Went to a movie with my oneitis yesterday

[rand anon]

Had fun, also got to see oldcel Pitt still kicking it on screen jfl

Very bittersweet tbh

 

[wsada]

.com's Gengar

delete that

 

[rand anon]

.com's Gengar

delete that

Y

 

[rand anon]

@TonyDr maybe u were right, even though I’m not pursuing anything with her maybe I shouldn’t be hanging out with her too often, my heart is kinda aching rn haha

 

[rand anon]

are you guys going out now????

man I wish, maybe in an alternate reality

I made prev posts about her, but long story short is that she's married but has a dysfunctional relationship with her husband (arranged), they're constantly taking breaks with each other, and she's deciding whether or not to leave him in the next couple months

Either way, rand has no interest in being a homewrecker or being with someone who has that much baggage, so I'm not trying to date her. It just sucks spending time with her and thinking about what could be though

 

[rand anon]

how do you cope with all the feelings? must be hard to be close to someone you know things can never work out but who knows man sometimes things aren’t perfect but work

I guess I don't, or atleast not very effectively. My heart is legit hurting rn lol, I feel sad occasionally, but I haven't felt this level of pain in awhile

 

[swanneo]

wow i read everything and the longing must be rlly difficult its good that u had fun at the cinema tho

 

[rand anon]

i hope it gets better bro but the best is always to face the feelings to the fullest instead of denying it to ourselves

Thank you, I'll def try

 

[TonyDr]

@TonyDr maybe u were right, even though I’m not pursuing anything with her maybe I shouldn’t be hanging out with her too often, my heart is kinda aching rn haha

Tbh you should stay away from her to not hurt your feelings, and then focusing on other women

 

[rand anon]

Tbh you should stay away from her to not hurt your feelings, and then focusing on other women

yeah guess so, it’s kinda hard to though cause her sister and my mom are friends so they come to the house often. It just sucks cause it’s all fun in the beginning but then a few hrs later it hits like a ton of bricks. But yeah hopefully when I try dating again I won’t think about her as much

 

[Chifuyu]

Had fun, also got to see oldcel Pitt still kicking it on screen jfl

Very bittersweet tbh

Did you hit?

 

[Chifuyu]

.com's Gengar

delete that

Why?

 

[TonyDr]

yeah guess so, it’s kinda hard to though cause her sister and my mom are friends so they come to the house often. It just sucks cause it’s all fun in the beginning but then a few hrs later it hits like a ton of bricks. But yeah hopefully when I try dating again I won’t think about her as much

Better to avoid her more often and not going to the cinema with her, for example. It's mentally unhealthy to pursue & spending time with a girl who aren't interested in us...

 

[slopslinger]

wats ur review of the movie bru?

 

[rand anon]

Better to avoid her more often and not going to the cinema with her, for example. It's mentally unhealthy to pursue & spending time with a girl who aren't interested in us...

I mean I’m not trying to pursue her but I do like spending time with her. But yes like u said it isn’t healthy in the long run. Rand rly needs to make some irl friends

 

[TonyDr]

I mean I’m not trying to pursue her but I do like spending time with her. But yes like u said it isn’t healthy in the long run. Rand rly needs to make some irl friends

I mean spending time with girls is fine... if it's platonic or if you have already a girlfriend.. But pursuing a chick you have feelings for & it's not reciprocated ? It's just torture

 

[rand anon]

wats ur review of the movie bru?

It was pretty good ig, 7/10. Idk much about f1 though so idk about the accuracy of it

 

[rand anon]

I mean spending time with girls is fine... if it's platonic or if you have already a girlfriend.. But pursuing a chick you have feelings for & it's not reciprocated ? It's just torture

I’ve been trying to switch my romantic feelings off for her and just be satisfied with being platonic but it just isn’t happening. If I had a gf like u said that would prob make it easier ig, but that isn’t gonna happen for a good while. I’ll just avoid spending one on one time with her

 

[TonyDr]

I’ve been trying to switch my romantic feelings off for her and just be satisfied with being platonic but it just isn’t happening. If I had a gf like u said that would prob make it easier ig, but that isn’t gonna happen for a good while. I’ll just avoid spending one on one time with her

Have you tried dating apps, approching girls ?

 

[rand anon]

Have you tried dating apps, approching girls ?

Never approached girls
And yeah, I don’t use tinder or bumble anymore cause they go to shit when I add my height, only get likes from whales jfl

Can’t rly complain about hinge, works pretty well despite my height. A lot of girls message first too

The issue isn’t rly getting a date though. It’s doing well on it. Still have ptsd my first and only date lol, I wasn’t looksmaxxed back then but still. Like I said though I’ll try it again once I’m done with my summer classes. Still don’t rly expect to get a gf anytime soon though, my looksmatches have way better options than to put up with a teramanlet who’s also non NT af

 

[zombiebeatz2006]

f1?