Would you date someone that has been in a relationship/situationship before?

[ruk]

Specifically, a person that has been in 2+ relationships or has had multiple serious talking stages; but 1 is bad as well.

I just can’t see myself doing it I can’t lie. Long-term, casual, or not, it’s all the same

Just imagine, your gf/bf thought they were genuinely in love with that person—that they were meant to be. Marriage, buying a home, kids, anniversaries, and all that.

They said goodnight to each other daily, slept in the same bed, texted daily, held hands, told each other their secret, went on dates, and much more disgusting romantic shit.

I don’t even want to talk about sex, making out, and other things adjacent. It truly makes me sick ngl.

Imagine your partner doing all of these things with another girl(s)/boy(s) before you… Are you supposed to just go on about your relationship knowing that?

Am I supposed to ignore their “I love you’s” or goodmorning kisses being reused, valueless affection? That their secrets are not only safe with me, but their past lover(s)? That their naked body, the most vulnerable state of a human, has been seen by another? Should I just let that go? I don’t know how you could, honestly

This is another one of the many reasons I avoid dating. This paranoia and disgust would likely ruin relationships. I’m not ready for that

SchizoRambles

 

[Deleted member 58641]

if theyve not taken dick idgaf

 

[Deleted Member 56337]

No khhv only jfl

 

[Whitepill]

i've been in the second one so yeah i'd date someone who did the same

 

[ruk]

if theyve not taken dick idgaf

Maybe I’m just looking too much into it.

Just can’t imagine not being the first everything; kiss, date, to meet the parents, etc. Makes me wanna puke

 

[ruk]

No khhv only jfl

You understand

 

[N30N]

if theyve not taken dick idgaf

Basically the way I see it. Ideally I'd rather she's never been in any relationship, but as long as she's past it and a virgin, idc.

 

[N30N]

Maybe I’m just looking too much into it.

Just can’t imagine not being the first everything; kiss, date, to meet the parents, etc. Makes me wanna puke

Ideally.

 

[ruk]

Basically the way I see it. Ideally I'd rather she's never been in any relationship, but as long as she's past it and a virgin, idc.

over for relationship-less and KHHVbrah

 

[Deleted member 57571]

if I mog the previous person idc otherwise Im kms
so basically Im 100% kms

 

[ruk]

if I mog the previous person idc otherwise Im kms
so basically Im 100% kms

wouldn’t that be worse if an ugly person took all chances of being the first _ with your partner?

 

[N30N]

wouldn’t that be worse if an ugly person took all chances of being the first _ with your partner?

But she wouldn't think twice if you mog

 

[ruk]

But she wouldn't think twice if you mog

I would lmao

that’s like watching a dude who can’t dress get the last pair of shoes you wanted

would rather have someone with a fashion sense get it than some bum

 

[N30N]

I would lmao

that’s like watching a dude who can’t dress get the last pair of shoes you wanted

would rather have someone with a fashion sense get it than some bum

Fair point

 

[Deleted member 57571]

wouldn’t that be worse if an ugly person took all chances of being the first _ with your partner?

if theyre hotter than you then you’ll be the rebound they settle for while they still think abt their ex and how much hotter and better they were than you and then u can only cry yourself to sleep and get cheated on bc theyll never move on from ex if you're a cope downgrade (theoretically)

 

[ruk]

if theyre hotter than you then you’ll be the rebound they settle for while they still think abt their ex and how much hotter and better they were than you and then u can only cry yourself to sleep and get cheated on bc theyll never move on from ex if you're a cope downgrade (theoretically)

lose/lose situation then

 

[Deleted member 57571]

lose/lose situation then

idk tbh Im schizo maybe

 

[ruk]

idk tbh Im schizo maybe

no everything you’re saying is correct

relationships should be avoided… at all costs…

 

[Deleted Member 59374]

no

 

[Deleted member 57571]

no everything you’re saying is correct

relationships should be avoided… at all costs…

 

[ruk]

no

aren’t you the guy who made a thread talking about missing your ex who moved on to another?

