 

[SouthAfricancel]

Im 22 it’s not my fault we have chemistry

Even worse you're a grown ass woman acting like this you can't make ts up

Either way it doesn't matter what we say you still gonna stay in the relationship jfl

 

[angelpie]

Even worse you're a grown ass woman acting like this you can't make ts up

Either way it doesn't matter what we say you still gonna stay in the relationship jfl

Your social skills are totally in the gutters man zero pushovers would react how I did

 

[kismet]

Exes as friends are way worse than a short hinge convo w one

no its not
its immature to be mad that someone is civil with their ex(es)
being on a dating app and even worse texting your ex on said dating app while in a "relationship" is so much worse

 

[angelpie]

no its not
its immature to be mad that someone is civil with their ex(es)
being on a dating app and even worse texting your ex on said dating app while in a "relationship" is so much worse

One conversation vs a literally friendship

Be sooo fr buddy

 

[kismet]

One conversation vs a literally friendship

Be sooo fr buddy

one conversation a dating website you chud

 

[angelpie]

one conversation a dating website you chud

Still one convo you chad

 

[retarded]

takes me back

 

[retarded]

i rmbr asking my ex abt her exes expecting a lil overview but she started listing all of their full names(7 n*****s btw) one by one with detailed descriptions

 

[Monsieur Meow]

I’m kinda livid to be honest

So me and my shorty were chatting and everything was good. she asks a couple questions like trying to find something “wrong” because we felt we were so aligned in that moment when ur constantly agreeing n relating n stuff.

She starts naming different questions, one of them was are you secretly still in love with your ex. I told her I don’t talk to or even think about any of my exes.

(sure I did text my ex on hinge yesterday but she reached out to me first and I ended up ignoring her on hinge ultimately because i thought I only wanted one person.)

After I answered her question she told me she is “amicable” with all of her exes. They all use that fucking gay ass word. I was immediately thrown for a loop and I told her idek what to say now .

She said she will cut them all off for me but look, I literally cannot romanticise her after discovering this info. As soon as hearing this I now see her in a totally different light even if she’s willing to change for me. It’s basically like when a star stops shining and you cannot see the light anymore for me. We only known each other for a week but still I got very devoted to her fast and it was mutual till tonight. I dunno man she’s willing to cut em out but there’s a premise to this,

idk her situation/intentions AND im not the right person to say this but being the kinda person that does anything when theyre single like flirting too much with others or even platonically talking to too many opposite gender ppl etc but saying ull change for ur partner is kinda weird
if u say ur/want to be a loyal person but rn ur not acting like one, then u most likely wont be like it in a rls
idk how to explain

 

[Monsieur Meow]

One conversation vs a literally friendship

Be sooo fr buddy

what was the context
did u js see her profile on there and msged/vice versa or what

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

I’m kinda livid to be honest

So me and my shorty were chatting and everything was good. she asks a couple questions like trying to find something “wrong” because we felt we were so aligned in that moment when ur constantly agreeing n relating n stuff.

She starts naming different questions, one of them was are you secretly still in love with your ex. I told her I don’t talk to or even think about any of my exes.

(sure I did text my ex on hinge yesterday but she reached out to me first and I ended up ignoring her on hinge ultimately because i thought I only wanted one person.)

After I answered her question she told me she is “amicable” with all of her exes. They all use that fucking gay ass word. I was immediately thrown for a loop and I told her idek what to say now .

She said she will cut them all off for me but look, I literally cannot romanticise her after discovering this info. As soon as hearing this I now see her in a totally different light even if she’s willing to change for me. It’s basically like when a star stops shining and you cannot see the light anymore for me. We only known each other for a week but still I got very devoted to her fast and it was mutual till tonight. I dunno man she’s willing to cut em out but there’s a premise to this,

idk i dont trust people who are buddy buddy w their exes
also people who r bringing up their ex into random convos where it isnt needed in a talking stage makes me raise my eyebrows cos like why do u wanna talk about them to someone u have feelings for unless it relates to the convo
if i have feelings for someone the last person i wanna think about is my ex

 

