Discussion What do you guys hope in getting out of looksmaxing?

[Syniq]

More partners?

More sex?

Better perceived self-worth?

A purpose?

Wanting to look better than your piers?

Wanting more attention?

What is it? And if you do not looksmax, can I assume that you are here because you want to find a community that you can be intergrated in and not feel judge for having "weird" or "out of social" ideas?

 

[Angel]

i want a guy to look at me with love

 

[Syniq]

i want a guy to look at me with love

Do you believe that cannot be achieved because you are ugly or because you are average?

 

[Angel]

Do you believe that cannot be achieved because you are ugly or because you are average?

yeah

i also wanna improve my social life, if i'm more attractive i'll be treated better and slightly more confident

 

[benny]

i want a women to lust over me and be obsessed with me

 

[Syniq]

i want a women to lust over me and be obsessed with me

Why do you want that?

 

[Angel]

i want a women to lust over me and be obsessed with me

i agree

i want someone to love me and be attracted to me for the way i look

biggest dream

 

[vamp]

i want woman to lust over me and be obsessed with me

 

[benny]

Why do you want that?

to feel desired

 

[Syniq]

to feel desired

You can feel desired without a woman obsessing over you.

Same goes for any sex.

Why do you feel that being "desired" is a synonym with obsession?

 

[benny]

You can feel desired without a woman obsessing over you.

Same goes for any sex.

Why do you feel that being "desired" is a synonym with obsession?

I guess because normal or “moderate” attraction seems to be fleeting in every case i’ve experienced

i just want a woman to make me feel like im the only man in the world, and i think being good looking will do more favors then not

 

[affiliate]

More partners?

More sex?

Better perceived self-worth?

A purpose?

Wanting to look better than your piers?

Wanting more attention?

What is it? And if you do not looksmax, can I assume that you are here because you want to find a community that you can be intergrated in and not feel judge for having "weird" or "out of social" ideas?

in the end i want people to look at me and say
Wow shes beautiful ive never seen a girl like her


obviously i know im not even considered attractive rn but
thats my end goal

 

[Angel]

in the end i want people to look at me and say
Wow shes beautiful ive never seen a girl like her


obviously i know im not even considered attractive rn but
thats my end goal

this aswell

 

[Syniq]

I guess because normal or “moderate” attraction seems to be fleeting in every case i’ve experienced

i just want a woman to make me feel like im the only man in the world, and i think being good looking will do more favors then not

So when you say "obsession" you mean strong love from the other the person.

Not that she is literally obsessed with you to the point that you are her only thought in mind, and that even in hardship where you have wronged her she'd side with you.

 

[benny]

So when you say "obsession" you mean strong love from the other the person.

Not that she is literally obsessed with you to the point that you are her only thought in mind, and that even in hardship where you have wronged her she'd side with you.

yeah i guess you are correct

though i think obsessions is the better of the two extremes, id rather her be obsessed than treated like an option

 

[Syniq]

in the end i want people to look at me and say
Wow shes beautiful ive never seen a girl like her


obviously i know im not even considered attractive rn but
thats my end goal

Why? To gain confidence?

Say you become the level of attractiveness that you desire, and the fantasy does not happen. Are you, therefore, less attractive?

 

[Deleted Member 106781]

To cook food and play Roblox I think

 

[Syniq]

To cook food and play Roblox I think

That's a good goal buddy

 

[affiliate]

Why? To gain confidence?

Say you become the level of attractiveness that you desire, and the fantasy does not happen. Are you, therefore, less attractive?

No not to gain confidence
just to be extremely beautiful like the literal action of being beautiful lol
i dont want people to literally say “wow shes beautiful ive never seen a girl like her” outloud, i want them to think it
so if the fantasy doesnt happen i wouldnt be less attractive? because the fantasy wasnt meant to be literal

 

[Deleted Member 106781]

That's a good goal buddy

Thanks.

 

[lydia]

i am just trying to feel good about myself. i couldn't care less what people think, to be honest. i’ve been dealing with body dysmorphia for 4 years now

 

[draftLexy]

I want to feel good about myself
To look in the mirror and be happy with myself
Also i wish to be viewed as normal
Because i have things that are considered abnormal and people point out