Serious what should i do when my mom brings my mood down?

[einfühlsamefoid]

idk i feel kinda corny writing about this but, everytime my mom is in a bad mood and drunk,she yells at me and insults me and whatever.It honestly brings my mood down and makes me really unmotivated.For example this makes me stay in my bed my whole day . Pls give me some advice on what i can do to stay motivated when shes in a bad mood.

 

[Br4va]

I would recommend making some friends or going outside more

Also you could try to get a job

Basically get out the house more

 

[xoxo]

Don’t engage with it when she’s like this
As soon as u give your energy away for something useless u will feel drained

 

[einfühlsamefoid]

Don’t engage with it when she’s like this
As soon as u give your energy away for something useless u will feel drained

thank you

 

[einfühlsamefoid]

I would recommend making some friends or going outside more

Also you could try to get a job

Basically get out the house more

well if i go out with my friends or someone she will start to call me nonstop.but going out with friends helps.thanks for the other advice.

 

[Br4va]

well if i go out with my friends or someone she will start to call me nonstop.but going out with friends helps.thanks for the other advice.

Dude no way she is that nosy

 

[tospakz]

nothing u can do js lay in bed

 

[aspiringpslgodess]

idk i feel kinda corny writing about this but, everytime my mom is in a bad mood and drunk,she yells at me and insults me and whatever.It honestly brings my mood down and makes me really unmotivated.For example this makes me stay in my bed my whole day . Pls give me some advice on what i can do to stay motivated when shes in a bad mood.

id say just try and avoid interacting with her trust me i have family like this

 

[einfühlsamefoid]

Dude no way she is that nosy

yeah its horrible i just had to put her to bed lol

 

[Br4va]

yeah its horrible i just had to put her to bed lol

How

 

[einfühlsamefoid]

id say just try and avoid interacting with her trust me i have family like this

but i feel bad if i just ignore her yk

 

[einfühlsamefoid]

How

because she cant walk alone because she is drunk.she already got a walking disability from alcohol

 

[Br4va]

because she cant walk alone because she is drunk.she already got a walking disability from alcohol

Dude I’m sorry for you

 

[aspiringpslgodess]

but i feel bad if i just ignore her yk

i get it but you gotta put your mental health first

 

[einfühlsamefoid]

Dude I’m sorry for you

its okayy

 

[einfühlsamefoid]

i get it but you gotta put your mental health first

hmm yeah

 

[Br4va]

its okayy

It’s not

 

[einfühlsamefoid]

It’s not

ik its not normal but idk

 

[naomimisora]

is there any way for you to stop or decrease how much she drinks? maybe put bottles in different places

 

[einfühlsamefoid]

is there any way for you to stop or decrease how much she drinks? maybe put bottles in different places

idkk im scared to do that maybe i should try thoughh

 

[naomimisora]

idkk im scared to do that maybe i should try thoughh

i think you should, her alcohol consumption is the main reason why she’s targeting you and why her health is so bad