why smv doesn't matter (for women)

[Br4va]

you're on a looksmaxxing forum bro. what do you think people are gonna talk about.

How does this relate ? I’m just saying that I’m a guy , ugly asf, and accept the fact that I can’t pull so I have no expectations

 

[may2002]

But you’re acting like you are worthy of a relationship despite being ufly

i ascened. went from sub 5 to mtb. also i just wanna experience love bro. is that to much to ask for?

 

[Br4va]

i ascened. went from sub 5 to mtb. also i just wanna experience love bro. is that to much to ask for?

I doubt you are an mtb

Plus luck might not be in your favor. I would suggest you to just continue living life

 

[may2002]

I doubt you are an mtb

dam ok.

 

[Br4va]

dam ok.

I’m sorry

 

[may2002]

I’m sorry

its ok. you're probably right

 

[chudlite67]

How ? Like you see people like master for example. Genuine incel but he hasn’t let that stop him from creating a huge forum and he probably has a solid net worth around him now too

And a lot of guys tend to do better when they focus on themselves.

well thats true but i was thinking more about male suicide rates and the male loneliness epidemic

 

[Br4va]

well thats true but i was thinking more about male suicide rates and the male loneliness epidemic

Most of them aren’t from being an incel

 

[Br4va]

@chudlite67 male suicide rates are acctually so brutal tho damn

 

[may2002]

well thats true but i was thinking more about male suicide rates and the male loneliness epidemic

i think when men are depressed or lonely they take their anger out on others while women take it out on themselves.

 

[rand anon]

youre forgetting the part where they dont care about loving or caring for another person they only want a gf or wife for the sex part & thats why they say women have it so easy

That isn’t true chudlite

 

[chudlite67]

Most of them aren’t from being an incel

@chudlite67 male suicide rates are acctually so brutal tho damn

well i guess there is some nuance
in general women are more likely to confide in their friends or consult a therapist
i think that can tie into loneliness a bit tho

i think when men are depressed or lonely they take their anger out on others while women take it out on themselves.

i see what u mean here
men are more likely to be abusers
women do attempt suicide more they are just cowards lol
okay maybe u are right here

That isn’t true chudlite

im sorry rand
i always hatepost on here bc im depressed but a lot of it is projecting tbh

 

[Methodical]

The problem with comparing the two experiences is that both sexes experience life completely differently from each other. Trying to explain why they're similar or why someone has it "easier" is a waste of time. We should just accept that both genders have different issues, and they're BOTH hard and valid. "Easier" is subjective anyways.

Women do not care about sex the way men do. Period. Even women who love sex don't love it the way most men would. Men trying to argue about why women having more "smv" makes their life "easier" is genuinely so retarded and a waste of time. It's like telling men they have it easy making money because they can slave away doing a blue collar job for endless amount of hours. It's such a fucking worthless metric because no man WANTS to do blue collar work 12-16hrs a day just to earn more money, in the same way women don't WANT to sludge through horny ass Snapchat messages for months to find a relationship. It doesn't matter if it's "easier" for a man to do blue collar work.

With that being said, I would NOT say men and women have it "equally" as hard as finding a relationship or anything. Men are more adaptive to a lot of relationship dynamics than women are sometimes, and the time women aren't picky per se is usaully when it involes abuse and requires the woman to restructure her understanding of how relationship dynamics work - not because it's "naturally" ingrained in that way.

Women take on most of the risk associated with dating so they get to be more picky. Whether that upsets people doesn't change that fact.

In my opinion having a daily argument about why it's not fair or why the other side should respect their perspective is silly because neither site will fully understand the other's struggle - and they don't need to! They just need to focus on improving their own chances instead of getting upset people have different struggles than them.

 

[rand anon]

im sorry rand
i always hatepost on here bc im depressed but a lot of it is projecting tbh

Awhwhw no no don’t be that’s both of us

 

[chudlite67]

Awhwhw no no don’t be that’s both of us

Awe okay

 

[may2002]

i always hatepost on here bc im depressed but a lot of it is projecting tbh

real honestly