Poll WOULD YOU DATE THIS WOMAN? (Typical woman in a major Western city according to ChatGPT)

[Jova]

Summary​

Rachel is the quintessential mid-20s professional woman living in a major Western city. Despite her carefully curated image and packed social calendar, her efforts often feel unfruitful. Her obsession with networking events and maintaining appearances leaves her overworked, underwhelmed, and still searching for the Chadlite man she idealizes. While her life appears polished on Instagram, her romantic frustrations and inability to form deep connections highlight the hollowness of her meticulously planned lifestyle.

Category	Details
Age	26
Location	Lives in Manhattan, New York City (Lower East Side or Williamsburg, trendy but not ultra-luxury).
Ethnicity	White (Anglo, Western European or Ashkenazi Jewish).
Family & Independence
Parents	Upper-middle-class suburban family from Westchester, NY. Parents occasionally help with rent or vacations.
Moved Out	Left home at 22 right after college for her first NYC job. Initially lived with roommates; moved into her own 1-bedroom at 25.
Education
Degree	Bachelor’s in Communications, Public Relations, or Marketing from a private university (e.g., NYU or Boston University).
Academic Life	Was moderately active in student organizations and networking events but not academically exceptional.
Sorority	Yes—joined a mid-tier sorority in college. It boosted her social media following to 2,000–5,000 followers.
Social Circle
Core Friends	Maintains a tight-knit group of 6-8 close female friends, all of whom share her lifestyle. Often posts group brunch selfies.
Broader Network	Knows around 30+ acquaintances through networking events and former sorority sisters.
Instagram	16,500 followers. Carefully curated feed with travel pics, brunch flat lays, and “empowerment quotes.”
LinkedIn	Actively uses LinkedIn. Posts articles about women’s empowerment, her latest job milestones, and workplace productivity tips.
Career
Job	Marketing manager at a mid-sized fashion or lifestyle brand (e.g., skincare, boutique hotels). Well-paid but not groundbreaking.
Salary	$75,000–$85,000/year. Struggles to save due to her lifestyle but justifies every expense as “networking.”
Career Attitude	Career-oriented. Believes in work-life balance but spends free time at work-related events to “get ahead.”
Networking Obsession
Events Attended	Attends 2-3 events per week outside of work hours: business mixers, wine-and-paint nights, after-work climbing classes, and pottery workshops.
Goals	Secretly hoping to meet a high-value man but claims it’s for professional development. Feels frustrated when 90% of attendees are women.
Energy Level	Constantly exhausted but overcompensates with espresso martinis and green juice. Complains about not getting enough sleep due to her packed schedule.
Hobbies
Fitness	Boutique fitness classes (e.g., SoulCycle, Barry’s, hot yoga). Spends $400+ monthly on memberships and supplements.
Travel	Travels to Mykonos, Bali, or Italy 1–2 times a year. Posts heavily filtered pics with captions like, “Manifesting the life I deserve.”
Social Media	Instagram Stories feature curated workouts, matcha lattes, and “fun but sophisticated” nights out.
Music Taste	Playlist includes Sabrina Carpenter, Chappell Roan, Ariana Grande, Taylor Swift, Lizzo and Dua Lipa. Adds “indie” tracks such as Sufjan Stevens to seem cultured.
Pop Culture	Loves Emily in Paris, Sex and the City, and feminist podcasts like Call Her Daddy. Dabbles in TikTok trends.
Physical Description
Height	5’5” (166 cm). Averages out among her peers but always wears heels to add a few inches.
Build	Slim-athletic. Toned arms and legs, slightly visible abs. Works hard for a socially approved body.
Skin Tone	Neutral light olive. Uses high-end skincare like La Mer and chemical peels to maintain a radiant glow. Loves tanning.
Hair	Glossy, balayaged in caramel or honey tones. Always styled in loose waves or sleek ponytails. Salon visits every 6-8 weeks.
Face	Low HTB (Harmonious but forgettable, no striking features). Symmetrical features, subtle fillers, and a narrow nose.
Makeup	Heavy “natural” look. Charlotte Tilbury bronzer, glossy nude lips, and perfectly blended eyeshadow. Professionally-tinted and lifted lashes, microbladed brows.
Romantic Life
Dating Style	Serial dater.
Body Count	28 men. Initially intended for meaningful connections but increasingly casual due to ghosting and frustration.
Ideal Partner	Dreams of a Chadlite/Chad: an ambitious, high-value young professional man with a white-collar job who is also emotionally available.
Reality	Frequently ghosts or gets ghosted. Most matches who do respond are low HTN or MTN men from apps like Hinge or Bumble.
Attachment Style	Anxious-Preoccupied. She chases unavailable men, overanalyzing every interaction. Struggles to see her own patterns.
Lifestyle
Apartment	Rents a 1-bedroom in a trendy area. Gray sofa, white furniture, and rose gold accents. Constantly complains about rent prices.
Weekends	Brunches, boutique fitness, and wine bars. Fills downtime with Instagram scrolling or Netflix.
Finances	Living paycheck to paycheck but refuses to cut back on boutique fitness, skincare, or events.
Self-Perception
Self-Talk	“I’m independent and ambitious. I just haven’t found someone who matches my energy yet.”
Reality	Seen as polished but forgettable. Men view her as high-maintenance and emotionally draining without much payoff.

