Story why i am an incel

[TruecelMaxxer]

pretty much when i was younger i had a crush on some muslim girl

one day she puts on a hijab and i touch it asking what it is

ever since then my life has gone downhill

it is allah punishing me for being a dirty kuffar

 

[Deleted Member 114930]

you are a jestermaxxer in the search of approval

 

[TruecelMaxxer]

you are a jestermaxxer in the search of approval

i am a truecel in a jestermaxxer world

 

[TFC]

pretty much when i was younger i had a crush on some muslim girl

one day she puts on a hijab and i touch it asking what it is

ever since then my life has gone downhill

it is allah punishing me for being a dirty kuffar

Nah incels come from the bullied middle school kids

 

[TruecelMaxxer]

Nah incels come from the bullied middle school kids

started getting bullied in elementary
i stood no chance bro

 

[TFC]

started getting bullied in elementary
i stood no chance bro

Based

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

you are a jestermaxxer in the search of approval

very low iq take.

Nah incels come from the bullied middle school kids

incels come from attention seeking no feminine contact.

 

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very low iq take.

incels come from attention seeking no feminine contact.

Let’s think about this.. if you are bullied in middle school you have no friends and everyone hates you, a personality can develop that you seek attention especially from the ones who bullied you because you want approval, no that your caught up with me it setems from childhood trauma of bullying and isolation

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

Let’s think about this.. if you are bullied in middle school you have no friends and everyone hates you, a personality can develop that you seek attention especially from the ones who bullied you because you want approval, no that your caught up with me it setems from childhood trauma of bullying and isolation

you stupid fucking r****d I'm talking from experience.

trauma doesn't exist if you leave that behind and move forward.

isolation aromatizes into attention seeking - and as a result you'll spend you time trying to get people's attention who don't want to associate with you in the first place.

the real solution is to mind your own business during school and remove yourself entirely from all source of social attention - and outside school spend your time doing things you enjoy. People with attention seeking traits often done have a likeable personality - so go and do some hobby to give yourself a personality.

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

you are a jestermaxxer in the search of approval

no

you stupid fucking r****d I'm talking from experience.

trauma doesn't exist if you leave that behind and move forward.

isolation aromatizes into attention seeking - and as a result you'll spend you time trying to get people's attention who don't want to associate with you in the first place.

the real solution is to mind your own business during school and remove yourself entirely from all source of social attention - and outside school spend your time doing things you enjoy. People with attention seeking traits often done have a likeable personality - so go and do some hobby to give yourself a personality.

What kind of retarded ass shit is this


Socially removing yourself from school is one of the worst things you can do for your life, why would you give anyone this advice

Doing this just reinforces any negative views people may have had of you earlier, since you will now fit the stereotype they have subconsciously already labeled you with (a worthless inkwell)

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

no




What kind of retarded ass shit is this


Socially removing yourself from school is one of the worst things you can do for your life, why would you give anyone this advice

Doing this just reinforces any negative views people may have had of you earlier, since you will now fit the stereotype they have subconsciously already labeled you with (a worthless inkwell)

move away from school because its a toxic environment you stupid cuck.

don't expose urself to stupid shit, make yourself better.

fix yourself, don't whore yourself out there if you have no personality.

 

[TFC]

no




What kind of retarded ass shit is this


Socially removing yourself from school is one of the worst things you can do for your life, why would you give anyone this advice

Doing this just reinforces any negative views people may have had of you earlier, since you will now fit the stereotype they have subconsciously already labeled you with (a worthless inkwell)

your spiking your cortisol, don’t engage when they are this far wrong

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

your spiking your cortisol, don’t engage when they are this far wrong

Oh brothaaaaar you are going to improooove

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

your spiking your cortisol, don’t engage when they are this far wrong

stupid fucking retards.

distance yourself from it don't associate.

this forum is full of stupid people providing useless information - and surface level understanding of ways to cope with emotions.

