Why do girls want you to stay fat?

[Ampherosorphe]

Why do gfs or just female friends always tell you that you don't need to lose weight, that weight (leanness) doesn't matter, that you're as good as you are etc. even if you're above 15% body and/or overweight? Provided that you aren't a genetic sub5 and you can still attract someone at this bf. Are they trying to sabotage you?

 

[jkcwakcjw]

Idk from personal experience this seems more like generalizing and exaggeratting because that seems weird. Your genes are better expressed when you are in healthy levels. Maybe in a give and take relationship the woman might want to use looks as control. Maybe that is how they want to emotionally connect with you. But I don't see why they wouldn't want to be attracted to you. Def needs more context on the situation

 

[neymar]

Yeah when i started going to the gym my ex (who i was with) kept telling me she likes skinny boys and hates muscles when her ex was a roided manlet.

“I like abs but no muscles” thats why ur track record is ogres. Thats why I look so much better now than i did non gymmaxxed… they just want to control you go and reach your own goals cause u know whats best for you

 

[ifsixwasnine]

Its either sabotage or genuine ignorance

 

[Laineda]

Who knows!

 

[James Othy]

Why do gfs or just female friends always tell you that you don't need to lose weight, that weight (leanness) doesn't matter, that you're as good as you are etc. even if you're above 15% body and/or overweight? Provided that you aren't a genetic sub5 and you can still attract someone at this bf. Are they trying to sabotage you?

No, they're just telling you that because that's what they're used to telling their girl friends who are fat.


If they don't think you're attractive and you're a friend they'll lie to you. That kind of thing is hard wired into their brains because if they were to tell their female friends the truth it would breed resentment that would only grow over time. It's instinctual.

 

[Lexanie]

Why do gfs or just female friends always tell you that you don't need to lose weight, that weight (leanness) doesn't matter, that you're as good as you are etc. even if you're above 15% body and/or overweight? Provided that you aren't a genetic sub5 and you can still attract someone at this bf. Are they trying to sabotage you?

This is clearly a generalization from a unique experience, none in their right mind want a fat partner , fat ≠ healthy

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

Why do gfs or just female friends always tell you that you don't need to lose weight, that weight (leanness) doesn't matter, that you're as good as you are etc. even if you're above 15% body and/or overweight? Provided that you aren't a genetic sub5 and you can still attract someone at this bf. Are they trying to sabotage you?

Some women want to loosminning their boyfriend out of jealousy and insecurities, if he glows down he can't leave, cheat or having women's validation & attention

The only side effect with that type of woman is, they leave and/or cheat because they aren't attracted to that guy anymore

They tend to have sabotaging tendencies in every aspect of their life imo

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

Why do gfs or just female friends always tell you that you don't need to lose weight, that weight (leanness) doesn't matter, that you're as good as you are etc. even if you're above 15% body and/or overweight? Provided that you aren't a genetic sub5 and you can still attract someone at this bf. Are they trying to sabotage you?

Some women want to loosminning their boyfriend out of jealousy and insecurities, if he glows down he can't leave, cheat or having women's validation & attention

The only side effect with that type of woman is, they leave and/or cheat because they aren't attracted to that guy anymore

They tend to have sabotaging tendencies in every aspect of their life imo