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LMAOO wait when did you get based
 
Penalizer69 said:
Bruh 💀 the whole threads about personalitymaxxing

Going against your whole point saying this
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ye im telling him to personality maxx by telling him to understand sarcasm, it is an integral part of many peoples daily lives
 
Dragon said:
ye im telling him to personality maxx by telling him to understand sarcasm, it is an integral part of many peoples daily lives
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mmmm thats so beta bro
 
Penalizer69 said:
Oh that's right, stay incel faggots.
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Around 5 service hours weekly at my nearby church, helping the old people in my neighborhood tend to plants, metacognitionmaxxing, and attempting to socialize atleast twice a week with strangers.
 
looks = personality
idk im just trying to statusmaxx currently
 
submissivechud said:
Around 5 service hours weekly at my nearby church, helping the old people in my neighborhood tend to plants, metacognitionmaxxing, and attempting to socialize atleast twice a week with strangers.
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@Penalizer69 what the fuck is so funny
 
Aryy said:
idk pray for the best i cant fucking speak i cant since the start, even since i was like 4 teachers complained i dont speak

i dont see a way out of this
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What do you mean you dont speak, like do you speak when spoken to? Or are you just mute like an autist.
 
Not2beau said:
someone drop a guide
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Like a social engineering guide or understanding social ques 101?
fuhhhh i might make one i've been getting into social phycology and how the psyche operates on a fundamental level
 
Aryy said:
No i cant i mean i can physically speak but even when people speak to me compliment me etc irl i just nod i dont say anything
i can only speak to friends
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I mean I dont see much issue with this tbh, just try to stay engaged in conversations, do you nod because they catch you off guard? or do you just not want to talk to them
 
submissivechud said:
I mean I dont see much issue with this tbh, just try to stay engaged in conversations, do you nod because they catch you off guard? or do you just not want to talk to them
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off gaurd

but the problem is all my life i cant make friends on my own
people have to want to be friends with me from before irl and then eventually approach me enough and then basically im in their group

literally i hadnt talked to anyone first ever till i was 13
even now there are only 2 people i talked to first in my entire life because they were just so interesting i had to
 
Aryy said:
off gaurd

but the problem is all my life i cant make friends on my own
people have to want to be friends with me from before irl and then eventually approach me enough and then basically im in their group
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Practice talking to more people I suppose
I think I said something along these lines to hannah but you have to realize how little so many things matter
Who cares if you get rejected or they dont talk to you back, just means you arent compatiable as friends.
Aryy said:
literally i hadnt talked to anyone first ever till i was 13
even now there are only 2 people i talked to first in my entire life because they were just so interesting i had to
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submissivechud said:
Practice talking to more people I suppose
I think I said something along these lines to hannah but you have to realize how little so many things matter
Who cares if you get rejected or they dont talk to you back, just means you arent compatiable as friends.
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i just dont wanna bother people i dont know how to talk
 
Aryy said:
i just dont wanna bother people i dont know how to talk
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Did you read a single thing I said ary
1. Prioritize your happyness over everything else, other peoples feelings dont matter, especially if you dont know them well and their sadness wont make you sad. Your life is the only confirmable thing in the universe, this could all be a simulation where your the only real brain, or the entire universe could be a floating brain where your imagining all of this, who fucking knows.

2. Practice speaking, do it with friends or do it in vc, try to learn what people laugh at and what they dont, people enjoy talking about themselves so always try to pry, for example say your friend said she went to a concert, ask her what she did there or what she liked.
 
submissivechud said:
Did you read a single thing I said ary
1. Prioritize your happyness over everything else, other peoples feelings dont matter, especially if you dont know them well and their sadness wont make you sad. Your life is the only confirmable thing in the universe, this could all be a simulation where your the only real brain, or the entire universe could be a floating brain where your imagining all of this, who fucking knows.