beyond retarded.

move away from school because its a toxic environment you stupid cuck.

don't expose urself to stupid shit, make yourself better.

fix yourself, don't whore yourself out there if you have no personality.

no




What kind of retarded ass shit is this


Socially removing yourself from school is one of the worst things you can do for your life, why would you give anyone this advice

Doing this just reinforces any negative views people may have had of you earlier, since you will now fit the stereotype they have subconsciously already labeled you with (a worthless inkwell)

 

[benny]

what

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

P

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

P

you might have an IQ under 5.

a hobby with other people you stupid fuck - school is a lost cause.

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

you might have an IQ under 5.

a hobby with other people you stupid fuck - school is a lost cause.

school is a lost cause for YOU


don't say stuff like this as if it applies to everyone, it doesnt.

School is where most childhood friends are made, where most adolescent relationships happen, where you develop your identity, etc.


If you didn't (or are not) having a good time during school thats fine, but don't tell everyone this shit as if there's no hope.


Also, someone you are within middle school to highschool range and took your advice, where would they get the people to do these "hobbies" with other than school



"Third places" (places that someone attends that isn't school/work, or their own house) are disappearing very quickly. It is obviously still possible to find friends outside of school during teen years but much harder then just making them at school

 

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school is a lost cause for YOU


don't say stuff like this as if it applies to everyone, it doesnt.

School is where most childhood friends are made, where most adolescent relationships happen, where you develop your identity, etc.


If you didn't (or are not) having a good time during school thats fine, but don't tell everyone this shit as if there's no hope.


Also, someone you are within middle school to highschool range and took your advice, where would they get the people to do these "hobbies" with other than school



"Third places" (places that someone attends that isn't school/work, or their own house) are disappearing very quickly. It is obviously still possible to find friends outside of school during teen years but much harder then just making them at school

Mirin effort but it truly is a lost cause on this argument,

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

Mirin effort but it truly is a lost cause on this argument,

tbh i dont really wanna argue with him i was trying to help OP



if OP takes his advice his life will get 10x worse (from experience)

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

Mirin effort but it truly is a lost cause on this argument,

because it's wrong.

school is a lost cause for YOU


don't say stuff like this as if it applies to everyone, it doesnt.

School is where most childhood friends are made, where most adolescent relationships happen, where you develop your identity, etc.


If you didn't (or are not) having a good time during school thats fine, but don't tell everyone this shit as if there's no hope.


Also, someone you are within middle school to highschool range and took your advice, where would they get the people to do these "hobbies" with other than school



"Third places" (places that someone attends that isn't school/work, or their own house) are disappearing very quickly. It is obviously still possible to find friends outside of school during teen years but much harder then just making them at school

if you're an unlikable person, and already predisposed as a likeable person don't associate.

I'm not American, I personally knew everything about my 200 or so year level.

cut your losses and don't waste time on shit that won't improve.

stop shitting out terrible advice for people to ruin their lives over, people won't improve following terrible advice.

 

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because it's wrong.

if you're an unlikable person, and already predisposed as a likeable person don't associate.

I'm not American, I personally knew everything about my 200 or so year level.

cut your losses and don't waste time on shit that won't improve.

stop shitting out terrible advice for people to ruin their lives over, people won't improve following terrible advice.

Ight kid how old are you?

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

Ight kid how old are you?

20.

 

[TFC]

20.

And your answer to being treated bad is, walk away mind your own business and do not engage with anyone?

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

And your answer to being treated bad is, walk away mind your own business and do not engage with anyone?

yes.

same goes for abusive relationships - distance yourself from the cause of harm.

 

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yes.

same goes for abusive relationships - distance yourself from the cause of harm.