[Deleted Member 101633]

she was shit testing you and you failed bro

 

[angelpie]

i rmbr asking my ex abt her exes expecting a lil overview but she started listing all of their full names(7 n*****s btw) one by one with detailed descriptions

Ngga u not relating to me but still shit

she was shit testing you and you failed bro

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No

what was the context
did u js see her profile on there and msged/vice versa or what

my ex saw me and liked my profile and said smth about fate

idk her situation/intentions AND im not the right person to say this but being the kinda person that does anything when theyre single like flirting too much with others or even platonically talking to too many opposite gender ppl etc but saying ull change for ur partner is kinda weird
if u say ur/want to be a loyal person but rn ur not acting like one, then u most likely wont be like it in a rls
idk how to explain

yes people are not projects they are finished products

 

[Deleted Member 101633]

facepalm emoji
No

Just take it on the chin. Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn.

 

[angelpie]

Just take it on the chin. Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn.

Kiss me already

 

[faithful]

I’m kinda livid to be honest

So me and my shorty were chatting and everything was good. she asks a couple questions like trying to find something “wrong” because we felt we were so aligned in that moment when ur constantly agreeing n relating n stuff.

She starts naming different questions, one of them was are you secretly still in love with your ex. I told her I don’t talk to or even think about any of my exes.

(sure I did text my ex on hinge yesterday but she reached out to me first and I ended up ignoring her on hinge ultimately because i thought I only wanted one person.)

After I answered her question she told me she is “amicable” with all of her exes. They all use that fucking gay ass word. I was immediately thrown for a loop and I told her idek what to say now .

She said she will cut them all off for me but look, I literally cannot romanticise her after discovering this info. As soon as hearing this I now see her in a totally different light even if she’s willing to change for me. It’s basically like when a star stops shining and you cannot see the light anymore for me. We only known each other for a week but still I got very devoted to her fast and it was mutual till tonight. I dunno man she’s willing to cut em out but there’s a premise to this,

all u have to do is answer dms bruh

 

[angelpie]

all u have to do is answer dms bruh

I dont use discord i alr told u add my insta

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

Dnr too long

 

[angelpie]

Dnr too long

Its okay I dont think anyone’s ever asked you for relationship advice

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

Its okay I dont think anyone’s ever asked you for relationship advice

Nah I'm top tier when it comes to relationship advice, I'm sure you'd be surprised

 

[angelpie]

Nah I'm top tier when it comes to relationship advice, I'm sure you'd be surprised

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Coaches don’t play ahh

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

I’m kinda livid to be honest

So me and my shorty were chatting and everything was good. she asks a couple questions like trying to find something “wrong” because we felt we were so aligned in that moment when ur constantly agreeing n relating n stuff.

She starts naming different questions, one of them was are you secretly still in love with your ex. I told her I don’t talk to or even think about any of my exes.

(sure I did text my ex on hinge yesterday but she reached out to me first and I ended up ignoring her on hinge ultimately because i thought I only wanted one person.)

After I answered her question she told me she is “amicable” with all of her exes. They all use that fucking gay ass word. I was immediately thrown for a loop and I told her idek what to say now .

She said she will cut them all off for me but look, I literally cannot romanticise her after discovering this info. As soon as hearing this I now see her in a totally different light even if she’s willing to change for me. It’s basically like when a star stops shining and you cannot see the light anymore for me. We only known each other for a week but still I got very devoted to her fast and it was mutual till tonight. I dunno man she’s willing to cut em out but there’s a premise to this,

Dnr this was long slop
not being amicable with exes just means you're either petty, or you have autistic choices in partners.

But generally it is pretty weird to start a conversation on exes, make sure she doesn't want to cuck you in the future brotato personally you should try to find out what the motive behind the convo was perhaps she still hangs with exes since she's "amicable"

Btw why do you have hinge still

 

[faithful]

I dont use discord i alr told u add my insta

i dont have insta i'm ip banned bro

 

[angelpie]

i dont have insta i'm ip banned bro

I just can’t use discord like dat

 

[faithful]

I just can’t use discord like dat

close ur eyes and pretend its snapchat