why smv doesn't matter (for women)

[may2002]

note: i am defining smv as being desired only sexually by the opposite sex, not dating.

i see a lot of males complaining about how girls have more smv then them, and how their looksmatch has it easier but it doesn't actually mean anything. yes as a girl i could walk outside and probably find a random guy to have sex with me but so what? that doesn't mean the guy loves me or cares about me. its just meaningless pleasure. if i were to try and get into a relashinship however that's a whole different story. it would be way harder. this doesn't only apply to women btw it applies to males as well.

and i get that having sex for males is harder but i don't necessarily think finding love is. if you are only looking for sexual pleasure then it's not much of a suprise that most girls wouldn't want to sleep with you because most of us are not only looking for sex. and i know that im gonna get replies saying "oh if it was chad you sleep with him" but like why are you guys acting like if stacy wanted to have sex with you, you wouldn't say yes?

anyways i guess the point of this is that women might be able to have sex more often but without love sex is meaningless and only for physical pleasure. and at that point you might as well just jerk off.

 

[rand anon]

Water but

and i get that having sex for males is harder but i don't necessarily think find love is.

Nahh maynnnn
Both are harder for men jfl

 

[Luffy]

Tldr

Women smv> male
Ltb has 1000x the smv of a ltn

 

[may2002]

Tldr

Women smv> male
Ltb has 1000x the smv of a ltn

read it

 

[Br4va]

Response coming

 

[Br4va]

The problem with this is that females do have it easier getting guys for a relationship too. Females deadass can just exist and live their normal lives and can start giving a guy attention and then he will start to get hooked to her

For guys you need high smv to get that experience.

 

[Br4va]

The problem with this is that females do have it easier getting guys for a relationship too. Females deadass can just exist and live their normal lives and can start giving a guy attention and then he will start to get hooked to her

For guys you need high smv to get that experience.

Females are wanted more because guys are hornier. Males are wanted less because females are less hornier. In general.

There are exceptions tho.

And another thing you need to realize is that a lot of males never realize “oh shit maybe I’m not ready for a relationship” so they fall for dumbass hoes too often

 

[chudlite67]

note: i am defining smv as being desired only sexually by the opposite sex, not dating.

i see a lot of males complaining about how girls have more smv then them, and how their looksmatch has it easier but it doesn't actually mean anything. yes as a girl i could walk outside and probably find a random guy to have sex with me but so what? that doesn't mean the guy loves me or cares about me. its just meaningless pleasure. if i were to try and get into a relashinship however that's a whole different story. it would be way harder. this doesn't only apply to women btw it applies to males as well.

and i get that having sex for males is harder but i don't necessarily think find love is. if you are only looking for sexual pleasure then it's not much of a suprise that most girls wouldn't want to sleep with you because most of us are not only looking for sex. and i know that im gonna get replies saying "oh if it was chad you sleep with him" but like why are you guys acting like if stacy wanted to have sex with you, you wouldn't say yes?

anyways i guess the point of this is that women might be able to have sex more often but without love sex is meaningless and only for physical pleasure. and at that point you might as well just jerk off.

youre forgetting the part where they dont care about loving or caring for another person they only want a gf or wife for the sex part & thats why they say women have it so easy

 

[may2002]

Females are wanted more because guys are hornier. Males are wanted less because females are less hornier. In general.

There are exceptions tho.

And another thing you need to realize is that a lot of males never realize “oh shit maybe I’m not ready for a relationship” so they fall for dumbass hoes too often

so we agree. i mean what im saying is that only being wanted sexually is not necessarily a good thing.

 

[Br4va]

so we agree. i mean what im saying is that only being wanted sexually is not necessarily a good thing.

Yea

It’s easier for females to get a bf tho 100%

 

[Br4va]

Guys are too horny and get attached way toooo easillyyyy

 

[may2002]

Guys are too horny and get attached way toooo easillyyyy

no their just horny.

 

[Br4va]

no their just horny.

Ok

 

[may2002]

Yea

It’s easier for females to get a bf tho 100%

no it isn't bro. males will only date you if you have some sort of status or are pretty. or they just want to use you for sex.

 

[Br4va]

no it isn't bro. males will only date you if you have some sort of status or are pretty. or they just want to use you for sex.

Try going for your Looksmatch

 

[may2002]

Try going for your Looksmatch

i did i got rejected. jfl

 

[Br4va]

i did i got rejected. jfl

Why ? Do you think you could figure out why he rejected you?

 

[chudlite67]

Why ? Do you think you could figure out why he rejected you?

bc hes waiting for stacy

 

[Br4va]

bc hes waiting for stacy

Some guys are jerks but maybe she’s a shitty person or he just doesn’t fw her like that

 

[chudlite67]

Some guys are jerks but maybe she’s a shitty person or he just doesn’t fw her like that

holy mental gymnastics

 

[Br4va]

holy mental gymnastics

I must be a funny guy with an awesome personality getting 3 jfls

 

[chudlite67]

I must be a funny guy with an awesome personality getting 3 jfls

if u like

 

[may2002]

Why ? Do you think you could figure out why he rejected you?

cus im ugly duh.

 

[Br4va]

if u like

Ok

 

[Br4va]

cus im ugly duh.

Makes sense

 

[may2002]

Some guys are jerks but maybe she’s a shitty person or he just doesn’t fw her like that

yeah he could tell how bad of a person i was just by looking at my face.

 

[Br4va]

yeah he could tell how bad of a person i was just by looking at my face.

Yup

 

[chudlite67]

Makes sense

ur saying it makes sense that men dont want their ltb looksmatch?

 

[Br4va]

ur saying it makes sense that men dont want their ltb looksmatch?

Yea i dont know everything in their interaction.