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[Jova]

@Whitepill @choripan @RainbowDash

 

[Jova]

@Axii

 

[Jova]

@Kaari @neymar

 

[Deleted member 49549]

No she looks like my sister

 

[salchipapa]

I can fix her

 

[Jova]

I can fix her

Why?

No she looks like my sister

Why not?

 

[salchipapa]

Why?

Because I can fix her

 

[Nihilus]

is this autism ?

 

[Deleted member 49549]

Why?

Why not?

Wym why not? Tf

 

[Jova]

is this autism ?

nope, it's the ChatGPT description of an average city girl

 

[Nihilus]

nope, it's the ChatGPT description of an average city girl

Then chat is autistic, needs raw milk asap

 

[Whitepill]

i dont like city girls + too many bodies and social media for my tastes

 

[Ceisriel]

she wouldn't date me.
not my type anyway....she looks like the girls that used to bully me in school. (pushing me in front of cars or spitting on me and saying shit like "this is probably the last time a girl will ever touch you")

they were somewhat right..... this thread is lowkey hatefuel, rapefuel for me.

 

[salchipapa]

she wouldn't date me.
not my type anyway....she looks like the girls that used to bully me in school. (pushing me in front of cars or spitting on me and saying shit like "this is probably the last time a girl will ever touch you")

they were somewhat right..... this thread is lowkey hatefuel, rapefuel for me.

They were tsunderes brah they wanted you bad

 

[Ceisriel]

They were tsunderes brah they wanted you bad

they almost killed me and broke my nerd glasses and sometimes even asked their boyfriends to beat me.

anime shit is not real, tsundere is just a stupid fucking fantasy.

 

[Deleted member 49549]

they almost killed me and broke my nerd glasses and sometimes even asked their boyfriends to beat me.

anime shit is not real, tsundere is just a stupid fucking fantasy.

Larp of doom

 

[Ceisriel]

Larp of doom

I was in class with my cousin, she can testify.... she was pretty much defending me all the time because she was taller and I was severly underweight.

Plus I have the scars on my chin and the back of my head

 

[salchipapa]

they almost killed me and broke my nerd glasses and sometimes even asked their boyfriends to beat me.

anime shit is not real, tsundere is just a stupid fucking fantasy.

They were extremely tsunderes

 

[Jova]

she wouldn't date me.
not my type anyway....she looks like the girls that used to bully me in school. (pushing me in front of cars or spitting on me and saying shit like "this is probably the last time a girl will ever touch you")

they were somewhat right..... this thread is lowkey hatefuel, rapefuel for me.

Why do you think she won't date you + why isn't she your type?

i dont like city girls + too many bodies and social media for my tastes

anything else?

 

[Ceisriel]

Why do you think she won't date you + why isn't she your type?

after becoming an adult I realized that girls like her are usually very interested in me for like a week or two because I look strange and out of norm, I don't act normal.... they might think I'm special or misterious only to then discover that I'm just a fucking autistic loser and very boring. So I'm speaking from experience.

this is me when I was like 19 or 20.... I was surrounded by curious girls at the time, landed nothing but whales because I'm seriously fucking retarded. Personality issue.

 

[Jova]

after becoming an adult I realized that girls like her are usually very interested in me for like a week or two because I look strange and out of norm, I don't act normal.... they might think I'm special or misterious only to then discover that I'm just a fucking autistic loser and very boring. So I'm speaking from experience.

