What’s the best way to work on social skills?

[Ashes]

I never put any thought into it and now I have everything else but I can’t talk to people

 

[slatz]

Exposure is the thing that works, you can always use GABAergics, weed, alcohol, etc to help make it feel easier than use them less and less over time

 

[Ashes]

Exposure is the thing that works, you can always use GABAergics, weed, alcohol, etc to help make it feel easier than use them less and less over time

So like smoke a j then go to the mall and just wing it lll

 

[Brava]

Talk with your relatives more

 

[slatz]

So like smoke a j then go to the mall and just wing it lll

Yes

 

[Ashes]

Talk with your relatives more

They suck lol

 

[The Dark Passenger]

I never put any thought into it and now I have everything else but I can’t talk to people

Don't.

 

[Brava]

They suck lol

For practice tho?

 

[Ashes]

Don't.

Why

 

[Ashes]

For practice tho?

I can talk to my family just fine but it’s hard with new people

 

[The Dark Passenger]

Why

People are mean.

 

[Ashes]

People are mean.

True but you choose most people in your life

 

[Brava]

I can talk to my family just fine but it’s hard with new people

School?

 

[Ashes]

School?

I used to go but I got accepted to collage and started fully online collage

 

[Brava]

I used to go but I got accepted to collage and started fully online collage

Fully online college is fucking cancer you will hate it.

Finish this semester up and take classes. It’s so much better

 

[Ashes]

Fully online college is fucking cancer you will hate it.

Finish this semester up and take classes. It’s so much better

I’ve been doing it for the last year and I like it more bc I have so much free time now but I don’t get to see new people as much

 

[Mr. Oxytocin]

get a job in customer service

 

[Brava]

I’ve been doing it for the last year and I like it more bc I have so much free time now but I don’t get to see new people as much

I think you should consider taking in person classes because that way can help you with your poor socializing skills

 

[Ashes]

get a job in customer service

I’ll do that

 

[Ashes]

I think you should consider taking in person classes because that way can help you with your poor socializing skills

I would but I live a hour away from campus

 

[Brava]

I would but I live a hour away from campus

Holy shit. Might have to consider taking that trip. Maybe for 1-2 classes

 

[Ashes]

Holy shit. Might have to consider taking that trip. Maybe for 1-2 classes

Maybe once I get another job bc I can’t afford that gas with all the peptides and beef

 

[Brava]

Maybe once I get another job bc I can’t afford that gas with all the peptides and beef

Get a job

 

[Ashes]

Get a job

I have 2 Alr but they pay like ass bc I’m 17

 

[Brava]

I have 2 Alr but they pay like ass bc I’m 17

I just don’t understand how you can’t socialize then

Who would you want to socialize with?

 

[Ashes]

I just don’t understand how you can’t socialize then

Who would you want to socialize with?

New people, I get anxious then say dumb stuff and look like a fool

 

[Brava]

New people, I get anxious then say dumb stuff and look like a fool

You can easily find new people at college or at work

 

[Ashes]

You can easily find new people at college or at work

My job is just me and my gf but ima try to get a job at a gas station or smth where I have to talk to people

 

[Brava]

My job is just me and my gf but ima try to get a job at a gas station or smth where I have to talk to people

Dude if you already got a girlfriend tf would you need more socializing if it’s not networking

 

[Ashes]

Dude if you already got a girlfriend tf would you need more socializing if it’s not networking

Bc I’m 5’10 and if she leaves me for a 6’4 dude I’m cooked . I got no game lol

 

[Brava]

Bc I’m 5’10 and if she leaves me for a 6’4 dude I’m cooked

Why are you expecting her to leave V

 

[Ashes]

Why are you expecting her to leave V

I’m not, I just wanna work on my social skills so if she does I can get another

 

[Brava]

I’m not, I just wanna work on my social skills so if she does I can get another

Good luck vro

 

[chels_slayer]

I never put any thought into it and now I have everything else but I can’t talk to people

Start with some people you trust and know

 

[skey]

I never put any thought into it and now I have everything else but I can’t talk to people

Online friends and communication helped me a lot