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How do i talk more in groups tbh, its very hard for me irl like i can talk one on one with strangers but groups make it so awkward for me you know?
I just listen, because idk when to cut someone off and speak in between
 
How do i talk more in groups tbh, its very hard for me irl like i can talk one on one with strangers but groups make it so awkward for me you know?
I just listen, because idk when to cut someone off and speak in between
All comes down to truly believing your thoughts are important. Be a little selfish sometimes.
Many people blabber their mouths away without a single thought.
 
How do i talk more in groups tbh, its very hard for me irl like i can talk one on one with strangers but groups make it so awkward for me you know?
I just listen, because idk when to cut someone off and speak in between
Everyone loves hearing themselves talk. Like what DarkAscender above me said, you have to be a little selfish and take up some space when you have something to say. People aren’t just gonna cut you off unless they’re dickheads and if that’s the case you need to find a new set of friends.

What you have to say is just as important as everyone else
 
I’m willing to help y’all.

Once you ascend its integral you’re socially and mentally calibrated
The man that says he’s mentally calibrated is not mentally calibrated
 
Everyone loves hearing themselves talk. Like what DarkAscender above me said, you have to be a little selfish and take up some space when you have something to say. People aren’t just gonna cut you off unless they’re dickheads and if that’s the case you need to find a new set of friends.

What you have to say is just as important as everyone else
Yeah id just feel bad cutting someone off thats why i end up just listening

Then people ask me why im so quiet, but i really dont know when to speak

And when i speak idk, im not used to it like the silence when everyones hearing me and like the 1-2 seconds they take to reply like it makes me (kind of) nervous i dont know if im overthinking it too much
 
Yeah id just feel bad cutting someone off thats why i end up just listening

Then people ask me why im so quiet, but i really dont know when to speak

And when i speak idk, im not used to it like the silence when everyones hearing me and like the 1-2 seconds they take to reply like it makes me (kind of) nervous i dont know if im overthinking it too much
Silence is so part of the conversation. I don’t mind silences. Talking with people when you’re nervous about it getting silent is 2x harder when you just let it happen and let the convo flow
 

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