So is your type aspies?

this is me when I was like 19 or 20.... I was surrounded by curious girls at the time, landed nothing but whales because I'm seriously fucking retarded. Personality issue.

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who is the foid in the pic?

 

[Ceisriel]

who is the foid in the pic?

one of the many girls that where into me in that period, had like a spur of popularity in that year... girls were literally fighting over some idiot like me only to realize later that I was in fact a fucking idiot. I had the chance to go thru my hoe phase but didn't.

So is your type aspies?

my type is a girl that looks like a loser, out of the norm, I have the fucking idiotic belief that If she is just as idiotic as me, the she will settle for me, but it ain't like that, cause of hypergamy and shit.

is she your type? the one in the first post?

 

[Jova]

one of the many girls that where into me in that period, had like a spur of popularity in that year... girls were literally fighting over some idiot like me only to realize later that I was in fact a fucking idiot. I had the chance to go thru my hoe phase but didn't.

and what would you rate yourself?

my type is a girl that looks like a loser, out of the norm, I have the fucking idiotic belief that If she is just as idiotic as me, the she will settle for me, but it ain't like that, cause of hypergamy and shit.

I love non NT women ngl
like wifey

is she your type? the one in the first post?

HELL NO

 

[Ceisriel]

That year, at that age, I was apparently a 9 out of 10—the dream boy for many girls, at least in terms of appearance. But it was the first time in my life that girls actually noticed me, and I had no clue how to act or what to do.


Now, I’m healthier, look younger, and have more muscle and physical strength than 99.9999% of men my age. Honestly, just not having a receding hairline already puts me in the top tier. Still, I’d rate myself a sub-5 now because those things don’t matter as much when you’re nearing 30.

Low-key, life-maxing is the real key—developing personality, having an interesting job, fascinating hobbies, plenty of friends, and all that good stuff.

 

[Ceisriel]

I love non NT women ngl
like wifey

dem, more competition for the quirky girls

 

[salchipapa]

dem, more competition for the quirky girls

Given your good face but short height i think dom goth/femcel could want you
Prepare ur ass tho

 

[Ceisriel]

Given your good face but short height i think dom goth/femcel could want you
Prepare ur ass tho

They don't, they do prefer shorter guys or artsy guys, and I'm actually tall enough, average is 177 here and I'm 174... but I'm 180-182 with hidden heels that I put inside of my socks, plus I'm becoming an ogre/brickwall , my BMI is 25.0 and it was 16 when I was in my popular "phase"

They would prefer you, cause they like soft twink asscheeks

 

[salchipapa]

They don't, they do prefer shorter guys or artsy guys, and I'm actually tall enough, average is 177 here and I'm 174... but I'm 180-182 with hidden heels that I put inside of my socks, plus I'm becoming an ogre. My BMI is 25.0

If it's for the bulking trust the bulk and pray for the cut. Also faking height would be complicated once you met someone and your relationship gets serious. Works for hookups tho

They would prefer you, cause they like soft twink asscheeks

Brutal
I don't think I look like a twink tho

 

[Ceisriel]

If it's for the bulking trust the bulk and pray for the cut. Also faking height would be complicated once you met someone and your relationship gets serious. Works for hookups tho

Don't plan to ever cut, I'm tired of being victim weight, but I will recomp, trying to maintain the same weight while getting leaner (once I get to around 90kg 205lbs)
Never had a hookup, It would probably fix my mental health if it happens at least once... I need some egomaxxing.

I don't think I look like a twink tho

You low key look amazing, perfect jawline and chin, but still a twink.

 

[salchipapa]

Don't plan to ever cut, I'm tired of being victim weight, but I will recomp, trying to maintain the same weight while getting leaner (once I get to around 90kg 205lbs)

Good strategy given your height I think 80kg could be enough, you will see yourself as you progress tho

Never had a hookup, It would probably fix my mental health if it happens at least once... I need some egomaxxing.

Well then lifts will help you

You low key look amazing, perfect jawline and chin,

Thanks bhai but light is frauding my skin smoothness

but still a twink.