 

[Deleted Member 59374]

aren’t you the guy who made a thread talking about missing your ex who moved on to another?

yes

 

[ey88]

Obviously

 

[Deleted Member 59374]

Obviously

chad

 

[ruk]

Obviously

interesting..

just remember the stacy you’re with was romantically making out with 3 chads after a date night before you…

 

[ey88]

interesting..

just remember the stacy you’re with was romantically making out with 3 chads after a date night before you…

I’m better than them

 

[ruk]

I’m better than them

chad was still all up in her mouth though

 

[Sexysmokerboy]

Specifically, a person that has been in 2+ relationships or has had multiple serious talking stages; but 1 is bad as well.

I just can’t see myself doing it I can’t lie. Long-term, casual, or not, it’s all the same

Just imagine, your gf/bf thought they were genuinely in love with that person—that they were meant to be. Marriage, buying a home, kids, anniversaries, and all that.

They said goodnight to each other daily, slept in the same bed, texted daily, held hands, told each other their secret, went on dates, and much more disgusting romantic shit.

I don’t even want to talk about sex, making out, and other things adjacent. It truly makes me sick ngl.

Imagine your partner doing all of these things with another girl(s)/boy(s) before you… Are you supposed to just go on about your relationship knowing that?

Am I supposed to ignore their “I love you’s” or goodmorning kisses being reused, valueless affection? That their secrets are not only safe with me, but their past lover(s)? That their naked body, the most vulnerable state of a human, has been seen by another? Should I just let that go? I don’t know how you could, honestly

This is another one of the many reasons I avoid dating. This paranoia and disgust would likely ruin relationships. I’m not ready for that

SchizoRambles

As long as it’s been 5 years since they’ve said anything to each other and he pretends like she never existed, then I won’t ask for the details

 

[gymcel88.]

Specifically, a person that has been in 2+ relationships or has had multiple serious talking stages; but 1 is bad as well.

I just can’t see myself doing it I can’t lie. Long-term, casual, or not, it’s all the same

Just imagine, your gf/bf thought they were genuinely in love with that person—that they were meant to be. Marriage, buying a home, kids, anniversaries, and all that.

They said goodnight to each other daily, slept in the same bed, texted daily, held hands, told each other their secret, went on dates, and much more disgusting romantic shit.

I don’t even want to talk about sex, making out, and other things adjacent. It truly makes me sick ngl.

Imagine your partner doing all of these things with another girl(s)/boy(s) before you… Are you supposed to just go on about your relationship knowing that?

Am I supposed to ignore their “I love you’s” or goodmorning kisses being reused, valueless affection? That their secrets are not only safe with me, but their past lover(s)? That their naked body, the most vulnerable state of a human, has been seen by another? Should I just let that go? I don’t know how you could, honestly

This is another one of the many reasons I avoid dating. This paranoia and disgust would likely ruin relationships. I’m not ready for that

SchizoRambles

i mean once u get to a certain age u will probably never find anyone who hasnt done at least some of that
people go through phases if theyre over them now idc

 

[DarkAscender]

I have never rlly met any girl that hasn't been in a relationship before. Unless she was religious or something. Some girls I spoke to were even surprised that I'm a virgin myself. And honestly I wouldn't care, unless she had a bunch of sexual partners.

 

[ruk]

I have never rlly met any girl that hasn't been in a relationship before. Unless she was religious or something. Some girls I spoke to were even surprised that I'm a virgin myself. And honestly I wouldn't care, unless she had a bunch of sexual partners.

So why is it that sexual encounters is the only thing that matters?

This is a common thing with all of you

 

[DarkAscender]

So why is it that sexual encounters is the only thing that matters?

This is a common thing with all of you

I meant as in I don’t mind a few sexual encounters. Obv less is better. But to a certain point, is where its too much. And I wouldn’t date someone like that