-Height
-Looks
-Being a bad boy
-Preselection
-Status
-Wealth
-Social Proof
-Competence
-Confidence
-Physique
-Ambition
-Emotional control
I'm a man but since the forum is dead and you've tagged zero girls, i'll give my opinion on it based from my experience :
1/ Height matters first. You can be the best guy outhere if you're the same size or smaller than her, it's over.
2/ Looks. You need a bare minimum facecard who will don't repulse her
3/ Confidence, Ambition, Emotional Control & Social proof : Because at some point you'll need to talk to her and create emotional intimacy with her, to go further. Also, being able to control your emotions is important, being calm and not crashing out for nothing. You can still cry, she'll comfort you (if she really loves you)
4/ Physique. Women want a lean, athletic guy with a positive shoulders to waist ratio, the amount of muscle doesn't matters, but being on roids for girls is very niche, near counter-productive
5/ Wealth. Yeah having a betabuxxing potential is important for women, at least for the LTR. Not being rich, but having a job, maybe an appartment, being financially responsible, frugality etc.
(I don't talk about the gold diggers calling men broke for not spending 2k on the 1st date)
6/ Competence. Yeah you need to be skilled with your brain and your hands, being able to handle a shitty situation, resolving it etc. That's also why a lot of young blue collar men are getting laid.
7/ Pre-selection. Yeah... even if women are possessive freaks, a lot of them prefer a man who had experience with women in the past. For sex, but also for dating codes, traditions, and housework, commitment. They rarely find virgins attractive unless they are themselves young & inexperienced.
8/ Status & Being a badboy. The last of the list tbf. Women searching for a badboy are immature so not worth the headache, and status... once school is over, and you start working, nobody give a fuck if you're popular or not. Sure being a lawyer, a doctor is status, but the women who chase only men with status are not worth the hassle.. if you want to live a simple life ofc
” n***a if you stepped outside you’d see how life isn’t black and white like that.