If you see the world as an abusive relationship then you would be right. But the honest truth is the world is an unimaginably big place, every single person has had a life time of experience to develop into themselves just as you have. People can be bad just as people can be good. People can change on the day or the person, people can even change on the wether. Choosing to not engage with the world because you have had bad experiences with the people you’ve met so far in your life, is like choosing not to use the internet because the people you’ve met met on facebook. I know you can’t change your beliefs in a message but I just want you to understand the concept that humans are social animals and isolation is bad for us

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

yes.

same goes for abusive relationships - distance yourself from the cause of harm.

yes.

same goes for abusive relationships - distance yourself from the cause of harm.

False comparison



What you are saying is like telling to avoid all foids, because a single foid cheated on you.

Avoiding social activites in school is a incel trait, and will fuck you over later on in life. Going radio silent and "improving" as you call it only works if you have the LEVERAGE to do so in the first place.


Chad can go silent for 2 months to improve (in whatever he sees fit) and go back to his social circles, and be accepted back into the groups.


A inkwell cannot do this, especially if he doesn't have any friends. Being the only kid in a class who isn't talking to someone will make people subconsciously label you as an outsider. Once this happens, you will almost NEVER fit in with that group.


There are literal stereotypes about the "popular loner" who thinks he's "above the hierarchy" when in reality, he is a oofy doofy who very little people care about. Doing this is a lose lose situation if you are in OP's situation.

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

If you see the world as an abusive relationship then you would be right. But the honest truth is the world is an unimaginably big place, every single person has had a life time of experience to develop into themselves just as you have. People can be bad just as people can be good. People can change on the day or the person, people can even change on the wether. Choosing to not engage with the world because you have had bad experiences with the people you’ve met so far in your life, is like choosing not to use the internet because the people you’ve met met on facebook. I know you can’t change your beliefs in a message but I just want you to understand the concept that humans are social animals and isolation is bad for us

this isn't Disney, and I also won't repeat myself.

distance yourself from all causes of negativity, bad attention, and people that provide attention that do so in a negative way.

thats the @axionym of life, don't waste time.

 

[TFC]

this isn't Disney, and I also won't repeat myself.

distance yourself from all causes of negativity, bad attention, and people that provide attention that do so in a negative way.

thats the @axionym of life, don't waste time.

as long as your happy

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

False comparison



What you are saying is like telling to avoid all foids, because a single foid cheated on you.

Avoiding social activites in school is a incel trait, and will fuck you over later on in life. Going radio silent and "improving" as you call it only works if you have the LEVERAGE to do so in the first place.


Chad can go silent for 2 months to improve (in whatever he sees fit) and go back to his social circles, and be accepted back into the groups.


A inkwell cannot do this, especially if he doesn't have any friends. Being the only kid in a class who isn't talking to someone will make people subconsciously label you as an outsider. Once this happens, you will almost NEVER fit in with that group.


There are literal stereotypes about the "popular loner" who thinks he's "above the hierarchy" when in reality, he is a oofy doofy who very little people care about. Doing this is a lose lose situation if you are in OP's situation.

this isn't a movie with stereotypes you idiot.

go to school to do school work, don't talk to people.

ignore what others think about you and get better grades.

fix yourself before you attend higher education.

I say this from experience, please stfu with you're retarded world views.

 

[TFC]

False comparison



What you are saying is like telling to avoid all foids, because a single foid cheated on you.

Avoiding social activites in school is a incel trait, and will fuck you over later on in life. Going radio silent and "improving" as you call it only works if you have the LEVERAGE to do so in the first place.


Chad can go silent for 2 months to improve (in whatever he sees fit) and go back to his social circles, and be accepted back into the groups.


A inkwell cannot do this, especially if he doesn't have any friends. Being the only kid in a class who isn't talking to someone will make people subconsciously label you as an outsider. Once this happens, you will almost NEVER fit in with that group.


There are literal stereotypes about the "popular loner" who thinks he's "above the hierarchy" when in reality, he is a oofy doofy who very little people care about. Doing this is a lose lose situation if you are in OP's situation.

