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as a girl, I always thought about getting surgeries and what not. But as I grew older and actually stopped going for guys above my looks level I realized it’s actually very easy for an ugly fat girl to find love. You just have to stop looking for guys who aren’t your level.
Not saying my current bf isn’t attractive, he is to me. But I’m saying, you’re probably alone and what not because your standards are so high.
You don’t even have to date someone ridiculously ugly as a girl, even if you’re ugly you can still find someone better than you.
My bf is skinny, and has a cute face, nice hair. I’m literally obese BMI, and I’m fat and have cystic acne everywhere along with stretch marks.
I hate how women even try to get into spaces like this, it’s ridiculous and attention seeking. But whatever, I understand wanting to look your best but you can’t escape your genetics.
Sorry most of you won’t get actual Stacy treatment, but tbh even that’s not true. If you’re an average white girl, you’re fine. If you look close to white or you’re Asian, Latino, and what not… you’re fine. And even if you’re black, just be skinny and go for a black guy. Obviously you won’t have the best luck going for white males. Which is what most black girls in communities like this usually go for.
Just dress cute, try makeup, and have a nice haircut. Literally, and be nice too.
But whatever.
No woman will agree with what I’m saying anyways, because most of you are under a spell. It’s called Chad sexuality spell, you’ve been brainwashed as a kid to think that things should come to you. That you’re better than everyone else, if a man isn’t at your level or above than he’s invisible. Which is biologically true and there’s nothing wrong with wanting the best genes you can get.
And when I say Chad I don’t mean 6’5 blue eyes, I know women aren’t that deluded. When I say Chad I mean a guy that is better than you. Usually men are more attractive than their partner.
Anyways yeah. You don’t even need to be on here, but I understand why you want to be. I want to lose weight and look cute for my bf. It’s understandable.
Not saying my current bf isn’t attractive, he is to me. But I’m saying, you’re probably alone and what not because your standards are so high.
You don’t even have to date someone ridiculously ugly as a girl, even if you’re ugly you can still find someone better than you.
My bf is skinny, and has a cute face, nice hair. I’m literally obese BMI, and I’m fat and have cystic acne everywhere along with stretch marks.
I hate how women even try to get into spaces like this, it’s ridiculous and attention seeking. But whatever, I understand wanting to look your best but you can’t escape your genetics.
Sorry most of you won’t get actual Stacy treatment, but tbh even that’s not true. If you’re an average white girl, you’re fine. If you look close to white or you’re Asian, Latino, and what not… you’re fine. And even if you’re black, just be skinny and go for a black guy. Obviously you won’t have the best luck going for white males. Which is what most black girls in communities like this usually go for.
Just dress cute, try makeup, and have a nice haircut. Literally, and be nice too.
But whatever.
No woman will agree with what I’m saying anyways, because most of you are under a spell. It’s called Chad sexuality spell, you’ve been brainwashed as a kid to think that things should come to you. That you’re better than everyone else, if a man isn’t at your level or above than he’s invisible. Which is biologically true and there’s nothing wrong with wanting the best genes you can get.
And when I say Chad I don’t mean 6’5 blue eyes, I know women aren’t that deluded. When I say Chad I mean a guy that is better than you. Usually men are more attractive than their partner.
Anyways yeah. You don’t even need to be on here, but I understand why you want to be. I want to lose weight and look cute for my bf. It’s understandable.
