Rage When people say be the best version of yourself this is what it actually means

[beautyiseverything]

It doesn’t mean that if you improve your personality a little your life will get better. It means that you have to be as good as possible in every possible metric. Looks, money, status, clothes and fashion, social skills, IQ, school, work etc. It means that you basically have to upgrade everything. This is why I hate when people say "just be the best version of yourself bro and then friends and partners will come along!" They basically ignore how much effort is needed to become the best possible version of yourself.

 

[ecoli]

The worst people say this fym mean "be the best version of yourself" Do I look like I'm not already trying to be that

 

[beautyiseverything]

The worst people say this fym mean "be the best version of yourself" Do I look like I'm not already trying to be that

Yes exactly. It’s being condescending in terms of attitude at it’s worst