2. Practice speaking, do it with friends or do it in vc, try to learn what people laugh at and what they dont, people enjoy talking about themselves so always try to pry, for example say your friend said she went to a concert, ask her what she did there or what she liked.
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i dont know i just have paranoia that people hate me over everything even rn
i just dont wanna be annoying id rather keep to myself then

i dont feel bonded to any of my irl friends because i cant tell them anything because i have paranoia its annoying

i dont know how to accept it that i might bother people because i bother them by no speaking too
 
Aryy said:
i dont know i just have paranoia that people hate me over everything even rn
i just dont wanna be annoying id rather keep to myself then
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Who gives a shit, if people like you, for you, then they will stay your friend, and if they dont then all that you lost was a shitty friend
Aryy said:
i dont feel bonded to any of my irl friends because i cant tell them anything because i have paranoia its annoying
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Tbh im not a foid and id assume you guys have different friendships and such so I cant help much with this but refer to the above ig
Aryy said:
i dont know how to accept it that i might bother people because i bother them by no speaking too
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If you already bother them then you have nothing to lose, and again, who gives a shit if you bother them
 
Aryy said:
i dont know i just have paranoia that people hate me over everything even rn
i just dont wanna be annoying id rather keep to myself then

i dont feel bonded to any of my irl friends because i cant tell them anything because i have paranoia its annoying

i dont know how to accept it that i might bother people because i bother them by no speaking too
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I think I realise that people will hate you even if you keep to yourself. Say your anxious and say something awkward, then people will think that you're wierd, if people don't like the way you look then they'll talk bad about you regardless. The best thing you can do is speak anyway, be confident, and people will honestly like you better.

I also noticed if I see someone who doesn't really speak I think it's because they don't want to be spoken to, but I know I wouldn't mind if I was spoken to, so chances are it's all in my head. I mean everyone craves connections and at the very least to be liked right? Sometimes you just have to talk to people first, it's not other people's fault.

Tldr social anxiety is irrational just speak
 
submissivechud said:
Who gives a shit, if people like you, for you, then they will stay your friend, and if they dont then all that you lost was a shitty friend

Tbh im not a foid and id assume you guys have different friendships and such so I cant help much with this but refer to the above ig

If you already bother them then you have nothing to lose, and again, who gives a shit if you bother them
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but im annoying them, they feel bad
i feel bad that they feel bad
i dont want anyone to feel bad i want people to be happy in general
 
Penalizer69 said:
I think I realise that people will hate you even if you keep to yourself. Say your anxious and say something awkward, then people will think that you're wierd, if people don't like the way you look then they'll talk bad about you regardless. The best thing you can do is speak anyway, be confident, and people will honestly like you better.

I also noticed if I see someone who doesn't really speak I think it's because they don't want to be spoken to, but I know I wouldn't mind if I was spoken to, so chances are it's all in my head. I mean everyone craves connections and at the very least to be liked right? Sometimes you just have to talk to people first, it's not other people's fault.

Tldr social anxiety is irrational just speak
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Autocorrect r***d me
 
Penalizer69 said:
I think I realise that people will hate you even if you keep to yourself. Say your anxious and say something awkward, then people will think that you're wierd, if people don't like the way you look then they'll talk bad about you regardless. The best thing you can do is speak anyway, be confident, and people will honestly like you better.

I also noticed if I see someone who doesn't really speak I think it's because they don't want to be spoken to, but I know I wouldn't mind if I was spoken to, so chances our it's all in my head. I mean everyone craves conception and at the very least to be liked right? Sometimes you just have to talk to people first, it's not other people's fault.

Tldr social anxiety is irrational just speak
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I know its so irrational everyone is normal here im just the most idk weird person here atleast

i dont know what to do i just dont wanna be here if it makes someone happy

but yeah youre right i cant even express it when i like someone its so hard

i remember this girl i wanted to be friends with outright complimented me and asked to be friends i literally dnred her irl because of how awkward i am
 
Aryy said:
but im annoying them, they feel bad
i feel bad that they feel bad
i dont want anyone to feel bad i want people to be happy in general
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emotional empathy
More common in women
I cant really help you then, just try to take my advice I suppose
 
Penalizer69 said:
Oh that's right, stay incel faggots.
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just a natural process really. over my teenage years ive become a more and more likable person (not self glaze, ive genuinely been told this by MULTIPLE people), and so now? i get invited to stuff, i have genuine friends, people actually go out of their way for me, all that shit.

ultimate goal is to not be a lonely chud ever again.
 
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