when my boyfriend goes to bed

[nomi]

idk what to fucking do
who should I talk to?
should I sleep too?
what activities should I engage in?

when we don't talk I js do nothing with myself and rot until he wakes up again

it's like I'm a robot and I only power on during the hours he's awake

tbh I don't really mind, but idk if this shit is healthy

 

[BibleCampVictim]

you should go to sleep at the same time

 

[Aryy]

idk what to fucking do
who should I talk to?
should I sleep too?
what activities should I engage in?

when we don't talk I js do nothing with myself and rot until he wakes up again

it's like I'm a robot and I only power on during the hours he's awake

tbh I don't really mind, but idk if this shit is healthy

Not healthy ofc, do something

 

[nomi]

Not healthy ofc, do something

there's not really much for me to do but I'll figure smth out

 

[bye]

go to bed

 

[tomokoisliterallyme]

idk what to fucking do
who should I talk to?
should I sleep too?
what activities should I engage in?

when we don't talk I js do nothing with myself and rot until he wakes up again

it's like I'm a robot and I only power on during the hours he's awake

tbh I don't really mind, but idk if this shit is healthy

ask this on org

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

idk what to fucking do
who should I talk to?
should I sleep too?
what activities should I engage in?

when we don't talk I js do nothing with myself and rot until he wakes up again

it's like I'm a robot and I only power on during the hours he's awake

tbh I don't really mind, but idk if this shit is healthy

Fucking lucky must be fucking nice having someone by your fucking side I fucking hate relationship fuck

 

[nomi]

Fucking lucky must be fucking nice having someone by your fucking side I fucking hate relationship fuck

okay

 

[nomi]

ask this on org

.org doesn't allow girls to be on there
i don't think they'll give good advice anyway

 

[tomokoisliterallyme]

.org doesn't allow girls to be on there
i don't think they'll give good advice anyway

it does but theyll bully u

 

[Aryy]

there's not really much for me to do but I'll figure smth out

Just think you shouldnt be that reliant even if you have a good relationship it would be better for long term

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

Anyways you should focus on being your own individual person. You are your own person with your own stories so make something out of yourself don’t find value in another person

 

[submissivechud]

idk what to fucking do
who should I talk to?
should I sleep too?
what activities should I engage in?

when we don't talk I js do nothing with myself and rot until he wakes up again

it's like I'm a robot and I only power on during the hours he's awake

tbh I don't really mind, but idk if this shit is healthy

Go to sleep at the same time as him

 

[nomi]

it does but theyll bully u

I've lurked on .org before
they HATE it when ppl sneak girls in

 

[Orka]

idk what to fucking do
who should I talk to?
should I sleep too?
what activities should I engage in?

when we don't talk I js do nothing with myself and rot until he wakes up again

it's like I'm a robot and I only power on during the hours he's awake

tbh I don't really mind, but idk if this shit is healthy

Its unhealthy and isnt sustainable for your relationship, if he gets a job or needs to do stuff then you'll be in a void of emptiness waiting for him or distracting him. You should get hobbies that you enjoy doing primarily alone, and then enjoy your time with him. The healthiest relationships are when the people involved still have strong identities for themselves that they share with eachother, not when they're both merged doing all the same things all the time

 

[nomi]

you should go to sleep at the same time

go to bed

Go to sleep at the same time as him

sleeping is kinda hard for me tbh
but I'll try doing that too

 

[esoteric]

pick up some hobbies hang out with friends just do other stuff it makes the relationship better because youre not dependent and have more stuff to talk abt

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

sleeping is kinda hard for me tbh
but I'll try doing that too

Sleeping is not the problem

 

[nomi]

Its unhealthy and isnt sustainable for your relationship, if he gets a job or needs to do stuff then you'll be in a void of emptiness waiting for him or distracting him. You should get hobbies that you enjoy doing primarily alone, and then enjoy your time with him. The healthiest relationships are when the people involved still have strong identities for themselves that they share with eachother, not when they're both merged doing all the same things all the time

there isn't really anything interesting going on in my life currently so that's probably why I tend to be more dependent on my boyfriend
I'm doing sports right now but field hockey is lwk really boring and I don't have a lot of motivation to do other things


I don't want to distract him either, he's doing football rn and ik that's something really important to him. I don't want to constantly be needy for his attention when there's other things he needs to prioritize first
tysm for the advice, I liked the way you explained it

 

[submissivechud]

there isn't really anything interesting going on in my life currently so that's probably why I tend to be more dependent on my boyfriend
I'm doing sports right now but field hockey is lwk really boring and I don't have a lot of motivation to do other things


I don't want to distract him either, he's doing football rn and ik that's something really important to him. I don't want to constantly be needy for his attention when there's other things he needs to prioritize first
tysm for the advice, I liked the way you explained it

Just find other hobbies to do while he's gone, like a video game or a sport.
Dont you wrestle? Maybe go to the gym or practice at times he's gone.

 

[nomi]

Just find other hobbies to do while he's gone, like a video game or a sport.
Dont you wrestle? Maybe go to the gym or practice at times he's gone.

wrestling season is in winter so I have to wait
okay I know I might be making things difficult/making a lot of excuses but the things I can do are very limited due to my parents being strict
I'm slowly getting into experimenting with different hairstyles and blah blah blah but idk
I don't have a lot of irl friends either so that makes things 10x harder
I'm not really allowed to go outside
do you understand why I complain a lot when it comes to these things?
atp I'll just thug it out until school starts again

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

Is there something your truly passionate about not just a hobby but a future you really want?

 

[nomi]

Is there something your truly passionate about not just a hobby but a future you really want?

not really
I do want to go to a nursing school tho bc I'm good at taking care of people and wtv
im nd so finding motivation and sticking to hobbies is rlly hard for me along with other stuff

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

not really
I do want to go to a nursing school tho bc I'm good at taking care of people and wtv
im nd so finding motivation and sticking to hobbies is rlly hard for me along with other stuff

Then there’s the problem you’re using your bf to fill your emptiness go find yourself and who you want to be

 

[nomi]

Then there’s the problem you’re using your bf to fill your emptiness go find yourself and who you want to be

I'll try