Hypothesis why are so many people stuck in a victim mindset?

[benny]

like thinking the world is working against them?

it’s such a self centered way of thinking, no one cares about your life that much (and that’s a good thing)

 

[submissivechud]

like thinking the world is working against them?

it’s such a self centered way of thinking, no one cares about your life that much (and that’s a good thing)

Easier then trying to improve
They wrote about this in lookism

 

[Penalizer69]

Fucking blaming me man you don't know my fucking life or where I'm from dog

 

[Shkypot]

like thinking the world is working against them?

it’s such a self centered way of thinking, no one cares about your life that much (and that’s a good thing)

ai is taking my job
immgrants are taking my houses
the government wants to see my forum activity

its very easy being in this mindset nowadays, but sitting on your ass and complaining and not taking action is the real problem

 

[Kaari]

like thinking the world is working against them?

it’s such a self centered way of thinking, no one cares about your life that much (and that’s a good thing)

People are unable to validate themselves so they project it onto others.

Lack of self esteem makes people act in very strange ways, I can certainly attest to that.

 

[Kaari]

Fucking blaming me man you don't know my fucking life or where I'm from dog

My dog Dave got blew up by an asteroid at age 7. Be careful throwing such charged language around as you don’t know the pain I feel on a constant basis.

 

[Kaari]

@junebug don’t worry my Dog Dave didn’t get blown up, it was actually my pet Dog called Steve.

 

[Nenestar]

when i'm doing better than someone and they start to cry about their struggles and how the world is unfair - ohh, i love it

 

[Kaari]

when i'm doing better than someone and they start to cry about their struggles and how the world is unfair - ohh, i love it

I won’t lie in saying it went the other way around for me also, not proud of this but in the past I used to sometimes to get fed up and jealous of those who started doing better than me.

I’m glad by the grace of God I started nipping that mentality in the bud for how selfish I was for thinking like that but crab mentality very much is real and present in most people.

Most people don’t want you to succeed, they just want to have mindless fun with you for the most part and when that ceases they don’t care. Just being honest.

 

[lydia]

I agree. a victim mindset only keeps you stuck.
The fact that no one is watching means you have full control over your life

 

[Pentatonic]

It must be an excuse to stay at the same place and get comfortable in a way