Brutal

 

[Ceisriel]

Good strategy given your height I think 80kg could be enough, you will see yourself as you progress tho

Nah I'm top heavy... ridiculously top heavy, Jhonny Bravo level of top heavy, so I can gain a lot of weight on my legs without looking too extreme.
Look at this guy:

Darren Saddler, the Pocket Rocket, 173cm x 105kg or 232lbs.... doesn't look "fat" but it's neither a bikini competitor, I like that type of build. He probably takes roids because he competes but I think 90kg natty is achievable for someone my height.

Thanks bhai but light is frauding my skin smoothness

always fixable

Brutal

mostly because of your youthful look and pretty boy face

 

[salchipapa]

Nah I'm top heavy... ridiculously top heavy, Jhonny Bravo level of top heavy, so I can gain a lot of weight on my legs without looking too extreme.
Look at this guy:

Darren Saddler, the Pocket Roccket, 173cm x 105kg or 232lbs.... doesn't look "fat" but it's neither a bikini competitor, I like that type of build. He probably takes roids because he competes but I think 90kg natty is achievable for someone my height.
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His face is very bloated, but he's 15kg above your weight goal too. You will probably be graduating as you get heavier to get a balance between face and physique

 

[Ceisriel]

His face is very bloated, but he's 15kg above your weight goal too. You will probably be graduating as you get heavier to get a balance between face and physique

do you have a goal fisic? also what did you vote for the girl?

 

[salchipapa]

do you have a goal fisic?

the most better face without looking like a skeleton like Jordan barret
I'm trying to better my frame tho

also what did you vote for the girl?

Marry but as joke "I can fix her"
Tbh I wouldn't date her even if she gave me a chance, better Virgin than with someone like her description

 

[Kaari]

and what would you rate yourself?

I love non NT women ngl
like wifey

HELL NO

I only prefer non-NT women because they can put up with my autism (it’s over) rofl

 

[neymar]

Summary​

Rachel is the quintessential mid-20s professional woman living in a major Western city. Despite her carefully curated image and packed social calendar, her efforts often feel unfruitful. Her obsession with networking events and maintaining appearances leaves her overworked, underwhelmed, and still searching for the Chadlite man she idealizes. While her life appears polished on Instagram, her romantic frustrations and inability to form deep connections highlight the hollowness of her meticulously planned lifestyle.