You inspired me to try to convince him and it went how expected, mirin effect though big dog

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

as long as your happy

don't put it into someone else, with reinforcement of negative ideals. raping away their opportunity to improve.

 

[TFC]

don't put it into someone else, with reinforcement of negative ideals. raping away their opportunity to improve.

Look we have all been given a life, I have been given a life, you have a been given a life no one really knows why, you think it’s to improve yourself while dismissing all distractions, your a grown man now, if that is what you deem as the meaning of your life then as long as your happy and find fulfillment in the meaning you gave life then I’m happy for you, if you army happy or you don’t find fulfillment I think you should find new ideas

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

this isn't a movie with stereotypes you idiot.

go to school to do school work, don't talk to people.

ignore what others think about you and get better grades.

fix yourself before you attend higher education.

I say this from experience, please stfu with you're retarded world views.

done trying to convince you but holy ad hominem



n***a called me a r****d like 20 times and ignored the fact that almost all relationships during childhood (whether platonic or romantic) are found in school

You sound like an immigrant parent with your "just get good grades" shit, only you should know better, that this is pitifully wrong.

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

Look you have a been given a life no one really knows why, you think it’s to improve yourself while dismissing all distractions, your a grown man now, if that is what you deem as the meaning of your life then as long as your happy and find fulfillment in the meaning you gave life then I’m happy for you, if you army happy or you don’t find fulfillment I think you should find new ideas

you stupid fucking r****d.

I moved away from school, and started going out because I'm not a fucking loser.

school is nothing, don't dwindle on it.

im in higher education now and have friends.

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

you stupid fucking r****d.

I moved away from school, and started going out because I'm not a fucking loser.

school is nothing, don't dwindle on it.

im in higher education now and have friends.

n***a are you mentally ill


bro tried de-escalating and got eviscerated

you are clearly arguing in bad faith and not worth anyones time

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

done trying to convince you but holy ad hominem



n***a called me a r****d like 20 times and ignored the fact that almost all relationships during childhood (whether platonic or romantic) are found in school

You sound like an immigrant parent with your "just get good grades" shit, only you should know better, that this is pitifully wrong.

you're beyond saving. a fully retarded person who will continue to surround themselves with retarded people their entire life.

blissfully ignorant to how you should function optimally.

you haven't read a single word Ive written, and ignored every inkling of actual useful advice that will allow you progress.

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

n***a are you mentally ill


bro tried de-escalating and got eviscerated

you are clearly arguing in bad faith and not worth anyones time

just saying words, not reading.

let school wash over you, life doesn't end when school does.

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

just saying words, not reading.

let school wash over you, life doesn't end when school does.

you're once again insulting me like a low iq nimrod.
As i said earlier, it is very obvious you are arguing in bad faith.

The vast majority of interpersonal relationships before 18 are formed in school. Giving up on school is the equivalent of giving up on your social life, especially for the average inkwell.


QUOTE="axionym, post: 2920491, member: 117603"]
you're beyond saving. a fully retarded person who will continue to surround themselves with retarded people their entire life.

blissfully ignorant to how you should function optimally.

you haven't read a single word Ive written, and ignored every inkling of actual useful advice that will allow you progress.
[/QUOTE]



glad to know I can live in ignorance of the bp with my sub 40 iq bhai

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

you're once again insulting me like a loe iw



glad to know I can live in ignorance of the bp with my sub 40 iq bhai

im generalising you're predisposed opinions on everything I'm making comments on, because I want to abolish them entirely.

people don't function like that, people need to distance themselves from something that will definitely provide pain and insults.

my underlying contention is, distance yourself from inevitable suffering - this then extends to school, which is generally conceived as a place to find friends.

I object, by suggesting you're identity is already tarnished, and you're likely to find friends outside of school. don't dwindle on something you believe is promised to you (I.e. finding friends at school), instead move forward.

