what do u guys think of marriage

[aryaw]

i feel like more and more people wont do it, many people say they wont ever

 

[aryaw]

i feel like more and more people wont do it, many people say they wont ever

Also since bp is really popular and i think more people than ever dont trust it

 

[Bloxy]

sort of romantic but scam

 

[slenderpill]

i feel like more and more people wont do it, many people say they wont ever

marriage is great just not in your twenties

 

[Penalizer69]

It's nice to do if you have the money. It's not needed though

 

[aryaw]

sort of romantic but scam

how

 

[David🦢]

Also since bp is really popular

Saying it like it's some kind of tiktok trend

 

[aryaw]

marriage is great just not in your twenties

Then when

 

[tonisworld]

i feel like more and more people wont do it, many people say they wont ever

When I'm rich af ill get prenup

 

[Ben07]

i feel like more and more people wont do it, many people say they wont ever

just give away half of everything you own

 

[slenderpill]

Then when

30s

 

[aryaw]

Saying it like it's some kind of tiktok trend

Kind of is now

 

[Bojack]

if its the right girl then yea i'm down for it

 

[aryaw]

just give away half of everything you own

Only if u have more moneny

 

[</3]

its prolly aight

 

[aryaw]

It's nice to do if you have the money. It's not needed though

Money helps everything

 

[Bloxy]

how

expensive, diamonds,venue,food,etc

 

[Ben07]

Only if u have more money

I would feel like a cuck if i was w som1 wealthier then me

 

[aryaw]

expensive, diamonds,venue,food,etc

True but it makes the wedding day special ig

 

[aryaw]

I eould feel like a. cuck if i was w som1 wealthier then me

Valid

 

[Bloxy]

True but it makes the wedding day special ig

and the divorce much worse

 

[GK7000]

Should be done only for the religion one is in (Gods word being above any law) but shouldn’t involve itself with economical and or legal matters as much.

 

[aryaw]

and the divorce much worse

Gotten so bad some people be throwing divorce parties

 

[Bloxy]

Should be done only for the religion one is in (Gods word being above any law) but shouldn’t involve itself with economical and or legal matters as much.

true,i think the symbolism is important

 

[GK7000]

Should be done only for the religion one is in (Gods word being above any law) but shouldn’t involve itself with economical and or legal matters as much.

Overall it can be a beautiful thing but you have to play your cards correctly.

 

[aryaw]

Should be done only for the religion one is in (Gods word being above any law) but shouldn’t involve itself with economical and or legal matters as much.

valid yeah, but some people do it for love ig

 

[Bojack]

valid yeah, but some people do it for love ig

fuark lovehavers

 

[GK7000]

true,i think the symbolism is important

Fr like I never understood the whole concept as a child in terms of legality and economics. „Bitch the fuck you mean you get half”

 

[aryaw]

fuark lovehavers

agree

 

[Bloxy]

Bitch the fuck you mean you get half”

lol ye ur stuff should just be ur stuff,if she truly loves you she`d understand

 

[GK7000]

valid yeah, but some people do it for love ig

That is what I’m saying it should be for love of course.

 

[aryaw]

lol ye ur stuff should just be ur stuff,if she truly loves you she`d understand

I might be the only one and this is probably stupid but i feel like a couple should own everything together, why would you care abt divorce dont divorce

 

[GK7000]

lol ye ur stuff should just be ur stuff,if she truly loves you she`d understand

Real Niggaz know you sign a pre-nup and pussies who get pressed by their fiancé and dont sign it are weak.

 

[GK7000]

I might be the only one and this is probably stupid but i feel like a couple should own everything together, why would you care abt divorce dont divorce

Yes for example if you run a business together or smthn but stuff that was yours before you married should be completely out the question.

 

[Bloxy]

why would you care abt divorce dont divorce

ignoring something doesnt make it not real

i feel like a couple should own everything together

for me its important that id have my own money and possesions

 

[TonyDr]

i feel like more and more people wont do it, many people say they wont ever

It's ideal to get date and married late or if you own already everything on your name.
Divorce is freaking high and in courts they basically nuke a prenup and give to girls a no-fault divorce, even if she did you dirty.

Everything on your name before dating, no joint bank account, and she pays a part of the bills. Don't fall for the trad wife or sahm bullshit

Also women give crazy free passes to men they genuinely love so you should except the same, if not a even better treatment from her/them.

 

[aryaw]

Yes for example if you run a business together or smthn but stuff that was yours before you married should be completely out the question.

Guess so

 

[GK7000]

@TonyDr how can they disregarded pre-nup?

 

[Bojack]

agree

fuck anyone who has it better than me tbh ngl

 

[aryaw]

ignoring something doesnt make it not real

for me its important that id have my own money and possesions

its kinda sad before marrying couples have to think that they may get divorced i know the possiblity is high but if you love each other sm why would you divorce, why dont people try to work it out if its not cheating or abuse ;(

 

[aryaw]

@TonyDr how can they disregarded pre-nup?

Ive heard this happening

 

[Bloxy]

why dont people try to work it out if its not cheating or abuse

true,then again people are complicated or something

 

[TonyDr]

@TonyDr how can they disregarded pre-nup?

Judges can nuke the prenup in certain cases. E.g. if in the contract she gets nothing if she cheats but y'all has kids the contract is nuked for child support, or if she wasn't working (w/ or w/o kids), it's considered degrading her life conditions. Even if you was the sole one paying for the house

 

[snoblomov]

it was great up until 60ish years ago but because there's no religious / moral substance behind it anymore it's lost all strength and meaning and now it's just something people do out of obligation. like building a house with no foundation.

 

[GK7000]

Ive heard this happening

Might own nothing atp or just make a company owned by a trust fund owned by my mom to manage my assets.

 

[SammyElMafioso]

30s

early teens is best

 

[slenderpill]

early teens is best

For marriage?...

 

[aryaw]

it was great up until 60ish years ago but because there's no religious / moral substance behind it anymore it's lost all strength and meaning and now it's just something people do out of obligation. like building a house with no foundation.

Some people do it without being religious for kids or love smth but yeah

 

[GK7000]

Judges can nuke the prenup in certain cases. E.g. if in the contract she gets nothing if she cheats but y'all has kids the contract is nuked for child support, or if she wasn't working (w/ or w/o kids), it's considered degrading her life conditions. Even if you was the sole one paying for the house

Can alter the pre-nup so it avoids this?

 

[aryaw]

Might own nothing atp or just make a company owned by a trust fund owned by my mom to manage my assets.

Some people do the latter probably the best