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Night clubs?
Im not from Netherlands but it’s summer so if there is any beaches/lakes/rivers go there. Also u could go to a bar if ur sober just ask for a bubbly water in a glass cup
it's fucking over if you can't figure out shit to do in NL
party capital of the universe tbh
No the hell its not. Ur just gonna seem like a weird outcast going to stuff alone. And theres not THAT much to do if ur not living in Amsterdam or Rotterdam…it's fucking over if you can't figure out shit to do in NL
Tried this. Actually met some ppl but its the usual. “We should totally hang out” (ppl r usually more social when they’re drunk) End up going out maybe once or twice then I never hear from them again
weren't u just claiming nt status? u can make a lot of new friends at any kind of music venue it's really not that hard.
Well yeah most ppl r nt, Its not hard for me to make “friends” but I’m looking for ppl to hang out w more regularly. Not just drinking buddies
Damn that sucks, don't you have family there?Tried this. Actually met some ppl but its the usual. “We should totally hang out” (ppl r usually more social when they’re drunk) End up going out maybe once or twice then I never hear from them again
Maybe I just gotta accept this loneliness till I can go to uni introduction events in 2 weeks…
Yeah Ngl Amsterdam was hype as fuck Im tryna go back. The only place I would do shrooms in these days thats not in natureit's fucking over if you can't figure out shit to do in NL
Bro I promise you nobody will judge you for doing shit alone you will make friends. Keep in mind ppl are too worried abt themselves to spend to much thought power judging
Also getting a job with ppl ur age helps i work at a restaurant and I’ve become close friends with a few of my coworkers and hang out with them outside of work
it's true real friends are hard to come by. I don't think the most nt ppl even make that many more than uggo aspies.
Make friends in rehab method
I work at a bakery atm, ppl I work with are usually far older than I am 50+ or much younger (like 16-17). Mostly work with women aswell, so yh.
I'm sayingMake friends in rehab method
at the time weren't drugs all we really had in common?
They have their own lives innit.
yeah that's not gonna work unless u fuck with book clubs and knitting classes heavyyy
I'm def planning on going to some Grunge/Metal/Rock music event, but theres none in my city atm.
U can definitely become close friends with ur coworkers it’s just like school. If you hang out outside of work ur friends and we do, just went to a kickback at my coworkers house Saturday night and fell asleep on her couch
Thats if ur lucky to have coworkers around the same age as u.
Ngl finding a job with more ppl ur age will make things more interesting. Having a job with no cool ppl/ ppl to flirt with is miserable and im talking from experience
women are usually nice but just as a rule you don't want to risk your livelihood on some drama that will inevitably happen. like 90% of the male coworkers I've had have been fake and gay.
Its just a temporary summer job ngl. Just one more month and I'll prop look for something different.
Making friends as an adult is def hard. Esp when ur not in uni. It was easy asf when I went like a year ago.
The club, bars
Ppl are to drunk to remember u the next day. And usually nicer and kinda fake (alcohol lowers inhib and makes ppl more social)
This.
i have 3 friends but they are real n*****s. idk why you complain
You've lucked out man.