why is it so hard to get over stuff

[marblesoup]

whenever something bad happens i talk about it to someone and they always tell me to get over it or forget about it because it’s over but i feel like it’s too soon

and is it really over if it still matters to me or makes me upset

 

[Thebird]

It’s over

 

[marblesoup]

It’s over

it’s so over

 

[</3]

when something bad happens i talk about it to someone and they always tell me to get over it or forget about it because it’s over but i feel like it’s too soon

and is it really over if it still matters to me or makes me upset

distract yourself and get a superiority complex

 

[</3]

It’s over

its never over

 

[Thebird]

its never over

Yes

 

[marblesoup]

distract yourself and get a superiority complex

HAHAHAA maybe that’s not a terrible idea

i’ll try anything at this point

 

[Blackpillirony]

when something bad happens i talk about it to someone and they always tell me to get over it or forget about it because it’s over but i feel like it’s too soon

That's sum stupid ass shit because the more you'll let it inside the worse it'll get, either confront the source of the problem or find something fulfilling to do to finalize your frustration.

and is it really over if it still matters to me or makes me upset

It's never over

 

[Pepelmint]

I dont hold Grudges. Unnecessary to hold on to anything. Worldly desires & such

 

[</3]

I dont hold Grudges. Unnecessary to hold on to anything. Worldly desires & such

holding grudges is like holding a hot coal and expecting the other party to get burnt. learn to let go

 

[marblesoup]

I dont hold Grudges. Unnecessary to hold on to anything. Worldly desires & such

holding grudges is like holding a hot coal and expecting the other party to get burnt. learn to let go

i don’t hold grudges either, its not hard for me to detach being upset from a person, but it’s hard to detach and “forget” an event or something that caused it ykwim

 

[kimothy]

everyone in my life is bad towards me so i just accept it

 

[marblesoup]

everyone in my life is bad towards me so i just accept it

lwk real

 

[2Beau]

whenever something bad happens i talk about it to someone and they always tell me to get over it or forget about it because it’s over but i feel like it’s too soon

and is it really over if it still matters to me or makes me upset

Just goon

 

[marblesoup]

Just goon

two steps ahead