would you say its normal to feel attraction to someone else while being in a relationship

[Arya]

tbh ive heard many people say its normal and human etc u cant turn it off

but some say if you truly love the person you wouldnt

 

[derpy]

tbh ive heard many people say its normal and human etc u cant turn it off

but some say if you truly love the person you wouldnt

yh i have many times but u shouldnt act on it

 

[Byro]

tbh ive heard many people say its normal and human etc u cant turn it off

but some say if you truly love the person you wouldnt

Idk attraction is normal but acting on it is wrong

 

[Byro]

Humans were polygamous until theistic beliefs came into existence

 

[tami_26]

There’s a difference between recognising someone is attractive and actually liking them or acting on it

 

[chudlite67]

tbh ive heard many people say its normal and human etc u cant turn it off

but some say if you truly love the person you wouldnt

yes its normal

 

[iqmaxx]

feeling attraction is natural
falling in love with someone else is another story though

 

[Glamour]

No

 

[Arya]

yh i have many times but u shouldnt act on it

Idk attraction is normal but acting on it is wrong

feeling attraction is natural
falling in love with someone else is another story though

yes its normal

Do u guys mean u feel attraction but dont do anything or
like you can only tell their attractive but dont feel anything

 

[321niggaandtheone]

tbh ive heard many people say its normal and human etc u cant turn it off

but some say if you truly love the person you wouldnt

Loving someone means you can restrain yourself from acting on those desires, but no amount of love can prevent your biology

 

[chudlite67]

Do u guys mean u feel attraction but dont do anything or
like you can only tell their attractive but dont feel anything

both are normal
the first one is slightly less normal but if u dont do anything abt it then its ok

 

[Arya]

both are normal
the first one is slightly less normal but if u dont do anything abt it then its ok

hmm i woudlnt want my partner thinking that tbh

 

[chudlite67]

hmm i woudlnt want my partner thinking that tbh

i wouldnt either
but u have to accept it is bound to happen especially for a moid

 

[Chifuyu]

tbh ive heard many people say its normal and human etc u cant turn it off

but some say if you truly love the person you wouldnt

It’s normal to find other people attractive when you’re in a relationship.

Acting on it is what’s bad.

 

[Arya]

It’s normal to find other people attractive when you’re in a relationship.

the same way you find your partner attractive?

 

[chudlite67]

the same way you find your partner attractive?

well not to that extent i dont think..

 

[TonyDr]

tbh ive heard many people say its normal and human etc u cant turn it off

but some say if you truly love the person you wouldnt

I interact sometimes with women who could be objectively more attractive than ms.tony by the looksmaxxing forums standards, and tbh i feel no attraction. They are objectively gl women but that's it i'm not attracted to them at all

 

[Chifuyu]

hmm i woudlnt want my partner thinking that tbh

i wouldnt either
but u have to accept it is bound to happen especially for a moid

the same way you find your partner attractive?

Depends on the person. For me, I might see someone and think “they are good-looking”. I can acknowledge it but I would not feel any attraction towards them. I am sort of asexual though so don’t know how many men are similar to me.

 

[Arya]

I interact sometimes with women who could be objectively more attractive than ms.tony by the looksmaxxing forums standards, and tbh i feel no attraction. They are objectively gl women but that's it i'm not attracted to them at all

yeah this is what i meant ig u can tell someones attractive but not feel anything that would be better

 

[Chifuyu]

I interact sometimes with women who could be objectively more attractive than ms.tony by the looksmaxxing forums standards, and tbh i feel no attraction. They are objectively gl women but that's it i'm not attracted to them at all

Oh hey you’re like me except I’m single.

 

[Arya]

I am sort of asexual though so don’t know how many men are similar to me.

sort as in?

 

[chudlite67]

Depends on the person. For me, I might see someone and think “they are good-looking”. I can acknowledge it but I would not feel any attraction towards them. I am sort of asexual though so don’t know how many men are similar to me.

it is very likely that i just have a pessimistic view :3

 

[Byro]

Do u guys mean u feel attraction but dont do anything or
like you can only tell their attractive but dont feel anything

Being attractive and feelings towards them is fine however don’t act on it and stay loyal etc etc don’t pander to them

 

[1894]

When I was with my ex the idea of being attracted to someone else didn’t cross my mind ngl not even once