why do I always attract people with diagnosed aspd/ aspd-like tendencies

[sophinaitor]

I just don’t understand. 6 people (that I know of) who have liked me have had diagnosed been diagnosed with aspd (antisocial personality disorder aka sociopathy) it doesn’t matter what social group they’re in or how attractive they are, it always seems like I’m their target and the crazy thing is, they don’t rlly do it to other people. I have had an absolutely insane online stalker for about 9 months now and can’t get rid of them, and I’ve had 3 in person stalkers (one of them which I unknowingly dated and he ended up being a cannibal) I honestly wish I was making this up because it sounds like some bulls**t from my story animated, but seriously, please help.

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

get an RO on him and you probably have some issue yourself if you're consistently involved with the same kind of person

 

[AXII.CO]

same for me but bi-polar


all 3 relationships and then 5 talking stages just straight up Bipolar

 

[Starlet]

there’s something about you that makes you vulnerable/an easy target then. maybe like insecurity and it’s noticeable

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

there’s something about you that makes you vulnerable/an easy target then. maybe like insecurity and it’s noticeable

its probably the fact that she rewards their behavior

 

[AscensionOnly]

 

[Lion]

Hard to say

 

[sophinaitor]

same for me but bi-polar


all 3 relationships and then 5 talking stages just straight up Bipolar

It’s insane too cause it’s not even like being bipolar or having aspd is extremely common. I could understand adhd or smth but this is js weird

 

[sophinaitor]

its probably the fact that she rewards their behavior

Wdym?

 

[sophinaitor]

What’s wrong?

 

[imareasonableman]

Wdym?

u prob don't push back hard enough ig. gotta be more assertive when confronting them (as long as it's safe). if ur CONSISTENTLY attracting these types, there's gotta be some spiritual sign on ur back or smt, idfk

 

[foidslayer22]

I just don’t understand. 6 people (that I know of) who have liked me have had diagnosed been diagnosed with aspd (antisocial personality disorder aka sociopathy) it doesn’t matter what social group they’re in or how attractive they are, it always seems like I’m their target and the crazy thing is, they don’t rlly do it to other people. I have had an absolutely insane online stalker for about 9 months now and can’t get rid of them, and I’ve had 3 in person stalkers (one of them which I unknowingly dated and he ended up being a cannibal) I honestly wish I was making this up because it sounds like some bulls**t from my story animated, but seriously, please help.

sociopaths go after people that they feel are easy and vulnerable

 

[AXII.CO]

It’s insane too cause it’s not even like being bipolar or having aspd is extremely common. I could understand adhd or smth but this is js weird

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