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Would you break up if your boyfriend loses a fight in front of you?

LASACRKO said:
Tbh if my gf lost a fight I’d leave that bitch too
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I'm genuinely fucking caging hard at this :kekw: :kekw:


tuberculosisinmybal said:
Like your boyfriend is 5'8 and some 6'2 tyrone triea to hit on you and then somehow they start fighting & beats his ass would you break up because he lost the fight?
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I think the looks alone would be enough for the rotten-bitch to leave me
 
LASACRKO said:
Tbh if my gf lost a fight I’d leave that bitch too

Imagine some cat fight and the other bitch rips her hair off I wouldn’t wanna be seen with someone who gets humiliated like that good riddance
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I would beat up that bitch with her together tbh
 
tuberculosisinmybal said:
Like your boyfriend is 5'8 and some 6'2 tyrone triea to hit on you and then somehow they start fighting & beats his ass would you break up because he lost the fight?
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what are these situations lol i wouldn't poor guy but also 5'8 is too short to being with
 
Spuffy said:
Could you explain how? I'm curious

I'm not agreeing or disagreeing with anybody
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Long dnr post incoming because I took some time to formulate my reasoning

The more correct position would be "then she's not secure in her views on gender roles" but that was too wordy to say. Healthy views on gender roles can be anywhere from highly compartmentalized (think traditional roles) to somewhat grey. Some people think the compartmentalization itself is unhealthy, which isn't necessarily true. For example, the belief that men are the emotionally stronger gender isn't an unhealthy belief on its own and is generally seen as true (women on the other hand play nice and are more emotionally in tune with other people's feelings. i'm not talking about individual anomalies, I'm saying for the most part this applies). Imo it becomes unhealthy when the compartmentalization stretches the concept of that gender beyond what is naturally feasible, by dehumanizing that gender and turning it into an inflexible caricature of itself. For example, instead of just stating that men are the emotionally stronger gender, its asserting that men must always be emotionally strong, and that women must always play nice and compromise. Then the moment a man cries or a woman raises her voice/gets angry, the image is broken.

So when I imagine the scenario of a woman leaving her bf because he lost a fight (not because he got into a fight in the first place and that was the last straw because she's sick of his anger and brazenness, or some other thing. Specifically because he lost), I imagine her to have had a very specific idea of masculinity and femininity. One where femininity must at all times be protected and where masculinity means they must at all times be the protector. Which simply is infeasible because every human on the planet need to shit eat sleep and have some level of dynamic agency and they aren't just some static role in someone else's book, and because sometimes, people just lose. And one single scenario should not be enough to overthrow the identity you constructed about him in your mind. If the identity is stable it should typically fall back into equilibrium.

So basically yeah, if your bf losing a fight is enough for you to leave him (assuming everything else in the relationship was going good) then your concept of fem/masc is pretty unstable and your security in gender roles suck. If we were to reverse the gender roles, and a man left his gf because his gf got into a fight with another woman and won, i'd argue that he's insecure in his masculinity, because there's a probable chance that he felt that she was too capable in being a "protector" and he wanted someone he would feel like he could take care of. That's just my feelings on this
 
sjnny404 said:
Long dnr post incoming because I took some time to formulate my reasoning

The more correct position would be "then she's not secure in her views on gender roles" but that was too wordy to say. Healthy views on gender roles can be anywhere from highly compartmentalized (think traditional roles) to somewhat grey. Some people think the compartmentalization itself is unhealthy, which isn't necessarily true. For example, the belief that men are the emotionally stronger gender isn't an unhealthy belief on its own and is generally seen as true (women on the other hand play nice and are more emotionally in tune with other people's feelings. i'm not talking about individual anomalies, I'm saying for the most part this applies). Imo it becomes unhealthy when the compartmentalization stretches the concept of that gender beyond what is naturally feasible, by dehumanizing that gender and turning it into an inflexible caricature of itself. For example, instead of just stating that men are the emotionally stronger gender, its asserting that men must always be emotionally strong, and that women must always play nice and compromise. Then the moment a man cries or a woman raises her voice/gets angry, the image is broken.

So when I imagine the scenario of a woman leaving her bf because he lost a fight (not because he got into a fight in the first place and that was the last straw because she's sick of his anger and brazenness, or some other thing. Specifically because he lost), I imagine her to have had a very specific idea of masculinity and femininity. One where femininity must at all times be protected and where masculinity means they must at all times be the protector. Which simply is infeasible because every human on the planet need to shit eat sleep and have some level of dynamic agency and they aren't just some static role in someone else's book, and because sometimes, people just lose. And one single scenario should not be enough to overthrow the identity you constructed about him in your mind. If the identity is stable it should typically fall back into equilibrium.

So basically yeah, if your bf losing a fight is enough for you to leave him (assuming everything else in the relationship was going good) then your concept of fem/masc is pretty unstable and your security in gender roles suck. If we were to reverse the gender roles, and a man left his gf because his gf got into a fight with another woman and won, i'd argue that he's insecure in his masculinity, because there's a probable chance that he felt that she was too capable in being a "protector" and he wanted someone he would feel like he could take care of. That's just my feelings on this
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Agree tbh, I read all of it too lazy to write a long reply but if everything was good and just that happened the GF is in the wrong imo
 
It’s only fair to say yes, because as a man, it’s your job to protect. Sounds cliché, but it’s true. What’s worse though, and I’ve seen this in real life, is a man who doesn’t even try to fight. Losing is one thing, no one wins every fight, but not even having the courage to stand up, even when you know you might lose? That alone is enough reason to kick someone like that out of the house.
 
