women… (ending)

[DonJuanDeMarco]

I got played…

Played games w her for 20 hrs, drew s heart in game, texted for weeks.. Fell asleep on the phone w her, all meant nothing to her.

Shes posted up on her story having fun with some other guy…

:’(

 

[slopslinger]

fr it's shit like this that makes me keep coming back here

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

fr it's shit like this that makes me keep coming back here

Genuinely think I’m cursed when it comes to women..

heading to the club rn idk just need to take my mind off this shit

 

[NARCISSlST]

itz almost like she wuz neva ur gf wow
stop crying bih ass n***a
be more forward next time

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

itz almost like she wuz neva ur gf wow
stop crying bih ass n***a
be more forward next time

Yeaa u right ngl

Idk it just hurts cuz I wasted so much time.
I asked to meet her like 1-2 weeks in talking w her.

 

[NARCISSlST]

Yeaa u right ngl

Idk it just hurts cuz I wasted so much time.
I asked to meet her like 1-2 weeks talking w her.

wut did she say wen u asked?

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

wut did she say wen u asked?

She was like “its too early, I don’t rlly know u”

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

I got played…

Played games w her for 20 hrs, texted for week. Fell asleep on the phone w her, all meant nothing to her.

Shes posted up on her story having fun with some other guy…

:’(

Brutal bro fuark

Shoulda kept your options open and fucked around with both

 

[NARCISSlST]

She was like “its too early, I don’t rlly know u”

yuh so basically wat day mean is dat
u not good looking enough to instantly get a date
it is harder online to gauge if someone is a creep because ur not seeing body language, tonality and many other things that we judge humans on
but people will forgo these things if ur attractive/rich enough

 

[mxri]

She’s a hoe worth “fumbling”

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

damn

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

Brutal bro fuark

Shoulda kept your options open and fucked around with both

Ngl options r still open I can still go for the other girl but idk…

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

Ngl options r still open I can still go for the other girl but idk…

You’ve got nothing to lose

Committing to someone you aren’t even dating in this day and age is a recipe for disaster

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

You’ve got nothing to lose

Committing to someone you aren’t even dating in this day and age is a recipe for disaster

Wasn’t rlly commiting to her ngl I cold approached a girl today. But idk just hurt seeing her story w a whole diff guy. Like It just hit me I wasted so much time

 

[NARCISSlST]

iv yous a n***a an u don’t got bbc aura
wats da point

 

[swanneo]

imo block her or silence her so u won't think much about her and move on to better things

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

Wasn’t rlly commiting to her ngl I cold approached a girl today. But idk just hurt seeing her story w a whole diff guy. Like It just hit me I wasted so much time

Damn man

She’s worth fumbling tbh, I hate ppl that will waste your time like that

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

Committing to someone you aren’t even dating in this day and age is a recipe for disaster

Problem with that is people are not always morally in debt, like this guy pushed himself to believe what they had was a possibility.

He had a situation of one sided shit, and the problem is it's not his fault. It's a recipe for disaster but are you really going to live a life of rushing a label because that won't cause 'disaster'? no there is no point other then status, there is no building. That is just cope.

Nothing would've fixed this, the fix is moving on and understanding that what happened was just something that does. It's not his character but hers.

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

iv yous a n***a an u don’t got bbc aura
wats da point

How am I supposed to show aura thru the screen my guy

 

[Imognobody]

I got played…

Played games w her for 20 hrs, texted for week. Fell asleep on the phone w her, all meant nothing to her.

Shes posted up on her story having fun with some other guy…

:’(

Want me to slay her make her regret things then make her fall into deepresion? I would catfish her with photos of models

 

[NARCISSlST]

How am I supposed to show aura thru the screen my guy

post stories doin cool shit and w bitches and hot ppl

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

post stories doin cool shit and w bitches and hot ppl

I dont have many friends

 

[NARCISSlST]

I dont have many friends

den like sc other ppls stories and pretend itz u

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

den like sc other ppls stories and pretend itz u

U just made me laugh out loud lmao. Needed it.

im prob tripping cuz ive been feeling rlly down for a while and this girl got me feeling better. Its a trap ik. Im gonna come back from this. Thanks guys !

 

[NARCISSlST]

U just made me laugh out loud lmao. Needed it.

im prob tripping cuz ive been feeling rlly down for a while and this girl got me feeling better. Its a trap ik. Im gonna come back from this. Thanks guys !

yuh like the girl prolly wuznt makin u feel better

itz more like da delusion that she’s gonna be loyal to u and ur gonna live happily ever after
it gives u a dopamine rush
if u really wanna achieve happiness self improvement/destruction is the first step

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

Problem with that is people are not always morally in debt, like this guy pushed himself to believe what they had was a possibility.

He had a situation of one sided shit, and the problem is it's not his fault. It's a recipe for disaster but are you really going to live a life of rushing a label because that won't cause 'disaster'? no there is no point other then status, there is no building. That is just cope.

Nothing would've fixed this, the fix is moving on and understanding that what happened was just something that does. It's not his character but hers.

I hear you. And honestly agree. I don’t blame the guy for hoping, that part is natural. My point was more about emotional investment.