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Category	Details
Age	26
Location	Lives in Manhattan, New York City (Lower East Side or Williamsburg, trendy but not ultra-luxury).
Ethnicity	White (Anglo, Western European or Ashkenazi Jewish).
Family & Independence
Parents	Upper-middle-class suburban family from Westchester, NY. Parents occasionally help with rent or vacations.
Moved Out	Left home at 22 right after college for her first NYC job. Initially lived with roommates; moved into her own 1-bedroom at 25.
Education
Degree	Bachelor’s in Communications, Public Relations, or Marketing from a private university (e.g., NYU or Boston University).
Academic Life	Was moderately active in student organizations and networking events but not academically exceptional.
Sorority	Yes—joined a mid-tier sorority in college. It boosted her social media following to 2,000–5,000 followers.
Social Circle
Core Friends	Maintains a tight-knit group of 6-8 close female friends, all of whom share her lifestyle. Often posts group brunch selfies.
Broader Network	Knows around 30+ acquaintances through networking events and former sorority sisters.
Instagram	16,500 followers. Carefully curated feed with travel pics, brunch flat lays, and “empowerment quotes.”
LinkedIn	Actively uses LinkedIn. Posts articles about women’s empowerment, her latest job milestones, and workplace productivity tips.
Career
Job	Marketing manager at a mid-sized fashion or lifestyle brand (e.g., skincare, boutique hotels). Well-paid but not groundbreaking.
Salary	$75,000–$85,000/year. Struggles to save due to her lifestyle but justifies every expense as “networking.”
Career Attitude	Career-oriented. Believes in work-life balance but spends free time at work-related events to “get ahead.”
Networking Obsession
Events Attended	Attends 2-3 events per week outside of work hours: business mixers, wine-and-paint nights, after-work climbing classes, and pottery workshops.
Goals	Secretly hoping to meet a high-value man but claims it’s for professional development. Feels frustrated when 90% of attendees are women.
Energy Level	Constantly exhausted but overcompensates with espresso martinis and green juice. Complains about not getting enough sleep due to her packed schedule.
Hobbies
Fitness	Boutique fitness classes (e.g., SoulCycle, Barry’s, hot yoga). Spends $400+ monthly on memberships and supplements.
Travel	Travels to Mykonos, Bali, or Italy 1–2 times a year. Posts heavily filtered pics with captions like, “Manifesting the life I deserve.”
Social Media	Instagram Stories feature curated workouts, matcha lattes, and “fun but sophisticated” nights out.
Music Taste	Playlist includes Sabrina Carpenter, Chappell Roan, Ariana Grande, Taylor Swift, Lizzo and Dua Lipa. Adds “indie” tracks such as Sufjan Stevens to seem cultured.
Pop Culture	Loves Emily in Paris, Sex and the City, and feminist podcasts like Call Her Daddy. Dabbles in TikTok trends.
Physical Description
Height	5’5” (166 cm). Averages out among her peers but always wears heels to add a few inches.
Build	Slim-athletic. Toned arms and legs, slightly visible abs. Works hard for a socially approved body.
Skin Tone	Neutral light olive. Uses high-end skincare like La Mer and chemical peels to maintain a radiant glow. Loves tanning.
Hair	Glossy, balayaged in caramel or honey tones. Always styled in loose waves or sleek ponytails. Salon visits every 6-8 weeks.
Face	Low HTB (Harmonious but forgettable, no striking features). Symmetrical features, subtle fillers, and a narrow nose.
Makeup	Heavy “natural” look. Charlotte Tilbury bronzer, glossy nude lips, and perfectly blended eyeshadow. Professionally-tinted and lifted lashes, microbladed brows.
Romantic Life
Dating Style	Serial dater.
Body Count	28 men. Initially intended for meaningful connections but increasingly casual due to ghosting and frustration.
Ideal Partner	Dreams of a Chadlite/Chad: an ambitious, high-value young professional man with a white-collar job who is also emotionally available.
Reality	Frequently ghosts or gets ghosted. Most matches who do respond are low HTN or MTN men from apps like Hinge or Bumble.
Attachment Style	Anxious-Preoccupied. She chases unavailable men, overanalyzing every interaction. Struggles to see her own patterns.
Lifestyle
Apartment	Rents a 1-bedroom in a trendy area. Gray sofa, white furniture, and rose gold accents. Constantly complains about rent prices.
Weekends	Brunches, boutique fitness, and wine bars. Fills downtime with Instagram scrolling or Netflix.
Finances	Living paycheck to paycheck but refuses to cut back on boutique fitness, skincare, or events.
Self-Perception
Self-Talk	“I’m independent and ambitious. I just haven’t found someone who matches my energy yet.”
Reality	Seen as polished but forgettable. Men view her as high-maintenance and emotionally draining without much payoff.

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No, body count is disgusting and i hate girls that do communications
I also prefer non white girls unless theyre blonde

 

[neymar]

I only prefer non-NT women because they can put up with my autism (it’s over) rofl

Theyre the biggest sluts though not even women wanna befriend them

 

[cake]

No

 

[Drownedwithluv]

What the guy above me said.

 

[TonyDr]

28 men. Initially intended for meaningful connections but increasingly casual due to ghosting and frustration.

Seen as polished but forgettable. Men view her as high-maintenance and emotionally draining without much payoff.

Most women destiny

 

[TonyDr]

Disturbing she looks like @girlfailure

 

[Jova]

Most women destiny

Why

 

[TonyDr]

Why

It looks like most women tend to choose the wrong guys to settle down with. Can't delay sex especially if former lovers got the free pass quickier, but hope for a strong pair bond after sex so the guy didn't ghost her. But since HTN+ "owes her nothing" she got ghosted and she can't say nothing about it. Terrible life to be the local pump&dump of busy guys

 

[Jova]

It looks like most women tend to choose the wrong guys to settle down with. Can't delay sex especially if former lovers got the free pass quickier, but hope for a strong pair bond after sex so the guy didn't ghost her. But since HTN+ "owes her nothing" they got ghosted and they can't say nothing about it. Terrible life to be the local pump&dump of busy guys

I don’t get it. She ghosts the hot guys?

 

[TonyDr]

I don’t get it. She ghosts the hot guys?

edited

 

[rand anon]

feminist podcasts like Call Her Daddy.

Lizzo

Red flags

 

[rand anon]

Red flags

Did not see this part

$75,000–$85,000/year. Struggles to save due to her lifestyle but justifies every expense as “networking

Brutally ober jfl, not nearly enough for manhattan, especially with her lifestyle