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Experience why is it actually hard to find real friends that are girls?

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the more I grew up the more I realized how actually hard it has to find other girls that r like real friends and who u can trust.

its so weird and even at my school majority of the drama is between girls because so and so gossiped about so and so or some shit. it's like we're competing with each other rather then having genuine girlhood and stuff ik I sound cringy rn but I js want more friends that r girls in real life 😔
@lowtiersubhuman @Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX
 
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yea i literally struggled to get friends the first like 2 years of secondary school it was horrible
 
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the more I grew up the more I realized how actually hard it has to find other girls that r like real friends and who u can trust.

its so weird and even at my school majority of the drama is between girls because so and so gossiped about so and so or some shit. it's like we're competing with each other rather then having genuine girlhood and stuff ik I sound cringy rn but I js want more friends that r girls in real life 😔
@lowtiersubhuman @Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX
idk im not a girl
 
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the more I grew up the more I realized how actually hard it has to find other girls that r like real friends and who u can trust.

its so weird and even at my school majority of the drama is between girls because so and so gossiped about so and so or some shit. it's like we're competing with each other rather then having genuine girlhood and stuff ik I sound cringy rn but I js want more friends that r girls in real life 😔
@lowtiersubhuman @Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX
i go to an all boys schools so its genuinely impossible for me. in the rare instances i do talk to girls i get really quiet and socially anxious
 
the more I grew up the more I realized how actually hard it has to find other girls that r like real friends and who u can trust.

its so weird and even at my school majority of the drama is between girls because so and so gossiped about so and so or some shit. it's like we're competing with each other rather then having genuine girlhood and stuff ik I sound cringy rn but I js want more friends that r girls in real life 😔
@lowtiersubhuman @Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX
OMG NO STOP IM THE SAME EXACT WAY AND I HATE IT I FIND IT SO HARD TO ACC FORM DEEPER CONNECTIONS W OTHER GIRLS BUT ITS LITERALLY ALL I WANT

okay js trust like we’ll make some good friends eventually we js gotta be patient right
 
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yeah its genuinely difficult some are STARING INTO MY SOUL ITS SCARY
 
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OMG NO STOP IM THE SAME EXACT WAY AND I HATE IT I FIND IT SO HARD TO ACC FORM DEEPER CONNECTIONS W OTHER GIRLS BUT ITS LITERALLY ALL I WANT

okay js trust like we’ll make some good friends eventually we js gotta be patient right
FR LIKE IS IT TOO MUCH TO ASK FOR? and yes we will js gotta be patient
 
the more I grew up the more I realized how actually hard it has to find other girls that r like real friends and who u can trust.

its so weird and even at my school majority of the drama is between girls because so and so gossiped about so and so or some shit. it's like we're competing with each other rather then having genuine girlhood and stuff ik I sound cringy rn but I js want more friends that r girls in real life 😔
@lowtiersubhuman @Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX
Looks like now the younger generations of girls are shallow and performative. And are unable to bond real friendships
 
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the more I grew up the more I realized how actually hard it has to find other girls that r like real friends and who u can trust.

its so weird and even at my school majority of the drama is between girls because so and so gossiped about so and so or some shit. it's like we're competing with each other rather then having genuine girlhood and stuff ik I sound cringy rn but I js want more friends that r girls in real life 😔
@lowtiersubhuman @Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX
Who wants foid friends anyway
 
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the more I grew up the more I realized how actually hard it has to find other girls that r like real friends and who u can trust.

its so weird and even at my school majority of the drama is between girls because so and so gossiped about so and so or some shit. it's like we're competing with each other rather then having genuine girlhood and stuff ik I sound cringy rn but I js want more friends that r girls in real life 😔
@lowtiersubhuman @Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX
yes same😭😭
i dont even have online girl friends, i interact with girls here but i never talk to them privately
 
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Dnr but girls are complicated maybe that’s why, seems like they have a hard time letting other people in if they already in a friend group
 
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