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

im generalising you're predisposed opinions on everything I'm making comments on, because I want to abolish them entirely.

people don't function like that, people need to distance themselves from something that will definitely provide pain and insults.

my underlying contention is, distance yourself from inevitable suffering - this then extends to school, which is generally conceived as a place to find friends.

I object, by suggesting you're identity is already tarnished, and you're likely to find friends outside of school. don't dwindle on something you believe is promised to you (I.e. finding friends at school), instead move forward.

You are presupposing that socializing in school after rejection from one social group already makes a losing game.

This is literally a textbook hasty generalization fallacy, and does not make any sense.

As I demonstrated earlier, almost ALL close friends or romantic relationships before 18 are through school. Simply by cutting school out, you are fucking your chances at having a decent social life. You have to insult and slander me because no data actually fits your beliefs, your beliefs are just a result of your preconceived notion of reality

 

[TFC]

im generalising you're predisposed opinions on everything I'm making comments on, because I want to abolish them entirely.

people don't function like that, people need to distance themselves from something that will definitely provide pain and insults.

my underlying contention is, distance yourself from inevitable suffering - this then extends to school, which is generally conceived as a place to find friends.

I object, by suggesting you're identity is already tarnished, and you're likely to find friends outside of school. don't dwindle on something you believe is promised to you (I.e. finding friends at school), instead move forward.

Growth comes from pain, the concept of new and different border the line of danger and pain. As a roller coaster is scary for kids, a political bate is scary for adults, talking to a strange, looking into a different philosophy, going to a new place, trying out a new art form, these start with embarrassment and shame but they grow into something I can only call consciousness. It’s ok to do things even if you think they will end badly, because at least you tried.

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

You are presupposing that socializing in school after rejection from one social group already makes a losing game.

This is literally a textbook hasty generalization fallacy, and does not make any sense.

As I demonstrated earlier, almost ALL close friends or romantic relationships before 18 are through school. Simply by cutting school out, you are fucking your chances at having a decent social life. You have to insult and slander me because no data actually fits your beliefs, your beliefs are just a result of your preconceived notion of reality

no, that's not what I'm suggesting.

you're identity is already tarnished, the moment a fallout occurs and it's made obvious to the entire population - it's too late to recover.

I think were arguing on basis of different facts, your cohorts are entirely different sizes - by my key point is, your identity - given a small enough cohort size, is tarnished the moment something like that occurs.

Ive never been ugly in my life.

there is so much neuance required to tell you so you can analyse it to the degree I can.

we aren't arguing the same thing.

if yorue identity is tarnished, walk away. start a new life - that's the only way to recover. I didn't have friends, or any one to talk to for 16 months.

I spent my school time trying to get the grades j needed for my higher education because I wanted it for myself.

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

Growth comes from pain, the concept of new and different border the line of danger and pain. As a roller coaster is scary for kids, a political bate is scary for adults, talking to a strange, looking into a different philosophy, going to a new place, trying out a new art form, these start with embarrassment and shame but they grow into something I can only call consciousness. It’s ok to do things even if you think they will end badly, because at least you tried.

this is obviously bait.

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

Growth comes from pain, the concept of new and different border the line of danger and pain. As a roller coaster is scary for kids, a political bate is scary for adults, talking to a strange, looking into a different philosophy, going to a new place, trying out a new art form, these start with embarrassment and shame but they grow into something I can only call consciousness. It’s ok to do things even if you think they will end badly, because at least you tried.

even initially, pain doesn't promise growth.

these massive generalisations are super awesome for a moody 13 year old that's going through a rough patch, but not applicable as a genuine coping mechanism for a functional person.

 

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no, that's not what I'm suggesting.

you're identity is already tarnished, the moment a fallout occurs and it's made obvious to the entire population - it's too late to recover.

I think were arguing on basis of different facts, your cohorts are entirely different sizes - by my key point is, your identity - given a small enough cohort size, is tarnished the moment something like that occurs.

