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Spuffy said:
i assume somebody who knows about looksmaxxing would admire somebody more if they knew they ascended, but maybe not
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nah i’m trying to ascend to fit in with gl people but i realise it’s my personality atp
 
Spuffy said:
even if it doesnt come easily to you, its desirable to want somebody who was naturally born attractive
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yeah i want my kids to not have to go through the struggles of being incel/lonely and although it’s mainly due to trauma and upbringing looks is very important
 
Spuffy said:
nt is law
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legit i have just come to this realisation like within the last week or so and it’s brutal tbh, can’t change any amount of social conditioning unless u have a god tier therapist ig
 
Spuffy said:
i assume somebody who knows about looksmaxxing would admire somebody more if they knew they ascended, but maybe not
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That's how I feel. I care more about a person's desire to make change, their passion to go through with it, and the discipline to meet their goals to the end.
 
Randomized Shame said:
That's how I feel. I care more about a person's desire to make change, their passion to go through with it, and the discipline to meet their goals to the end.
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this answer makes the most sense to me logically, but i still ask because clearly some people disagree
 
Spuffy said:
is it the effort and dedication put in thats alluring?
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not only that. i agree with randomized shame (hi) but its also like ... you've been thru hardships. I gravitated towards my best friend in real because we both were chopped like most of our lives. you connect on a whole different level because you've moved thru the world and been treated in the same way. Someone who has been attractive their whole lives is like being poor and getting with someone who has always been rich. there's always going to be a certain disconnect.
 
The cat from The Matrix said:
not only that. i agree with randomized shame (hi) but its also like ... you've been thru hardships. I gravitated towards my best friend in real because we both were chopped like most of our lives. you connect on a whole different level because you've moved thru the world and been treated in the same way. Someone who has been attractive their whole lives is like being poor and getting with someone who has always been rich. there's always going to be a certain disconnect.
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this is true. for me, its less about their experiences growing up and more that its simply nicer to see a big change made. its impressive. however i can relate to your poor and rich point as somebody who goes to a prestigious school for free and comes from the slums of philly 😂
 
delilahjones said:
yeah i want my kids to not have to go through the struggles of being incel/lonely and although it’s mainly due to trauma and upbringing looks is very important
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yes but imagine seeing a transformation from somebody really obese to somebody super fit. so impressive!! i think its cool
 
Spuffy said:
this is true. for me, its less about their experiences growing up and more that its simply nicer to see a big change made. its impressive. however i can relate to your poor and rich point as somebody who goes to a prestigious school for free and comes from the slums of philly 😂
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yeah. having rich + attractive friends makes me feel fucking weird. its like they're all in on something that I'm not.
 
Spuffy said:
yes but imagine seeing a transformation from somebody really obese to somebody super fit. so impressive!! i think its cool
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true i more meant for people who hardmaxxed and stuff when i talked about genetics, i wouldn’t rlly care if someone was fat it wouldn’t make me think they’re better or worse
 
The cat from The Matrix said:
yeah. having rich + attractive friends makes me feel fucking weird. its like they're all in on something that I'm not.
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oh its not fun. super envious of my friends in college who will never have a cent of student loans. but im glad they got so lucky
 
The cat from The Matrix said:
not only that. i agree with randomized shame (hi) but its also like ... you've been thru hardships. I gravitated towards my best friend in real because we both were chopped like most of our lives. you connect on a whole different level because you've moved thru the world and been treated in the same way. Someone who has been attractive their whole lives is like being poor and getting with someone who has always been rich. there's always going to be a certain disconnect.
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There's a lot of experiences we uglies experience that people who are genetically blessed or even just genetically average just simply cannot and will not understand. A hypothetical perfect dream girl doesn't compare to someone who went through the same experience as you, in my opinion.

It's night and day to me. I sort of understand the genetic argument, but not enough to pick someone who was born with beauty over someone who earned it.
 
Randomized Shame said:
There's a lot of experiences we uglies experience that people who are genetically blessed or even just genetically average just simply cannot and will not understand. A hypothetical perfect dream girl doesn't compare to someone who went through the same experience as you, in my opinion.

It's night and day to me. I sort of understand the genetic argument, but not enough to pick someone who was born with beauty over someone who earned it.
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its hard to imagine you not looking like pedro pescal
 
Spuffy said:
oh its not fun. super envious of my friends in college who will never have a cent of student loans. but im glad they got so lucky
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tbh I cant stand them bc they somehow have no empathy. at least mine don't. Like anytime I talk abt money problems and shit they look at me like I'm speaking tongues. Most of them have never had to take public transportation in their life. its wild to me
 
The cat from The Matrix said:
tbh I cant stand them bc they somehow have no empathy. at least mine don't. Like anytime I talk abt money problems and shit they look at me like I'm speaking tongues. Most of them have never had to take public transportation in their life. its wild to me
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it can be frustrating. my k-12 school costs 46k a year; you can imagine how stuck up people can be. especially kids of celebrities
 
Randomized Shame said:
There's a lot of experiences we uglies experience that people who are genetically blessed or even just genetically average just simply cannot and will not understand. A hypothetical perfect dream girl doesn't compare to someone who went through the same experience as you, in my opinion.

It's night and day to me. I sort of understand the genetic argument, but not enough to pick someone who was born with beauty over someone who earned it.
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exactly. i think even more so if the person is NT. I feel like NT people always view me as entertainment more than an equal. so the power scales would just be so fucked
 
Spuffy said:
Do people here find it more attractive when someone has ascended from ltn to cl/sl, or when someone has always been attractive from the start?
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Ascend cause they are humble ussualy and have much better personality of corse lol u dont wanna deal with someone who had beauty all his life
 
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