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Why is life so easy for girls

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I’ve just started getting into the looksmaxing community and I have so many questions. my drive to better myself has came from breaking up with my ex.

We had broken up before and I became so ugly after the break up and i couldnt speak to other girls I had no sexual or even near sexual relations with anyone until we got back together about 6 months after.

As for her she had already hooked up with another guy 3 weeks after we broke up for the first time and had I think about four relationships before we got back.

I don’t get why it is so easy for girls to get with boys but every time I even think about trying to spk to a girl i feel like i just come across as a creep.

I came to the conclusion that I feel like I was being mogged by other boys around me and that I needed to build more self confidence in order to be confident and successful when trying to spk to girls.

I feel awkward approaching girls as I said and I feel as if they have all the control like it feels I don’t have a chance unless they approach me first.

I’ve learnt a lot already about looksmaxing and I have started the basic and natural methods but any tips/advise would be much appreciated
 
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I’ve just started getting into the looksmaxing community and I have so many questions. my drive to better myself has came from breaking up with my ex.

We had broken up before and I became so ugly after the break up and i couldnt speak to other girls I had no sexual or even near sexual relations with anyone until we got back together about 6 months after.

As for her she had already hooked up with another guy 3 weeks after we broke up for the first time and had I think about four relationships before we got back.

I don’t get why it is so easy for girls to get with boys but every time I even think about trying to spk to a girl i feel like i just come across as a creep.

I came to the conclusion that I feel like I was being mogged by other boys around me and that I needed to build more self confidence in order to be confident and successful when trying to spk to girls.

I feel awkward approaching girls as I said and I feel as if they have all the control like it feels I don’t have a chance unless they approach me first.

I’ve learnt a lot already about looksmaxing and I have started the basic and natural methods but any tips/advise would be much appreciated
life overall isnt easier for women
also its easy to get a man but hard to get a good one
that and also the physical dangers of meeting men as woman
 
I’ve just started getting into the looksmaxing community and I have so many questions. my drive to better myself has came from breaking up with my ex.

We had broken up before and I became so ugly after the break up and i couldnt speak to other girls I had no sexual or even near sexual relations with anyone until we got back together about 6 months after.

As for her she had already hooked up with another guy 3 weeks after we broke up for the first time and had I think about four relationships before we got back.

I don’t get why it is so easy for girls to get with boys but every time I even think about trying to spk to a girl i feel like i just come across as a creep.

I came to the conclusion that I feel like I was being mogged by other boys around me and that I needed to build more self confidence in order to be confident and successful when trying to spk to girls.

I feel awkward approaching girls as I said and I feel as if they have all the control like it feels I don’t have a chance unless they approach me first.

I’ve learnt a lot already about looksmaxing and I have started the basic and natural methods but any tips/advise would be much appreciated
you right
 
Yeh i totally get what you are saying but definitely where u am from it feels as if women/girls really have the power over men when it comes to hooking up
 
I’ve just started getting into the looksmaxing community and I have so many questions. my drive to better myself has came from breaking up with my ex.

We had broken up before and I became so ugly after the break up and i couldnt speak to other girls I had no sexual or even near sexual relations with anyone until we got back together about 6 months after.

As for her she had already hooked up with another guy 3 weeks after we broke up for the first time and had I think about four relationships before we got back.

I don’t get why it is so easy for girls to get with boys but every time I even think about trying to spk to a girl i feel like i just come across as a creep.

I came to the conclusion that I feel like I was being mogged by other boys around me and that I needed to build more self confidence in order to be confident and successful when trying to spk to girls.

I feel awkward approaching girls as I said and I feel as if they have all the control like it feels I don’t have a chance unless they approach me first.

I’ve learnt a lot already about looksmaxing and I have started the basic and natural methods but any tips/advise would be much appreciated
water life is on tutorial mode for women, Ukraine and all 3rd world where men just die and women fled country and party with chads overseas?
women have safety from government.
 