Committing to someone emotionally without clarity or a mutual understanding will leave them wide open to pain is what I’m trying to say.

It’s not about rushing a title but more about protecting yourself by knowing where you both stand if that makes sense. Otherwise he’d be building a house on sand.

Moving on is the right option obviously but I don’t think the lesson should be “things happen”. He should use this as a lesson to spot unclear dynamics so he doesn’t end up in the same position again

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

You’ve got nothing to lose

Committing to someone you aren’t even dating in this day and age is a recipe for disaster

i think committing before dating is what its all about.

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

I hear you. And honestly agree. I don’t blame the guy for hoping, that part is natural. My point was more about emotional investment.

Committing to someone emotionally without clarity or a mutual understanding will leave them wide open to pain is what I’m trying to say.

It’s not about rushing a title but more about protecting yourself by knowing where you both stand if that makes sense. Otherwise he’d be building a house on sand.

Moving on is the right option obviously but I don’t think the lesson should be “things happen”. He should use this as a lesson to spot unclear dynamics so he doesn’t end up in the same position again

Sorry for the late response.

The problem is you're acting like clarity always exists to begin with. People don't always know what they want, and that doesn't make them villains i guess (in this case it was rude though)

He didn't commit blindly either, he believed what he saw yk? who wouldn't with this context. That's not poor boundaries, that's being human imo. Trying to forrce definition early just to avoid pain doesn't stop the hurting, it just add fucked pressure for both and can cause more issues. Somestimes it really is just a "thing that happens." Not every loss has a lesson, but you can make your own with other things.

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

Want me to slay her make her regret things then make her fall into deepresion? I would catfish her with photos of models

Nahh don’t have to do allat.
I’m just gonna take a break from it all and focus on myself

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

Sorry for the late response.

The problem is you're acting like clarity always exists to begin with. People don't always know what they want, and that doesn't make them villains i guess (in this case it was rude though)

He didn't commit blindly either, he believed what he saw yk? who wouldn't with this context. That's not poor boundaries, that's being human imo. Trying to forrce definition early just to avoid pain doesn't stop the hurting, it just add fucked pressure for both and can cause more issues. Somestimes it really is just a "thing that happens." Not every loss has a lesson, but you can make your own with other things.

Lol don’t apologise, sometimes I see long ass paragraphs and think “fuck that I’ll reply later” lmao

Anyways, I think we’re coming at this from different angles. There’s definitely value from staying open even if it risks hurt. I can respect that. I guess being this rigid about it won’t do much either so I might’ve been wrong about that.

 

[Imognobody]

Nahh don’t have to do allat.
I’m just gonna take a break from it all and focus on myself

She can also take a break from life for like forever?

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

Anyways, I think we’re coming at this from different angles. There’s definitely value from staying open even if it risks hurt. I can respect that. I guess being this rigid about it won’t do much either so I might’ve been wrong about that.

Honestly well put, valid, and fair. I respect your take too now that i look back at it, there is always gonna be real value in protecting yourself and being clever. On the terms of sides, there is no fully right or wrong here, just depends on the situation and the ppl in it.

 

[iflookscouldkill]

20 hours

But she was still playing games

 

[based god gigi]

I got played…

Played games w her for 20 hrs, texted for week. Fell asleep on the phone w her, all meant nothing to her.

Shes posted up on her story having fun with some other guy…

:’(

but at least you fall asleep on call with her

that other loser is probably cracking her rn but you really have her heart

 

[iflookscouldkill]

that other loser is probably cracking her rn but you really have her heart

 

[based god gigi]

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jokes bud jokes

 

[Methodical]

Fucked up people can waste someone's time like that. Brutal.

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

Fucked up people can waste someone's time like that. Brutal.

People are dopamine junkies, they think 'love' is something felt instantly. Then they get tired of the boring parts after the beginning and start falling off.

People are addicts nowadays.

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

20 hours

But she was still playing games

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she bought the game btw.. to play it with me..

Never talking to depressed women again…

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

she bought the game btw.. to play it with me..

Never talking to depressed women again…

What some people do to pass time is just depressing bro, sorry.

 

[CHAD.]

I got played…

Played games w her for 20 hrs, texted for week. Fell asleep on the phone w her, all meant nothing to her.

Shes posted up on her story having fun with some other guy…

 

[TonyDr]

She was like “its too early, I don’t rlly know u”

I think we already have that convo but when a girl hesitate to meet you, she isn't interested much, you aren't the numero uno. Women can meet & "spend time" with a dude quickier, far quicker than what most people think. In one week/ 2 weeks max the job is over

Makes sure to ghost her permanently and meet other women

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

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Another thing..

We drew a heart in that game together.

But tbh I feel like it was mostly the liquor having me all in my feels. (terrible combo)

I think we already have that convo but when a girl hesitate to meet you, she isn't interested much, you aren't the numero uno. Women can meet & "spend time" with a dude quickier, far quicker than what most people think. In one week/ 2 weeks max the j*b is over

Makes sure to ghost her permanently and meet other women

But yh I'm gonna meet other women and boss up.
Goated advice I always knew sum fishy was going on when she wasn't tryna meet.

Met some real mfs at the gym yesterday, haven't been there in a while. Gonna train w them today aswell.