Ive never been ugly in my life.

there is so much neuance required to tell you so you can analyse it to the degree I can.

we aren't arguing the same thing.

if yorue identity is tarnished, walk away. start a new life - that's the only way to recover. I didn't have friends, or any one to talk to for 16 months.

I spent my school time trying to get the grades j needed for my higher education because I wanted it for myself.

[QUOTE/]"axionym, post: 2920710, member: 117603"]
no, that's not what I'm suggesting.

you're identity is already tarnished, the moment a fallout occurs and it's made obvious to the entire population - it's too late to recover.

I think were arguing on basis of different facts, your cohorts are entirely different sizes - by my key point is, your identity - given a small enough cohort size, is tarnished the moment something like that occurs.

Ive never been ugly in my life.

there is so much neuance required to tell you so you can analyse it to the degree I can.

we aren't arguing the same thing.

if yorue identity is tarnished, walk away. start a new life - that's the only way to recover. I didn't have friends, or any one to talk to for 16 months.

I spent my school time trying to get the grades j needed for my higher education because I wanted it for myself.
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Ah, makes more sense now.

You are right that depending on the size of your school, and the group you fell out with, it genuinely can be a losing game to interact at that school again.

But unless your school has less than 500 people, (or you were kicked from some massive ass friend group) you are better off talking to new people within the school, rather than giving up.

There is one scenario I would give to you, which is if you have a falling out with a far more popular cohort. This will incinerate your social life, especially if it was over something very bad.

To be clear, my methodlogy was assuming the life circumstances of OP, not you.

I've never been ugly in my life[/QUOTE]


This is the problem. Obviously, if you are decent looking without fucked up social skills, you can afford to do something like this, because you have the leverage to do so.



Assuming OP was serious, (which im starting to doubt atp) he is a subhuman-ltn with no social skills. For him, not attempting to socialize in school at all, is simply a terrible move.

I do think you are right that this issue is nuanced though


my bad for being rude earlier, I just like arguing with people online

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

holy shit i formatted that wrong

 

[Deleted Member 117603]

[QUOTE/]"axionym, post: 2920710, member: 117603"]
no, that's not what I'm suggesting.

you're identity is already tarnished, the moment a fallout occurs and it's made obvious to the entire population - it's too late to recover.

I think were arguing on basis of different facts, your cohorts are entirely different sizes - by my key point is, your identity - given a small enough cohort size, is tarnished the moment something like that occurs.

Ive never been ugly in my life.

there is so much neuance required to tell you so you can analyse it to the degree I can.

we aren't arguing the same thing.

if yorue identity is tarnished, walk away. start a new life - that's the only way to recover. I didn't have friends, or any one to talk to for 16 months.

I spent my school time trying to get the grades j needed for my higher education because I wanted it for myself.

Ah, makes more sense now.

You are right that depending on the size of your school, and the group you fell out with, it genuinely can be a losing game to interact at that school again.

But unless your school has less than 500 people, (or you were kicked from some massive ass friend group) you are better off talking to new people within the school, rather than giving up.

There is one scenario I would give to you, which is if you have a falling out with a far more popular cohort. This will incinerate your social life, especially if it was over something very bad.

To be clear, my methodlogy was assuming the life circumstances of OP, not you.

I've never been ugly in my life[/QUOTE]


This is the problem. Obviously, if you are decent looking without fucked up social skills, you can afford to do something like this, because you have the leverage to do so.



Assuming OP was serious, (which im starting to doubt atp) he is a subhuman-ltn with no social skills. For him, not attempting to socialize in school at all, is simply a terrible move.

I do think you are right that this issue is nuanced though


my bad for being rude earlier, I just like arguing with people online
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also thread creator was permabanned for trolling.

I have no issue with arguing online, and my ability to post as a pretentious 15 year old is superceded by my deepest desire for someone who would identity with myself at a previous age to experience the same things I felt during that time.

not only did I have no friends, I also tried very hard to branch out to no avail.

