where do you draw the line between high self esteem and arrogance?

[icnone]

I personally think the line is blurry. You can take pride in yourself but it's very hard to simultaneously avoid seeing yourself as superior to others

 

[Roxas]

I personally think the line is blurry. You can take pride in yourself but it's very hard to simultaneously avoid seeing yourself as superior to others

I think looks are one thing, same with strengths and physical abilities, but when you start wearing 10k$ outfits just to mog, or get limb lengthening when you’re 6’2 it’s like hmmmm

 

[junebug]

I personally think the line is blurry. You can take pride in yourself but it's very hard to simultaneously avoid seeing yourself as superior to others

To a degree, if you deserve high self esteem, you are superior to others. Just don't act like you are and you're golden.

 

[viasco]

high self esteem is self sustainable

arrogance must be fueled by leaching the confidence of others

 

[benny]

high self esteem is more of a state of mind, arrogance is displayed through actions

 

[icnone]

get limb lengthening when you’re 6’2 it’s like hmmmm

it feels more like low self esteem, no?

To a degree, if you deserve high self esteem, you are superior to others. Just don't act like you are and you're golden.

people can pick up on how you feel about yourself and others though. so whatever your feel inside is tied to how you act outside, even if you try to hide it

high self esteem is self sustainable

arrogance must be fueled by leaching the confidence of others

arrogance isn't always about putting others down though. one can see themself as superior to those around them without actually telling them they are inferior

 

[Roxas]

it feels more like low self esteem, no?

people can pick up on how you feel about yourself and others though. so whatever your feel inside is tied to how you act outside, even if you try to hide it

arrogance isn't always about putting others down though. one can see themself as superior to those around them without actually telling them they are inferior

Yes It definitely could be but I think like if you are genuinely blessed with traits like being 6’2 usually you’re not really insecure maybe

 

[Roxas]

Yes It definitely could be but I think like if you are genuinely blessed with traits like being 6’2 usually you’re not really insecure maybe

I can’t say tho idk

 

[viasco]

it feels more like low self esteem, no?

people can pick up on how you feel about yourself and others though. so whatever your feel inside is tied to how you act outside, even if you try to hide it

arrogance isn't always about putting others down though. one can see themself as superior to those around them without actually telling them they are inferior

superiority doesnt equate to arrogance.

for ex. ive been in mma my whole life, i know im superior in the ring to someone whos never hit a pad, tho im not arrogant so i wont showboat or keep my hands down...cause -100 aura if bro bma

 

[icnone]

high self esteem is more of a state of mind, arrogance is displayed through actions

superiority doesnt equate to arrogance.

for ex. ive been in mma my whole life, i know im superior in the ring to someone whos never hit a pad, tho im not arrogant so i wont showboat or keep my hands down...cause -100 aura if bro bma

okay so there's seems to be three categories we can divide high self esteem/arrogance into:
1. overtly arrogant, putting others down and trying to express that you are superior. this is the worst form of arrogance
2. believe you are inwardly superior but avoid showing it directly, but this internal mental state can still bleed through and show to others
3. true high self esteem without arrogance, but achieving this may be very difficult

 

[viasco]

okay so there's seems to be three categories we can divide high self esteem/arrogance into:
1. overtly arrogant, putting others down and trying to express that you are superior. this is the worst form of arrogance
2. believe you are inwardly superior but avoid showing it directly, but this internal mental state can still bleed through and show to others
3. true high self esteem without arrogance, but achieving this may be very difficult

lowk real asf