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why can I not gaf about things irl

What I've noticed in most BP/looksmaxxing sites about people who feel like you is that they have or feel like they have hyperawarness. It just spirals into nihilism, the motive "Nothing ever happens" proves my point. That leads to paralysis lmfao, so find purpose bro.
 
ebony enjoyer said:
im too nonchalant for this shit
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Depression is the issue I think, I've the same I don't want to achieve anything big nor do I care about anything tbh I just want to be alone and rot
 
tuberculosisinmybal said:
Depression is the issue I think, I've the same I don't want to achieve anything big nor do I care about anything tbh I just want to be alone and rot
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Dating is stressful, talking to people is stressful, frequenting crowded places is particularly dysphoric and blah, blah, blah
 
Darkeningstar said:
Dating is stressful, talking to people is stressful, frequenting crowded places is particularly dysphoric and blah, blah, blah
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But that’s kind of the point. Stress and emotion, even the negative ones, are signs that we’re alive, sorry, as corny as that sounds. Avoiding all of that might feel safer, but it’s also a way of flattening reality until nothing really moves you at all. The cost of numbness is higher than the price of discomfort.
 
AscensionDenied said:
But that’s kind of the point. Stress and emotion, even the negative ones, are signs that we’re alive, sorry, as corny as that sounds. Avoiding all of that might feel safer, but it’s also a way of flattening reality until nothing really moves you at all. The cost of numbness is higher than the price of discomfort.
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I’m not like you
 
ebony enjoyer said:
im too nonchalant for this shit
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Youve become beaten down by the world for a long time, some time ago you used to be sensitive and looking for connection but anxiety related to certain situations in your life that were out of your control caused you to spiral, you instead chose to associate these uncontrollable situations to some intrinsic fault within yourself (aka your looks) which caused you to find comfort in depression to the point where you lost the ability to realize youre even depressed in the first place, but your current state is a defensive mechanism not a growth one, and now you are becoming uncomfortable with your own stagnancy
 
sjnny404 said:
Youve become beaten down by the world for a long time, some time ago you used to be sensitive and looking for connection but anxiety related to certain situations in your life that were out of your control caused you to spiral, you instead chose to associate these uncontrollable situations to some intrinsic fault within yourself (aka your looks) which caused you to find comfort in depression to the point where you lost the ability to realize youre even depressed in the first place, but your current state is a defensive mechanism not a growth one, and now you are becoming uncomfortable with your own stagnancy
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no ive always been like this
 
ebony enjoyer said:
y
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A lot of things but heres a non clinical breakdown

Humans require bonding to have natural brain development, bonding is a need and not a want, even though people who went through neglect try to gaslight themselves into believing its a want because they are deep down ashamed of needing it as they didnt receive it properly

When you dont have this need, your brain prioritizes survival, is in a state of stress, overtime leads to difficulty connecting with others, difficulty having a sense of identity, difficulty identifying your own emotions, etc

Being nonchalant said a lot
 
sjnny404 said:
A lot of things but heres a non clinical breakdown

Humans require bonding to have natural brain development, bonding is a need and not a want, even though people who went through neglect try to gaslight themselves into believing its a want because they are deep down ashamed of needing it as they didnt receive it properly

When you dont have this need, your brain prioritizes survival, is in a state of stress, overtime leads to difficulty connecting with others, difficulty having a sense of identity, difficulty identifying your own emotions, etc

Being nonchalant said a lot
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hmmm
 
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