Discussion Why discipline is the most important thing when Choosing a partner

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

Discipline is essentially free will

Every time u really wanna do something and you actively stop urself from doing it, that is humanity since no other animal can do this

Someone with low discipline will be more likely to give into things like cheating for both genders

If they can’t stop doing drugs, drinking, eating…etc all the things that are bad for them they probably won’t have the self control to say no to cheating

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

Remember the reason cheating is so common nowadays is we live in a society where ppl grew up without this so they can’t say no and chose a better path they always need the next hit of dopamine

 

[Nihilus]

Discipline is essentially free will

they are polar opposites

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

they are polar opposites

What is more free than choosing to do what u need do for ur own good despite ur brain telling u to do the opposite, and knowing ur the only animal on earth smart enough to reject ur brain’s command?

I’m not talking about literally torturing urself and always picking the opposite but having a healthy balance that’s discipline

Humans evolved to consume things as fast as possible since they don’t know when the next will come in nature

 

[Nihilus]

What is more free than choosing to do what u need do for ur own good despite ur brain telling u to do the opposite, and knowing ur the only animal on earth smart enough to reject ur brain’s command?

I’m not talking about literally torturing urself and always picking the opposite but having a healthy balance that’s discipline

Humans evolved to consume things as fast as possible since they don’t know when the next will come in nature

what i meant is naturally , whatever you want to do is good for you
in todays society our instincts are distorted and "discipline" is a form of slavery

 

[BlendedBulge]

Just choose a partner with low sex drive

 

[Nihilus]

Just choose a partner with low sex drive

thats hell

 

[BlendedBulge]

thats hell

Just have sex with her anyway

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

what i meant is naturally , whatever you want to do is good for you
in todays society our instincts are distorted and "discipline" is a form of slavery

Problem is humans naturally have a scarcity mindset and ofc this will serve us well in nature but what made us come so far to begin with was discipline

An animal human will waste all his money fast, goon every day, drink beer, do drugs…etc

That is not a human that is an animal who follows pure instinct, what makes humans different is being able to reject instinct

Why do we have this ability? If u defend following pure instinct u are literally rejecting being human at that point

 

[BlendedBulge]

I have more self control on high doses of steroids in terms of sex and aggression than most people naturally

IM JUST BETTER

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

Just choose a partner with low sex drive

There is no such thing for women if she has low sex drive to u she will have high to someone else

 

[BlendedBulge]

There is no such thing for women if she has low sex drive to u she will have high to someone else

That’s not how it works and I was joking tbh

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

I have more self control on high doses of steroids in terms of sex and aggression than most people naturally

IM JUST BETTER

It’s about using ur brain to determine what u want for urself and ignore what ur scarcity mind tells u to do for dopamine

Guys like David goggins who torture themselves took it too far ofc u don’t need to refuse dopamine in every way but learn to not let it get in the way of ur goals

 

[Nihilus]

Problem is humans naturally have a scarcity mindset and ofc this will serve us well in nature but what made us come so far to begin with was discipline

An animal human will waste all his money fast, goon every day, drink beer, do drugs…etc

That is not a human that is an animal who follows pure instinct, what makes humans different is being able to reject instinct

Why do we have this ability? If u defend following pure instinct u are literally rejecting being human at that point

its more complicated than just following surface desires
i am talking about core instincts ( reproduction , food , joy ect )
going against the "instincts" ( distorted , as they are defined today ) is a natural attempt to fulfill trve instincts

i think natural humans are very different mentally and behaviorally than modern humans , its kinda observed if you see natural tribes nowdays

 

[BlendedBulge]

It’s about using ur brain to determine what u want for urself and ignore what ur scarcity mind tells u to do for dopamine

Guys like David goggins who torture themselves took it too far ofc u don’t need to refuse dopamine in every way but learn to not let it get in the way of ur goals

I agree with you bro