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Serious Would yall beat ur kids

Mess said:
I wasn't beat as a kid, I will never beat my kid
No reason is valid except if they're actively hurting someone
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My definite boundary is crime. I feel like I'd beat my kid if they were to commit a crime like stealing or trashing shit.

Some parents overdo it though. I was beat as a kid but prolly not enough
 
People who say never have never been around toddlers&kids

It depends on the child really, with some kids the only way to command respect is by scolding them
 
notsocommonthumb said:
n***a beating and scolding is different
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I mean no normal (again normal) person will really "beat" their kid, it's just some light hits on the hand or other soft ways plus some scolding so not much difference


Spanking is the way of slayers though
 
Ramezu said:
I mean no normal (again normal) person will really "beat" their kid, it's just some light hits on the hand or other soft ways plus some scolding so not much difference


Spanking is the way of slayers though
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cope, its not the physical aspect thats harmful its the neglect
 
Spanking yeah. Not beat or abuse. They do something awful and they haven't learned IMA spank with a paddle like i did as a kid. Literally forced me to not do it again. Maybe not though. Might be a take everything away type parent. That also works.
 
I was beat as a kid but not crazy. My parents kinda realized beating me wouldn't stop me from doing bad things tho

Im not sure if I'd beat my kid. If they turn out like me in as a child then for sure I would
 
The cat from The Matrix said:
I was beat as a kid but not crazy. My parents kinda realized beating me wouldn't stop me from doing bad things tho

Im not sure if I'd beat my kid. If they turn out like me in as a child then for sure I would
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My mom stopped having the anger to beat me when my dad left. Also cps helped as well lol
 
prob not
maybe just light slaps, my mom would slap me whenever I'd accidentally scratch furniture
 
g4rl1c said:
To me it depends on the child MAYBE.

Were you beat as a kid?
Would you let someone else beat ur kid?

@James Othy
@The cat from The Matrix
@ratedLTN2
@neymar
@Chifuyu

Idk I just @ed random ppl
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Yes I would. But only if he does something that merits it like stealing or gross disrespect. Not just because I'm irritated with him. I would only allow my wife or any of his four grandparents to beat him.

I was beaten as a kid and I can say for certain that if I hadn't been I'd either be on death row or serving life without parole now.
 
Ramezu said:
I mean no normal (again normal) person will really "beat" their kid, it's just some light hits on the hand or other soft ways plus some scolding so not much difference


Spanking is the way of slayers though
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The thing with that is not every kid is the same. My kid don't give a damn about scolding. He's just like I was when I was a kid. I remember when I was 3 and my parents first started trying to beat me. They tried the light hits at first, and I would defiantly tell them "That didn't hurt!" after each hit. Then they had to start making it hurt.

It doesn't matter if we're in public or not. My kid will scream back at us if we try scolding him. He's only 3 so we aren't going to beat him for that sort of thing. There are other things though that merit it, even at his age. For example, the other day my wife took his device away and he screamed for about 5 minutes before sneaking up behind her and punching her in the ear as hard as he could.
 
Aly said:
better ways of discipline other than forcing trauma
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That's very naive. Not all kids are the same and for them pain is the only form of discipline they care about. Not all kids will just sit there in time out just because you tell them to. My kid would scream "no" and throw a coffee mug at your face if you tried to scold him or tell him he "Can't get up for 5 minutes" or whatever. He's done it too many times before.

"Trauma" is just a Western fairytale. People in the West are conditioned to think they have it but it doesn't exist. When someone tells me they have "trauma" I think to myself, "n***a please. You're drowning in a foot of water. Stand the fuck up."

I've worked as a teacher with thousands of kids in developing countries where beatings are a way of life. It's funny because teenagers there have way less anxiety than kids who grew up in the West. They're way less confused about who they are and what they want.

In the West people have been brainwashed into believing that the bad things that have happened to them have a lifelong inhibiting effect. It's bullshit. Just to get people to spend money on pharmaceuticals and "therapy", lol.
 
James Othy said:
That's very naive. Not all kids are the same and for them pain is the only form of discipline they care about. Not all kids will just sit there in time out just because you tell them to. My kid would scream "no" and throw a coffee mug at your face if you tried to scold him or tell him he "Can't get up for 5 minutes" or whatever. He's done it too many times before.

"Trauma" is just a Western fairytale. People in the West are conditioned to think they have it but it doesn't exist. When someone tells me they have "trauma" I think to myself, "n***a please. You're drowning in a foot of water. Stand the fuck up."

I've worked as a teacher with thousands of kids in developing countries where beatings are a way of life. It's funny because teenagers there have way less anxiety than kids who grew up in the West. They're way less confused about who they are and what they want.

In the West people have been brainwashed into believing that the bad things that have happened to them have a lifelong inhibiting effect. It's bullshit. Just to get people to spend money on pharmaceuticals and "therapy", lol.
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look i can agree with you on some levels but i've met so many people who grew up and are still growing up with literal violence. Beating is physical abuse and that will end up psychologically damaging you on many levels making you struggle in relationships and day to day life if you develop ptsd from it. I was a dumbass toddler who never listened to my mum and went around screaming, touching ovens, smashing things so I did get my ass whopped and eventually i learnt better. However most of my friends who did grow out of that phase still got beaten because nothing in their parents eyes could never be good enough. I've literally had to help them overcome most of their traumas and building trust with them took a long time. That's not how any child should have to be conditioned. I understand it can be a good practise and it is the norm in most cultures but honestly after repeated abuse it just breaks you.
 
Aly said:
look i can agree with you on some levels but i've met so many people who grew up and are still growing up with literal violence. Beating is physical abuse and that will end up psychologically damaging you on many levels making you struggle in relationships and day to day life if you develop ptsd from it. I was a dumbass toddler who never listened to my mum and went around screaming, touching ovens, smashing things so I did get my ass whopped and eventually i learnt better. However most of my friends who did grow out of that phase still got beaten because nothing in their parents eyes could never be good enough. I've literally had to help them overcome most of their traumas and building trust with them took a long time. That's not how any child should have to be conditioned. I understand it can be a good practise and it is the norm in most cultures but honestly after repeated abuse it just breaks you.
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It's because of the conditioning that I mentioned. These people that you "helped" are just bored because they have no real problems. They live in a country that feeds into that bullshit. I guarantee they need to be "helped" all over again from every person they meet. If people stopped listening to their "trauma" stories and giving them attention for it I guarantee they'd snap right out of it.

I was beat as a kid. Sometimes the situation merited it and sometimes it didn't. One time when I was about 12 my father beat me with a belt so bad I had welts all over my ass and legs. The reason he did it was because I said something trivial that embarrassed my mother at Christmas dinner with his parents. I can't even remember what it was I said but I know I didn't do it on purpose. And sometimes the beatings weren't with a belt. I've been punched/slapped in the face, kicked, thrown into walls, and even dragged from my bed by my hair all the way down the stairs and thrown out the front door. On top of that I grew up with a mother that played constant emotional games with me and my father. She could never love anybody but herself. This has never effected me with relationships or anything else. I did have to learn what was normal when I began dating but after my first girlfriend I immediately worked out the kinks.

It's all bullshit. It only exists in countries where people pander to it and constantly tell people things like, "Oh my gosh! That's so fucked up. I couldn't imagine......."
 
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