Incognito said:
It’s only fair to say yes, because as a man, it’s your j*b to protect. Sounds cliché, but it’s true. What’s worse though, and I’ve seen this in real life, is a man who doesn’t even try to fight. Losing is one thing, no one wins every fight, but not even having the courage to stand up, even when you know you might lose? That alone is enough reason to kick someone like that out of the house.
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Definitely, if he doesn't do anything then it's totally understandable, but like if he knows he got no chance and still tries to stand up for his girl even though he knows he could lose it's still not a reason to leave imo
 
tuberculosisinmybal said:
Definitely, if he doesn't do anything then it's totally understandable, but like if he knows he got no chance and still tries to stand up for his girl even though he knows he could lose it's still not a reason to leave imo
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Yeah, if he fights like a lion, that’s what matters. But if he keeps getting beaten badly or loses almost every fight, then he’s a liability. A man like that can’t be relied on to protect a woman.
 
Incognito said:
Yeah, if he fights like a lion, that’s what matters. But if he keeps getting beaten badly or loses almost every fight, then he’s a liability. A man like that can’t be relied on to protect a woman.
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It doesnt even say something about his physical prowess at that point, a strong/intelligent man will know which battles to pick and fight, someone who keeps fighting losing battles would be questionable to be with (unless its a scenario where the bf is constantly backed into a corner and has no choice but to fight then it should be looked at with a lot more nuance based on the context)

Ik andrew tate is a bit of a controversal figure and i think some of his takes are pretty dumb and sometimes he's just full of himself, but he did make some decent arguments. I remember one story he talked about which went something like this: he was waiting in line with his girl when two guys showed up and cut in line. His girl started complaining about it and he told her to be quiet. Another couple was in the line too, and that 2nd girl started complaining/dissing loudly to the two guys, and her bf didn't stop her. One of the guys went up to her and smacked her in the jaw and knocked her out. Tate's a pretty decent fighter and he knew the two guys were fucking trouble the moment he saw them and protected himself and his girl the least bit of conflict. So yeah. You don't have to be the strongest person out there but you better have half a brain cell and not put yourself into trouble just to prove a point
 
sjnny404 said:
It doesnt even say something about his physical prowess at that point, a strong/intelligent man will know which battles to pick and fight, someone who keeps fighting losing battles would be questionable to be with (unless its a scenario where the bf is constantly backed into a corner and has no choice but to fight then it should be looked at with a lot more nuance based on the context)

Ik andrew tate is a bit of a controversal figure and i think some of his takes are pretty dumb and sometimes he's just full of himself, but he did make some decent arguments. I remember one story he talked about which went something like this: he was waiting in line with his girl when two guys showed up and cut in line. His girl started complaining about it and he told her to be quiet. Another couple was in the line too, and that 2nd girl started complaining/dissing loudly to the two guys, and her bf didn't stop her. One of the guys went up to her and smacked her in the jaw and knocked her out. Tate's a pretty decent fighter and he knew the two guys were fucking trouble the moment he saw them and protected himself and his girl the least bit of conflict. So yeah. You don't have to be the strongest person out there but you better have half a brain cell and not put yourself into trouble just to prove a point
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I completely agree with you. I did Muay Thai for a few years, and one of the first things we were taught was that the best strategy in any fight is to avoid it. De-escalation should always come first, fighting should be the absolute last resort. Especially on the street, there are no rules, you could be up against multiple people, and it can turn deadly fast. But what I’ve also learned is that if a fight becomes unavoidable, you have to stand your ground and give it everything you’ve got. Backing down in that moment, in my eyes, strips you of something essential as a man.
 
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tuberculosisinmybal said:
Like your boyfriend is 5'8 and some 6'2 tyrone triea to hit on you and then somehow they start fighting & beats his ass would you break up because he lost the fight?
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I’m 5’8”, and I’ve caused so many breakups and stuffs just by whooping the guy in front of his girl.
Btw I’m k1 kickboxing national champion.
 
LASACRKO said:
Tbh if my gf lost a fight I’d leave that bitch too

Imagine some cat fight and the other bitch rips her hair off I wouldn’t wanna be seen with someone who gets humiliated like that good riddance
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Low t
 
LASACRKO said:
Tbh if my gf lost a fight I’d leave that bitch too

Imagine some cat fight and the other bitch rips her hair off I wouldn’t wanna be seen with someone who gets humiliated like that good riddance
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just stop the fight you moron
 
Nex189 said:
I’m 5’8”, and I’ve caused so many breakups and stuffs just by whooping the guy in front of his girl.
Btw I’m k1 kickboxing national champion.
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why would you do that? did you want the girl or something
 
Craven said:
Timmy tuff knuckles tales
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I’m being honest, if u don’t believe u can dm. Tbh cba to prove myself to some random cuck who joined this forum at 2025 lmao.
 
Spuffy said:
why would you do that? did you want the girl or something
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They probably took their girlfriends to watch their kickboxing bout. Brutal.
 
Decay said:
Do you have a favourite fighter?
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he blew up recently, but payton talbott was my fav for a while and his vibes are just really cool and different. i love sean strickland and tatsuro taira too. also chris barnett but just because of his vibes
 
Spuffy said:
he blew up recently, but payton talbott was my fav for a while and his vibes are just really cool and different. i love sean strickland and tatsuro taira too. also chris barnett but just because of his vibes
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Excellent taste. Sean Strickland is probably my favourite out of those 4, i like Chris Barnett and Payton Talbott too though, he's pretty unique. My Favourite fighter would probably be Petr Yan.
 
Decay said:
Excellent taste. Sean Strickland is probably my favourite out of those 4, i like Chris Barnett and Payton Talbott too though, he's pretty unique. My Favourite fighter would probably be Petr Yan.
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yah petr yan is friggin awesome. good taste as well
 
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