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I think it was due to the fact we had went out for five years and she’s been my only proper relationship
idk obviously I don’t know the story but it sounds concerning to get back together and when she did all that
 
life overall isnt easier for women
also its easy to get a man but hard to get a good one
that and also the physical dangers of meeting men as woman
Why not? Men nowadays are legitimately striving for women. You only have a chance if you look good. You can put on some makeup which can completely change ur looks. You don’t have to work and can be a housewife if you want. So you are really telling me it’s not easier? Unless you have depressions or are in warfare you have no reason to say that.
 
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same shit happened to me

but I feel like she hooked up with another guy after 3 weeks of breaking up bc she's easy or she didn't really value the relationship she had with you. (or both) I might be wrong but this is what it's sounding like to me, plus the fact u got back with her is kindaaa bad
 
idk obviously I don’t know the story but it sounds concerning to get back together and when she did all that
Yeh tbh tho are relationship wasn’t bad we never really argued or that so I guess it more of a comfort thing
 
same shit happened to me

but I feel like she hooked up with another guy after 3 weeks of breaking up bc she's easy or she didn't really value the relationship she had with you. (or both) I might be wrong but this is what it's sounding like to me, plus the fact u got back with her is kindaaa bad
Yeh I guess it was pretty bad to get back with her any advise on how to move on and many even get with other girls
 
Yeh I guess it was pretty bad to get back with her any advise on how to move on and many even get with other girls
hmmmm

keep in mind looksmaxxing will make you feel confident but it won't make you forget :weirdchamp:

acknowledge the flaws when you were with her (if she was being shady, rude, etc etc)

if you like working out go to the gym or do exercise in general to focus on something else, dwelling in the past is bad you need to build motivation to do better (like do anything to get her off your mind)

acknowledge HER flaws too (who she is as a person) idk who she is so I cant comment much on this but if she was a piece of shit that's probably a good sign to not go back to her. (again)

if she moved on quick you should too therefore meaning getting your communication skills up with different girls. If you're in school currently see how the girls act ,if they're loners, loud , basically anything to do with personality I would try to match their energy. If a girl is on the quieter side talk calmly, if a girl is loud / full of energy you could mess around with her (as in joking around, play fighting if she doesn't mind, shit like that). does that make sense..? this doesn't mean alter your personality btw still be you

don't think too much about what you want to say if you're having a conversation and you're CONSTANTLY thinking about what to say next, that's gonna fuck up your train of thought and most likely you're gonna forget what the other person was talking about. you wanna show girls you're interested right? pay attention to what they're saying !! nod your head, make eye contact (don't be creepy about it tho), if you relate to what they're saying give a little bit of your opinion don't flip the convo mainly on you tho. as a girl myself when a guy genuinely likes listening to me it makes me wanna talk to them more. also also also when you're talking don't overshare, DO NOTTTTT start ranting about yourself only say more about yourself if she asks questions about is. (EXAMPLE) you: "I really like cooking I find it comforting" Her: "Oh okay what makes it feel comforting for you?" BOOM !! you could flip the convo on her (EXAMPLE 2#) you: "I find it comforting because...blah blah blah *insert reasoning* do you like cooking too?" Her: "hmm i've never really been into cooking but I do like learning more things"
sorry for the corny example but you can use that tactic on anything your talking about

forgot to mention this but don't rely on relationships being lustful, in order to forget about your ex you need to find someone who you actually love for her and not her blowjobs...when you find the one trust me it'll help heal from your past relationship.
the more and more sex you have to numb certain things the more you're going to dead inside (kinda dramatic but yeah)

plsplspls tell me this makes sense I kinda suck at giving advice so a lot of this is just me yapping :donowall:
 
