Why girls dont like 'nice guys'

[Robynn]

I'm pretty sure its because the self proclaimed nice guys idealise girls instead of trying to get to know them as people like instead of getting to know them and their personality theyll project some narrative onto them like them being a nice sweet girl who could be say a good mother some day, instead of asking them questions about who they are and actually finding out what makes them their own unique person
And its probably unintentional and just amplified by things online or movies but the girl notices and probably doesn't want to be put into a box.

Also they probably would favour guys which seem to be less nice because they operate on less of a script or maybe its just because its easier to speak to someone more experienced because after your first experience of realising that people arent who you'd assume them to be you might learn to be better as seeing people as whole people.

 

[Robynn]

I agree

 

[zaycism]

I agree

 

[Inanimate Pragmatist]

I'm pretty sure its because the self proclaimed nice guys idealise girls instead of trying to get to know them as people like instead of getting to know them and their personality theyll project some narrative onto them like them being a nice sweet girl who could be say a good mother some day, instead of asking them questions about who they are and actually finding out what makes them their own unique person
And its probably unintentional and just amplified by things online or movies but the girl notices and probably doesn't want to be put into a box.

Also they probably would favour guys which seem to be less nice because they operate on less of a script or maybe its just because its easier to speak to someone more experienced because after your first experience of realising that people arent who you'd assume them to be you might learn to be better as seeing people as whole people.

A weak man is not exactly either. Like a woman who nags too much.

 

[femboysNaddie]

A weak man is not exactly either. Like a woman who nags too much.

i havent seen u in a while n***a
its soygoy.jestermaxxed/dowhateveryouwantjester

 

[Robynn]

A weak man is not exactly either. Like a woman who nags too much.

what do you mean

 

[Robynn]

@EK0 why dislike

 

[EK0]

or maybe our brains just find things we cant have more attractive

 

[Inanimate Pragmatist]

what do you mean

A nice guy is male version of a woman who talks too much.

 

[Robynn]

or maybe our brains just find things we cant have more attractive

like how do you mean

 

[Inanimate Pragmatist]

i havent seen u in a while n***a
its soygoy.jestermaxxed/dowhateveryouwantjester

Hello. Why is your username that?

 

[Robynn]

A nice guy is male version of a woman who talks too much.

exactly and they always talk about themselves or project things onto you

 

[nqyx]

because there's no such thing as a nice guy, only a guy who doesn't have the capacity to be ''bad''

 

[Inanimate Pragmatist]

exactly and they always talk about themselves or project things onto you

You can always make them shut up. Or just have sex, sex usually fixs the issue.

because there's no such thing as a nice guy, only a guy who doesn't have the capacity to be ''bad''

Is it you? From ORG? Prolasper?

 

[nqyx]

You can always make them shut up. Or just have sex, sex usually fixs the issue.

Is it you? From ORG? Prolasper?

yh

 

[Inanimate Pragmatist]

yh

Ah greetings then. Good to see you.

 

[Robynn]

because there's no such thing as a nice guy, only a guy who doesn't have the capacity to be ''bad''

everyone has the capacity to be bad

 

[nqyx]

Ah greetings then. Good to see you.

you too my bro

 

[femboysNaddie]

Hello. Why is your username that?

cus i like femboys and aderall

 

[Robynn]

You can always make them shut up. Or just have sex, sex usually fixs the issue.

I don't think many girls would want to have sex with a guy like that so thats probably why 'nice guys' think their kindness gets them rejected

 

[nqyx]

everyone has the capacity to be bad

Yeah but not everyone has the capacity to be bad without consequence

 

[Inanimate Pragmatist]

cus i like femboys and aderall

 

[Inanimate Pragmatist]

I don't think many girls would want to have sex with a guy like that so thats probably why 'nice guys' think their kindness gets them rejected

Not nice guys, I meant that the act itself fixes a lot of things. I think a lot of modern men and women are infertile mutants.

 

[femboysNaddie]

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i have told you this before

 

[Robynn]

Yeah but not everyone has the capacity to be bad without consequence

honestly I have no idea what you are talking about

 

[EK0]

like how do you mean

our brains are naturally drawn to things we cant have its not just women men are like this too when someone is a genuinely good man or woman our brains sometimes see less excitement there and start taking them for granted like we already have them of course this is just a generalization not everyone is like that

 

[Inanimate Pragmatist]

i have told you this before

Yes and I forget for good reason. Lay off the pornos.

 

[nqyx]

honestly I have no idea what you are talking about

watch a tiktok or something on the difference between ''Nice and good''. I tried typing out and explanation but it'll be long asf

 

[Robynn]

our brains are naturally drawn to things we cant have its not just women men are like this too when someone is a genuinely good man or woman our brains sometimes see less excitement there and start taking them for granted like we already have them of course this is just a generalization not everyone is like that

yeah I agree as well with this I think its less taking for granted more just seeing them as boring

 

[Robynn]

watch a tiktok or something on the difference between ''Nice and good''. I tried typing out and explanation but it'll be long asf

I know nice and good are different but I dont get what you mean
I get that girls would like a good guy instead of a nice guy but I mean more just saying people who self proclaim themselves as nice arent really that nice to be with

 

[TonyDr]

I'm pretty sure its because the self proclaimed nice guys idealise girls instead of trying to get to know them as people like instead of getting to know them and their personality theyll project some narrative onto them like them being a nice sweet girl who could be say a good mother some day, instead of asking them questions about who they are and actually finding out what makes them their own unique person
And its probably unintentional and just amplified by things online or movies but the girl notices and probably doesn't want to be put into a box.

Also they probably would favour guys which seem to be less nice because they operate on less of a script or maybe its just because its easier to speak to someone more experienced because after your first experience of realising that people arent who you'd assume them to be you might learn to be better as seeing people as whole people.

No, they are just nice toward a girl because they want to crack, so they expect sex for doing efforts for a woman

E.g. buying expensive cocktails at the club in order to get laid

 

[EK0]

yeah I agree as well with this I think its less taking for granted more just seeing them as boring

yeah but i dont blame anyone because its not really something we can control our brains just work this way

 

[Robynn]

No, they are just nice toward a girl because they want to crack, so they expect sex for doing efforts for a woman

E.g. buying expensive cocktails at the club in order to get laid

yeah I agree but sometimes its not even a conscious action they know they are doing