Who knows what happened. She isn’t telling everything.

And plus what is even the point of this convo ?

There are exceptions but overall men have it slightly harder. And that’s totally fine. A guy having it harder is better then a female having it harder

 

[may2002]

A guy having it harder is better then a female having it harder

what do you mean?

 

[may2002]

ur saying it makes sense that men dont want their ltb looksmatch?

yeah they only want stacy or an htb

 

[Br4va]

what do you mean?

It’s better because males handle inceldom easier

 

[True Spaniard]

note: i am defining smv as being desired only sexually by the opposite sex, not dating.

i see a lot of males complaining about how girls have more smv then them, and how their looksmatch has it easier but it doesn't actually mean anything. yes as a girl i could walk outside and probably find a random guy to have sex with me but so what? that doesn't mean the guy loves me or cares about me. its just meaningless pleasure. if i were to try and get into a relashinship however that's a whole different story. it would be way harder. this doesn't only apply to women btw it applies to males as well.

and i get that having sex for males is harder but i don't necessarily think finding love is. if you are only looking for sexual pleasure then it's not much of a suprise that most girls wouldn't want to sleep with you because most of us are not only looking for sex. and i know that im gonna get replies saying "oh if it was chad you sleep with him" but like why are you guys acting like if stacy wanted to have sex with you, you wouldn't say yes?

anyways i guess the point of this is that women might be able to have sex more often but without love sex is meaningless and only for physical pleasure. and at that point you might as well just jerk off.

So your basing your point, that women dont necesarially have more smv than men because they struggle as much if not more to get into relationships, because you struggle to find romantic partners? Your anecdotal fallacy is quite clear, your case isnt a universal rule. If your statement was even true (which it isnt) it would be due to female hypergamy, the fact that they aim higher than their actual same level smv partner may make them struggle to find a relationship long-term, but what if no one had any absolute filters and tried to get a romantic partner as quick as possible? Well its funny that a rapid google search wouldve overthrown your point completely

 

[True Spaniard]

yeah they only want stacy or an htb

Yh im starting to suspect this is leea @Br4va

 

[Br4va]

Yh im starting to suspect this is leea @Br4va

Nah no way

I think leaa would be more aggressive

 

[True Spaniard]

Nah no way

I think leaa would be more aggressive

Anyway her point is quite weak it was pretty easy to dismantle it jfl

 

[may2002]

So your basing your point, that women dont necesarially have more smv than men because they struggle as much if not more to get into relationships, because you struggle to find romantic partners? Your anecdotal fallacy is quite clear, your case isnt a universal rule. If your statement was even true (which it isnt) it would be due to female hypergamy, the fact that they aim higher than their actual same level smv partner may make them struggle to find a relationship long-term, but what if no one had any absolute filters and tried to get a romatic partner as quick as possible? Well its funny that a rapid google search wouldve overthrown your point completely
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ok but im not talking about hypotheticals. im talking about the real world. the only reason in that specific scenario women would get into a relationship quicker is because males are the one approaching the women rather then the other way around. basically all the males who shot their shot would get chosen and the males who didn't wouldn't

 

[Br4va]

Anyway her point is quite weak it was pretty easy to dismantle it jfl

Honeslty I don’t really care anymore. Why does it matter who has it worse ? Just take care of yourself and why worry about other dudes / girls?

Like do chads care about hypergamy or ltns getting no pussy ?

 

[may2002]

Yh im starting to suspect this is leea @Br4va

fuh no

 

[may2002]

Honeslty I don’t really care anymore. Why does it matter who has it worse ? Just take care of yourself and why worry about other dudes / girls?

Like do chads care about hypergamy or ltns getting no pussy ?

they don't care cus it doesn't affect them.

 

[Br4va]

they don't care cus it doesn't affect them.

Exactly ! So we should reach that status and share the same mindset

 

[may2002]

Exactly ! So we should reach that status and share the same mindset

good point. but im mad at all the stupid moids who treated me like shit bc im ugly so no

 

[True Spaniard]

ok but im not talking about hypotheticals. im talking about the real world. the only reason in that specific scenario women would get into a relationship quicker is because males are the one approaching the women rather then the other way around. basically all the males who shot their shot would get chosen and the males who didn't wouldn't

So either you prove female hypergamy bc without any filters women have it quite easier to find a relationship and irl they dont, or if you deny it you totally contradict yourself, call it

 

[Br4va]

good point. but im mad at all the stupid moids who treated me like shit bc im ugly so no

But you’re acting like you are worthy of a relationship despite being ufly

 

[Br4va]

@may2002

I’m ugly asf and I don’t really care about girls
I understand there is no point in wasting time into something I know won’t work out

 

[chudlite67]

It’s better because males handle inceldom easier

this is.. not true?

 

[True Spaniard]

Honeslty I don’t really care anymore. Why does it matter who has it worse ? Just take care of yourself and why worry about other dudes / girls?

Like do chads care about hypergamy or ltns getting no pussy ?

Yh tbh i dgaf i just want to improve my knowledge and debate skills, but her point is just with all due respect horrid

 

[Br4va]

this is.. not true?

How ? Like you see people like master for example. Genuine incel but he hasn’t let that stop him from creating a huge forum and he probably has a solid net worth around him now too

And a lot of guys tend to do better when they focus on themselves.

 

[may2002]

@may2002

I’m ugly asf and I don’t really care about girls
I understand there is no point in wasting time into something I know won’t work out

you're on a looksmaxxing forum bro. what do you think people are gonna talk about.

 

[Br4va]

Yh tbh i dgaf i just want to improve my knowledge and debate skills, but her point is just with all due respect horrid

Dude I be doing that sometimes too. Getting into useless debates. It’s a fun method