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hmmmm

keep in mind looksmaxxing will make you feel confident but it won't make you forget :weirdchamp:

acknowledge the flaws when you were with her (if she was being shady, rude, etc etc)

if you like working out go to the gym or do exercise in general to focus on something else, dwelling in the past is bad you need to build motivation to do better (like do anything to get her off your mind)

acknowledge HER flaws too (who she is as a person) idk who she is so I cant comment much on this but if she was a piece of shit that's probably a good sign to not go back to her. (again)

if she moved on quick you should too therefore meaning getting your communication skills up with different girls. If you're in school currently see how the girls act ,if they're loners, loud , basically anything to do with personality I would try to match their energy. If a girl is on the quieter side talk calmly, if a girl is loud / full of energy you could mess around with her (as in joking around, play fighting if she doesn't mind, shit like that). does that make sense..? this doesn't mean alter your personality btw still be you

don't think too much about what you want to say if you're having a conversation and you're CONSTANTLY thinking about what to say next, that's gonna fuck up your train of thought and most likely you're gonna forget what the other person was talking about. you wanna show girls you're interested right? pay attention to what they're saying !! nod your head, make eye contact (don't be creepy about it tho), if you relate to what they're saying give a little bit of your opinion don't flip the convo mainly on you tho. as a girl myself when a guy genuinely likes listening to me it makes me wanna talk to them more. also also also when you're talking don't overshare, DO NOTTTTT start ranting about yourself only say more about yourself if she asks questions about is. (EXAMPLE) you: "I really like cooking I find it comforting" Her: "Oh okay what makes it feel comforting for you?" BOOM !! you could flip the convo on her (EXAMPLE 2#) you: "I find it comforting because...blah blah blah *insert reasoning* do you like cooking too?" Her: "hmm i've never really been into cooking but I do like learning more things"
sorry for the corny example but you can use that tactic on anything your talking about

forgot to mention this but don't rely on relationships being lustful, in order to forget about your ex you need to find someone who you actually love for her and not her blowjobs...when you find the one trust me it'll help heal from your past relationship.
the more and more sex you to numb certain things the more you're going to dead inside (kinda dramatic but yeah)

plsplspls tell me this makes sense I kinda suck at giving advice so a lot of this is just me yapping :donowall:
this took so long to type holy shit
 
like the user above just said its hard for women to find a guy that truly does care
we can use makeup filters etc. that boosts our attractiveness
guys will just go out with anyone but a lot of them don't care and will insult you behind your back
with guys yes its hard but you'll find someone that truly cares a lot quicker than with girls
I'm a girl and I never had a bf before soooooo
 
We had broken up before and I became so ugly after the break up and i couldnt speak to other girls I had no sexual or even near sexual relations with anyone until we got back together about 6 months after.

As for her she had already hooked up with another guy 3 weeks after we broke up for the first time and had I think about four relationships before we got back.
Why you're back with her ?! She slept with other men she doesn't love you anymore.

I hate when women sleep with guys just to move on, they don't realised they're just used for their body 😾 We aren't winning by giving it to them so easily...
 
Why you're back with her ?! She slept with other men she doesn't love you anymore.

I hate when women sleep with guys just to move on, they don't realised they're just used for their body 😾 We aren't winning by giving it to them so easily...
truth nuke
 
I’ve just started getting into the looksmaxing community and I have so many questions. my drive to better myself has came from breaking up with my ex.

We had broken up before and I became so ugly after the break up and i couldnt speak to other girls I had no sexual or even near sexual relations with anyone until we got back together about 6 months after.

As for her she had already hooked up with another guy 3 weeks after we broke up for the first time and had I think about four relationships before we got back.

I don’t get why it is so easy for girls to get with boys but every time I even think about trying to spk to a girl i feel like i just come across as a creep.

I came to the conclusion that I feel like I was being mogged by other boys around me and that I needed to build more self confidence in order to be confident and successful when trying to spk to girls.

I feel awkward approaching girls as I said and I feel as if they have all the control like it feels I don’t have a chance unless they approach me first.

