why girls dont like nice guys

[Superior]

I'm pretty sure its because the self proclaimed nice guys idealise girls instead of trying to get to know them as people like instead of getting to know them and their personality theyll project some narrative onto them like them being a nice sweet girl who could be say a good mother some day, instead of asking them questions about who they are and actually finding out what makes them their own unique person
And its probably unintentional and just amplified by things online or movies but the girl notices and probably doesn't want to be put into a box.

Also they probably would favour guys which seem to be less nice because they operate on less of a script or maybe its just because its easier to speak to someone more experienced because after your first experience of realising that people arent who you'd assume them to be you might learn to be better as seeing people as whole people.

 

[LeoK]

I'm pretty sure its because the self proclaimed nice guys idealise girls instead of trying to get to know them as people like instead of getting to know them and their personality theyll project some narrative onto them like them being a nice sweet girl who could be say a good mother some day, instead of asking them questions about who they are and actually finding out what makes them their own unique person
And its probably unintentional and just amplified by things online or movies but the girl notices and probably doesn't want to be put into a box.

Also they probably would favour guys which seem to be less nice because they operate on less of a script or maybe its just because its easier to speak to someone more experienced because after your first experience of realising that people arent who you'd assume them to be you might learn to be better as seeing people as whole people.

 

[twinkslayrr]

How many more of these threads are gonna be made

 

[Deleted Member 130276]

I literally think this exact same thing

 

[Superior]

I literally think this exact same thing

no way..

 

[Deleted Member 130276]

no way..

nice guys always finish last

 

[submissivechud]

I'm pretty sure its because the self proclaimed nice guys idealise girls instead of trying to get to know them as people like instead of getting to know them and their personality theyll project some narrative onto them like them being a nice sweet girl who could be say a good mother some day, instead of asking them questions about who they are and actually finding out what makes them their own unique person
And its probably unintentional and just amplified by things online or movies but the girl notices and probably doesn't want to be put into a box.

Also they probably would favour guys which seem to be less nice because they operate on less of a script or maybe its just because its easier to speak to someone more experienced because after your first experience of realising that people arent who you'd assume them to be you might learn to be better as seeing people as whole people.

Dnr just beat her theory

 

[Deleted Member 126149]

its because the nice guys arent chad