I can personally attest to specific things people use as coping mechanisms, identifying with things like autism, depression, ADHD, and being ugly or what have you.

I mention this, because it's apart of the nuance required to understand, I would never been indoctrinated into the discussing r****d friend group - because I simply didn't fit.

it's a lot of things that would take a while for me type, but ultimately circumstances that prevent you from doing something you otherwise would have done anyways is shit.

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

I dnr the OP's post intially and just assumed he was some truecel, my bad for that (as all this bs could have been avoided)

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

Ah, makes more sense now.

You are right that depending on the size of your school, and the group you fell out with, it genuinely can be a losing game to interact at that school again.

But unless your school has less than 500 people, (or you were kicked from some massive ass friend group) you are better off talking to new people within the school, rather than giving up.

There is one scenario I would give to you, which is if you have a falling out with a far more popular cohort. This will incinerate your social life, especially if it was over something very bad.

To be clear, my methodlogy was assuming the life circumstances of OP, not you.

I've never been ugly in my life

This is the problem. Obviously, if you are decent looking without fucked up social skills, you can afford to do something like this, because you have the leverage to do so.



Assuming OP was serious, (which im starting to doubt atp) he is a subhuman-ltn with no social skills. For him, not attempting to socialize in school at all, is simply a terrible move.

I do think you are right that this issue is nuanced though


my bad for being rude earlier, I just like arguing with people online
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also thread creator was permabanned for trolling.

I have no issue with arguing online, and my ability to post as a pretentious 15 year old is superceded by my deepest desire for someone who would identity with myself at a previous age to experience the same things I felt during that time.

not only did I have no friends, I also tried very hard to branch out to no avail.

I can personally attest to specific things people use as coping mechanisms, identifying with things like autism, depression, ADHD, and being ugly or what have you.

I mention this, because it's apart of the nuance required to understand, I would never been indoctrinated into the discussing r****d friend group - because I simply didn't fit.

it's a lot of things that would take a while for me type, but ultimately circumstances that prevent you from doing something you otherwise would have done anyways is shit.
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Ah, makes more sense now.

You are right that depending on the size of your school, and the group you fell out with, it genuinely can be a losing game to interact at that school again.

But unless your school has less than 500 people, (or you were kicked from some massive ass friend group) you are better off talking to new people within the school, rather than giving up.

There is one scenario I would give to you, which is if you have a falling out with a far more popular cohort. This will incinerate your social life, especially if it was over something very bad.

To be clear, my methodlogy was assuming the life circumstances of OP, not you.

I've never been ugly in my life

This is the problem. Obviously, if you are decent looking without fucked up social skills, you can afford to do something like this, because you have the leverage to do so.



Assuming OP was serious, (which im starting to doubt atp) he is a subhuman-ltn with no social skills. For him, not attempting to socialize in school at all, is simply a terrible move.

I do think you are right that this issue is nuanced though


my bad for being rude earlier, I just like arguing with people online
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also thread creator was permabanned for trolling.

I have no issue with arguing online, and my ability to post as a pretentious 15 year old is superceded by my deepest desire for someone who would identity with myself at a previous age to experience the same things I felt during that time.

not only did I have no friends, I also tried very hard to branch out to no avail.

I can personally attest to specific things people use as coping mechanisms, identifying with things like autism, depression, ADHD, and being ugly or what have you.

I mention this, because it's apart of the nuance required to understand, I would never been indoctrinated into the discussing r****d friend group - because I simply didn't fit.

it's a lot of things that would take a while for me type, but ultimately circumstances that prevent you from doing something you otherwise would have done anyways is shit.
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i also agree that being nd heavily changes things, (depending on its severity) and makes socialization a losing game for many

I remember some sped kid in my class who would basically get trolled by all the normal kids, and he genuinely thought they were his friends (shit still makes me sad ngl]