I’ve learnt a lot already about looksmaxing and I have started the basic and natural methods but any tips/advise would be much appreciated
i wish you the best i really want see improvement from you wish the best
 
I’ve just started getting into the looksmaxing community and I have so many questions. my drive to better myself has came from breaking up with my ex.

We had broken up before and I became so ugly after the break up and i couldnt speak to other girls I had no sexual or even near sexual relations with anyone until we got back together about 6 months after.

As for her she had already hooked up with another guy 3 weeks after we broke up for the first time and had I think about four relationships before we got back.

I don’t get why it is so easy for girls to get with boys but every time I even think about trying to spk to a girl i feel like i just come across as a creep.

I came to the conclusion that I feel like I was being mogged by other boys around me and that I needed to build more self confidence in order to be confident and successful when trying to spk to girls.

I feel awkward approaching girls as I said and I feel as if they have all the control like it feels I don’t have a chance unless they approach me first.

I’ve learnt a lot already about looksmaxing and I have started the basic and natural methods but any tips/advise would be much appreciated
bruh come on your dating a whore
 
Why you're back with her ?! She slept with other men she doesn't love you anymore.

I hate when women sleep with guys just to move on, they don't realised they're just used for their body 😾 We aren't winning by giving it to them so easily...
Accepting back an ex is a recipe for disaster, like there is a reason you broke up with them, and trying to forget someone by sleeping with people you don't connect is just ideal to create new traumas
 
Accepting back an ex is a recipe for disaster, like there is a reason you broke up with them, and trying to forget someone by sleeping with people you don't connect is just ideal to create new traumas
Yeh that was a mistake but we split up end of October 25 and I’m not going back this time
 
I don't think the issue is about the life for girls being easier, but her being very easy. missingdollparts gave good general advice, but get some standards and respect for yourself too
thank yew
 
life overall isnt easier for women
also its easy to get a man but hard to get a good one
that and also the physical dangers of meeting men as woman
A woman can sleep with who she wants but LTR who she can.

That's why some women have the false sensation to be irresistible to men, like, yeah you can sleep around but who is gonna really stay during your ups & downs, when you're gonna age, have a baby, your period etc etc

Ofc there women who prioritize sleeping around but it never ends well anyways
 
A woman can sleep with who she wants but LTR who she can.

That's why some women have the false sensation to be irresistible to men, like, yeah you can sleep around but who is gonna really stay during your ups & downs, when you're gonna age, have a baby, your period etc etc

Ofc there women who prioritize sleeping around but it never ends well anyways
Desperate men will wife up whores they always win in the end
 
Yeh i totally get what you are saying but definitely where u am from it feels as if women/girls really have the power over men when it comes to hooking up
Hooking up should be the least of one’s worries, focusing good women who aren’t easy. Trust me hooks ups do nothing for anyone and make good women not wanna be with you
 
I’ve just started getting into the looksmaxing community and I have so many questions. my drive to better myself has came from breaking up with my ex.

We had broken up before and I became so ugly after the break up and i couldnt speak to other girls I had no sexual or even near sexual relations with anyone until we got back together about 6 months after.

As for her she had already hooked up with another guy 3 weeks after we broke up for the first time and had I think about four relationships before we got back.

I don’t get why it is so easy for girls to get with boys but every time I even think about trying to spk to a girl i feel like i just come across as a creep.

I came to the conclusion that I feel like I was being mogged by other boys around me and that I needed to build more self confidence in order to be confident and successful when trying to spk to girls.

I feel awkward approaching girls as I said and I feel as if they have all the control like it feels I don’t have a chance unless they approach me first.

I’ve learnt a lot already about looksmaxing and I have started the basic and natural methods but any tips/advise would be much appreciated
dudes are more horny, girls care about looks more
 
Hooking up should be the least of one’s worries, focusing good women who aren’t easy. Trust me hooks ups do nothing for anyone and make good women not wanna be with you
is that you in your pfpf
 
Most guys are easy
 

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